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things to do besides sex what are some interesting things to do with a boyfriend besides having sex? we've done everything except it but is there any techniques or stuff to make it interesting.. we've been going out for 9 months..thanks
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Go to the movies. Go shopping. Disneyland. You don`t have to be a nympho. ]
spencers. that store is like for sex freaks ;] haha but seriously, they have like massage lotions, games & edible things. none of it involves sex, but it spices everything else up! ]
If you are old enough, rent a porn video. Even if porn is not your thing, it can be very educational as far as positions & different techniques. You can also purchase sexual games, toys & books/guides @ Spencer's or any sex shop. If you are too young, ask your friends for any tips or advice they may have. Or just sit down with your boyfriend & ask him what his fantasies are & go from there. Good luck! :) ]
You mean sexual things to do without intercourse? Well, there's adding food (ie the whipped cream bikini or holding a mint in your mouth while you give him oral), adding costumes or role-playing (French maid, construction worker, etc.). There's writing fantasies for each other. There's teasing each other with both of you knowing that there's not going to be any chance of orgasm. That sometimes makes the orgasm better. There is sensory deprivation, like tying blindfolds on each other. There's exploring bondage or fetishism if that's the way you roll. Watching porn together might be appealing.
Then there's the other stuff, like taking on a community service project together or starting to watch a television series together. Taking up tennis or racketball or bowling. Playing chess, going to amusement parks, etc. There are a lot of things to do. If that's what you meant, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to jump right into the sexual thing if that's not what you were thinking of.
Sabine ]
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