My name is Jessica a.k.a. Gessyka
I love to talk on AIM online, and I love to hang out with friends. I teach myself how to play the keyboard and on it I can play "Fur Elise", "Heart and Soul" with both hands, and a few other songs. My birthday is March 31 1990.
I love to write, draw, play video games. Im not MUCH a tom boy but I like a lot of things that boys like (like skateboarding, video games, hockey, etc.)
I like to help people out very much and I'll help you out as much as I can if you need advice.
I've been through a lot of things, and I'm only 14. Some people think I have the perfect life but in reality, I DO have a lot of problems...
I've had people who passed away, crying all the time, people have told me to kill myself (sluts), I have seen people talk about suicide...I know some people who tried killing themselves, so many things that I'd rather not discuss that are pretty horrible, and a lot of other things now that are on my mind...good and bad and...*cough* puberty too...=(
Oh and I also believe in psychics, spirits (only good) and I'm a Christian Catholic.
MY BFF/Cousin IS RACHAEL! Button Rachael (lol)
Oh and I have a goofy sense of humor but if it's time to get serious, I get right down to it.
E-mail: truevalue53@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA, CT
Occupation: School, babysit (once in a while)
Age: 14
AIM: Infinityo0o (or) Met3oralp
Member Since: November 10, 2003
Answers: 385
Last Update: February 27, 2005
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What do you mean by buy one of what? (link)
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I am 19 years old and have been seeing a girl for 2 and a half years. We recently broke up over christmas but have still been seeing each other because we get on really well as friends. I put my cards on the table so to speak and told her how i feel that i still love her and i want her back. She replied im still in love with you but i dont want to be in a relationship at the moment. When we see each other i keep on saying to her that i will get her back and she agrees with me she says we need time apart. Which i am willing to do if it means i get another chance becasue i really do care about her so much. The only thing i am scared of is there is another lad on the scene whos she assures me they are not seeing each other and just friends which i beleve, but im scared that when we are having our time apart she ends up having feelings for this lad and i wont get her back at all. What is the best way to go about trying to get her back? (link)
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Just wait...for a little. It'll be difficult, but if you feel you've REALLY waited long enough, than move on...because she wouldn't be worth it if she made you wait that long anyway.
Good Luck.
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okay. i'm 13 and of course female.
well, i just meet this really great guy. hes funny, nice, cute. Everything. we've talked and stuff. but i want to hint him that i like him, with out throwing myself to him or just being goofy! How do i hint to him that i like him? (link)
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If you guys are that comfortable with eachother you should tell him when its the best time. Because other than flirting all you could really do to show is is to play with his hands a lot (not like too much), or to hug him or kiss him but I know you're probably thinking that's too much...and maybe it is. If he doesn't realize that you like him then you should let him know sometime...if you're comfortable.
Hope I helped.
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So Im really starting to develop a thing for a friend of mine, but it gets even worse than that. Im 18m shes 15f its not a huge difference but still. She also has a boyfriend putting me in an even tougher situation. Im also pretty sure she doesnt even think of me in anykind of romantic sense, even if she didnt have a bf. I really dont know what kind of advice to even ask for mostly im jsut venting and seeing what kind of comments/advice im gonna get. (link)
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Holy crap some people were really putting you down. I don't think you're a bad person for liking a girl younger than you...because it's really not a big age difference. You will have to wait until she is older...an adult. Unless you WANT TO face statutory rape charges.
But, even if she didn't have a boyfriend and she liked you back, you should definitely wait until she's 18. That will show you respect her enough. If you stop liking her by that time, then you've moved on...but if you don't then you're free to date her as long as she's not a minor.
Good luck with that.
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theres this girl i wanna have sex with so much how do i get to have sex with her or have her wanna have sex with me? (link)
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Ahem...oh you're serious? You want to have sex with her, she wants to have sex with him, he wants to have sex with someone else...it's all a chain really. Ten to one, you're not getting her...unless you respect her. And you have to be in love but no I dont think you care so Ill just stop wasting my breath.
Goodbye.
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i'm in 8th grade and i liked this guy since like.. grade 5 or 6.. sumwhere there.. i was pretty stupid then.. i'd do these stupid pranks on him and i feel really shitty about it and all.. hes acts like a shithead to me and i no that thats my fault but i wanna know wut i can do about it now.. i can't seem to get over him but i want him and me to be friends again.. i cud tell him i'm sorry or w/e but he seems like a really. uh... u no.. like unforgiving kinda guy or w/e i'm totally freaking out! plz help! thx (link)
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Just teall him "Look, it was in 5th and 6th grade that these things happened and we're almost in high school so please just forget anything bad taht happened, because we both know how immature people were in 5th and 6th grade."
Or something like that. Hey...if ya wanna be friends with him ya wanna be friends with him...and the only way he's gonna know is if you let him know somehow. I know you don't want to like beg him to be your friend or anything because that would be kind of freaky. But telling him that you want to be friends isn't freaky at all. Talk to him about it nonchalantly...let him know how you feel and act nice to him.
