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i need advice
ok uhmm im 14 and a female this boy lets call him * mike * well me and him go out and with every other boy i`ve ever went out with i seen almost everyday and i dunno maybe im just scared to see him i mean we.ve been going out for a month and we havent even kissed yet =\ we never see eachother but i like him alot
+ one day he asked me a ? _ if i shave my - - u kno and i didnt kno what to say because well i trim it up lol but if i say that do you think hes going to be like ew? PLEASE HELP
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You dont have to go into detail...i know how you feel i mean you dont want to lie and you dont want him to get upset because you wont answer that question... if i were you i would just say " dont worry its taken care of"
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*janay*
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DOn't answer...just kinda look at him and walk away. OR tell him straight out that's private...
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ok well really, i understand u like him alot but maybe its lust! meaning u think he cute, but not ready for anything else..iknow u go out with him, but thats really not dating, u need to see him more often,but take your time on that kiss..and he shouldn't b all up in your business thats not good!Good Luck
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Well aren't guys all perverts? lol
I wouldn't answer unless he asks again and if he does ask again, just tell him yes so that he can move on.. If you are uncomfortable then jsut say yes and start up a new conversation immediatly. You don;t have to rush into anything that you don't want to do! just let him know you want to tkae it slow if he starts to rush...
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Lol..wow..ya tell him u shave it cuz guys def like that..tell him u leave a lil :-P haha no but babe if ur not ready dont kiss and tell him its none of his business or sumtin
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Well, about the shave thing.. different guys like different things.. amazingly some guys like "bushes", some guys like it trimmed, and some guys like them fully shaved.. its always tough to know what to say in these kinds of situations because you never know what the other person's response to it will be. I would do something like say you were watching a movie or something where there was a "chooch" shot of this chick and say something about her being like trimmed and see what he says, if he doesnt say ne thing ask him if he thinks thats gross, and if he askes why just say you were wondering.. This way you figure out wether or not he thinks its nasty.. Or use reverse psychology, if he askes you that again say "what do you think?"
Yet, i've noticed most guys find hair repulsive so i would just go about telling him that you do shave.. and he probably hopes you do shave for he wouldnt be asking you that question, but then again, that would be lying and if he finds out you dont shave, he'll be repulsed. so i dont know exactly what your gunna do about that!
About never seeing him, if you REALLY want to see him, you should take charge and make arangements to go do something or for him to come over or see if he wants you to come over etc. Im sorry you guys havent kissed yet, but kissing isnt all that big of a deal.. i mean its sweet and all but the whole world doesnt revolve around kissing -lol- and if you really want to kiss him.. then *nike* just do it! tehehe.. i dont see why you'd be scared to see him, i mean he is your boyfriend but i understand people get nervous.. and the only way to overcome that is to see him often! IT WILL DO YOU AND HIM BOTH SOME GOOD! well i hope that helps even a little bit, if you have more questions, just ask again!hehe!
<3 hugs -n- kisses <3
.x. mina .x.
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