Hope I helped.
Good Luck.
~*~Gessyka~*~
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It's those kind of things you only hear about in movies.. I've always been gah gah about my neighbor(who i've known since i was three) named Jared. He gave me my first kiss and he's leaving high school this yr. Which im gonna break down when he's gone! I've told him before i care about him, and he just doesn't want to ruin our friendship, some peole i know think were going to get married after college but the way its going i just can't see it! i mean i would anyday lose my virginity to him, thats how strong my love is for him. (i'm a type a girl who's waiting for marriage usually) Is there ANYTHING i could do to make him see he cares too? Cuz i know he does. Or am i just suppose to let go... plz share your thoughts on my story! Thank you SO much! (link)
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Awww...
Don't let him go.
If he likes you too then tell him how you feel. That's all I have to say. Tell him that he wouldnt know if it would ruin the friendship if he doesn't give it a chance...then kiss him. (okay, okay you may not want to go that far)...but if you want to you should...after all, he's kissed you before...
TIMES RUNNING OUT!...go get him =)
*pushes you towards him*
good luck...oh wait you probably dont need it....
_-*Gessyka
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hi. i'm a 16/f and when i masterbate, i think of girls. i look at pics of girls. not guys, girls. but i still like guys!! am i..gay? (link)
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No, probably not...don't worry about it. I mean, it's normal and maybe you're curious...
Just don't worry about it...
hOpe I helped.
Gessyka~
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Hey, my girlfriend and I are really close and i love her so much but lately she doesnt seem as interested in me as her friends, i don know maybe its just me but it feels like she doesnt like hanging out with me anymore, even though i know she loves me. please help me. (link)
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Girls are like that. Yes, she loves you...but no matter how much a girl loves you she still needs her own space. It's not that she's annoyed, and I'm not saying that you're crowding her...but every girl is like that.
Just call her up and treat her to a movie or something...or sit down and talk somewhere and hang out.
Good Luck...
Don't feel bad about it...=)
Gessyka_-*
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hey i just asked u the question about me and my friend john. hes really nice and sometimes he pretends hes like going to hit me with his chair, and his arms broken and like he acts like hes gonna hit me with his cast and stuff.. (link)
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Just jokingly right? lol...he's probably flirting the way boys always do...unless he actually hits you it's nothing to worry about...
hehe...just have a little fun and tease him back...but if he's getting aggresive and really actually tries to hit you then tell him to stop or tell someone or something...
~Gessyka~
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ok i have this guy friend,john, well john knows A LOT about me and we've been friends since like may, or something but anyways, he knows things about me that my friends that i've had since headstart and kindergarten dont even know! and hes like really hot and he has a girl friend and all but me and him are REALLY good friends, and anyways, the other day in class the was i was standing i could look at him and he wouldnt know, but im pretty sure i seen him checking me out, i mean he like looked at me from head to toe.. and he knows i think hes cute and all..please tell me what this could mean!!! im 14 female
*-*ShAtTeReD drEaMs*-* (link)
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Maybe there's a possibility that he could have feelings for you. Just don't read too much into it yet. Guys check other girls out naturally...whether they have a girlfriend or not..I mean, I know that sounds wrong but it doesn't mean they like the girl all the time...maybe they just like the girl's style or something...you get what I mean?
Maybe he could like you...I mean, he KNOWS you think he's cute...and if he knew that and didn't like you he wouldn't be giving you any hints as checking you out like that...
Sorry if this is confusing...but I hope I am helping so far.^
How is his attitude towards you? Does he joke around with you and all of that?
You said he knows a lot about you...that's definitely a plus...
No matter if he likes you or not, DO NOT go out with him while he has a girlfriend (obviously)...but, guys are very confusing. He could like you, but then again he could haev been looking for a totally different reason...or maybe he didn't realize what he was doing as he was staring...
But the way you described it DID seem like he realized it, so just smile at him in school and stuff and see if he realizes. You don't have to necessarily flirt (since he has a girlfriend and all) but if he smiles a true smile back...who knows? He may just like you...
Just again, don't read too much into it...since he has a girlfriend and all...
But good luck..
I really hope I helped
=) Gessyka
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i dont have a boyfriend for my prom and i dont have any friends that are guys (or girls) to go with either ... I know its early but Im not gonna get a b/f cause i dont really want one but i want ot go to prom but nor alone!! help (link)
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You have to be outgoing..that's the only way. I'm not outgoing or anything...but, just ask a boy you like or make some friends and ask if they're going and who they're going with...you can always meet some people there or something...
Good Luck
*hugs*
~Gessyka_-*
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Hey, I was on vacation n i lyked this guy that was always having sex n stuff n i dont talk to him ne more n my frens still do but they wont give me his number or sn. Now that i have a boifren my frens r saying hes asking about me n saying that he wants me to go outside my confort zone and do stuff with him if u noe wut i mean. but i still lyk him a lil bit but my fren told that to my boy fren n now there both questioning me? N i think its my frens fault but its mine too i think? wut shood i do? (link)
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Forget about him...all he wants is sex, that's clear to see....
Stay with your boyfriend and be happy.
Bottom line^
~Gessyka_-*
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My husband is almost 40, I am just 34. We have been married 10 years but have known each other for 18 years. Sex was always good between us. Lately we haven't had any. I keep asking him if there is someone else in his life because a man can't go as long as he does without it. He says no, he just doesn't need it. I do and have considered leaving him because he doesn't meet my needs. When we do have it, it's almost like it's a chore for him. How can I deal with this? Is it possible there is someone else? (link)
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You should try talking to him. Not just about why he hasn't been sexually active, but also about his feelings. Maybe he's very distraught about something and he just hasn't been able to talk to you about it...
Just because you two haven't been having sex does not mean there's another woman involved..of course there's always the possibility open adn I would have to actually know the two of you, but other than that I doubt it.
I mean, woman have a lot of troubles but so do men...I know it may seem it but men ARE NOT all the same. Some have more things going on in their mind than just little guilty pleasures or other little things...maybe he's really suffering inside...or maybe not.
You should talk to him. Really...just open up to him adn try to get him to open up to you...see what happens. Talk to him and don't keep the conversation based on sex but if you feel the need to add it in briefly than you can...
Whatever you think is best...
Good Luck.
~Gessyka_-*
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My ex-girlfriend and i broke up a while ago. I didn't want to break up, but we did. I thought i would be ok with it after a while, but i'm not. Every time i see her i wish we were still together. It's hard for me to hang around her or even think about her as just a friend. How can i get over her and just be her friend? (link)
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You're going to have to figure that out yourself...I know this sounds like sucky advice but there's hardly any ways people can tell you to get over her...
I'm not going to lie it will probably be hard for you...but I'm sure once you allow yourself to move on everything will go smoothly..date some other girls and try to get your mind off of her..
Also, make sure you still keep in touch with yoru ex-girlfriend no matter how strong the feelings you have for her are..you shouldn't allow yourself to hold back and miss out on a great friend..
----->> PLUS, if you avoid her all because you have these feelings for her still, it will hurt much more...I know this sounds strange but being around her maybe can help you to get over her a little..ya know?..you'll realize that she's moved on and she still cares about you as a friend...
Good Luck to you...xo's
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You see, whenever I fly on airplanes, I usually get airsick, and I begin to throw up. But just a few months ago, I didn't throw up, so I was pretty happy. But last week, I just found out that my bf's mom invited me to Las Vegas, so we're taking a plane. I'm really scared that I'll throw up. AND I don't wanna be ashamed. What should I do to keep me from puiking? It seems so uncool typing this on an advice column but no one knows who I am anyways. (link)
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okay you should really take some Tums adn some saltine crackers...that helps to keep your naseous-level down...
Try falling asleep on the plane so you won't focus so much on your airsickness...
You may have grown out of this...who knows?? Warn your boyfriend if you feel comfortable enough...
I'm not good with this type of avice I've never been on a plane yet..but good luck and see if there are some light medicines to sooth your stomach aches on the plane...
Good Luck
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i knew this guy for a couple of months and we really seemed to become great friends. we even had some type of conection. but a few months ago he just stopped talking to me. i thought we were friends, and then he just left. hes never on the computer and i dont know his new phone number. and his nephew wont tell me anything! how do i get ahold of him how can i get him back?! (link)
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Whats his name? Look it up in the phone book...I dunno if you're going to the same school as him next year but if you are DON'T LET HIM GET AWAY..
Good Luck..and once you see him or talk to him again don't let him get away..
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Okay so I just back from camp rioght, well i have aboyfriend and I really do like this boy I met and He likes me , What should I do???
PLZ help (link)
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All I have to say is if you don't like your boyfriend anymore DON'T lead him on...and DON'T cheat on him.
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ok uhmm im 14 and a female this boy lets call him * mike * well me and him go out and with every other boy i`ve ever went out with i seen almost everyday and i dunno maybe im just scared to see him i mean we.ve been going out for a month and we havent even kissed yet =\ we never see eachother but i like him alot
+ one day he asked me a ? _ if i shave my - - u kno and i didnt kno what to say because well i trim it up lol but if i say that do you think hes going to be like ew? PLEASE HELP
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DOn't answer...just kinda look at him and walk away. OR tell him straight out that's private...
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i really like this boy!
Hi my name is Jessica Im 12 yrs old and i really like this boy. We dated for about 8 and a half months then we broke up. But I went out with another boy about 3 weeks after we broke up but i realized when i was going out with my new b/f that i missed my ex so much so i dumped him now i want my ex back and now hes saying he doesnt know if he still likes me and maybe he might go back out wth me. What should i do (link)
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Don't wait for him...you shouldn't have to WAIT that long for a boy...if he doesn't even KNOW if he likes you know I wouldn't wait on him because meanwhile there's other guys out there who maybe batter for you.
Then again if you REALLY feel like you would wait forever for him...that's your choice...
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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