My name is val, i just graduated high school. I have the best boyfriend named Zack, and im 18 years old. I'm going to junior college and will eventually major in speech pathology.
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I had sex with my girlfriend for the 6th time today, and she bleed a little.. and she just told me that i popped her cherry and it wasn't her period. but she's used tampons and she has already had sex with another guy before me... so is it possible that i really was the first to pop her cherry?? (link)
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you can, because a lot of ways can pop girls' cherries. even inserting a tampon can pop it. i would think that the first guy would have popped it, but it can be possible.
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Ok im 16 years old and me and my girlfriend live like 3 hours apart ya its hard and the first time she asked me out i told her i wont be able to see her that much and everything and she said she was fine with that well now we fight almost everyday because she cant see me what do i do its hard. (link)
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It might not be what you want to hear but...
if you fight this much, maybe it's not worth it. And if it's because of the distance, it's not like you can move to be closer to her. I think you should at least take a break. Long-distance relationships are really hard, maybe there's someone else. But if that really isn't something you want to do, you'll find another way, if you really want this to work out with her.
Hope it helped,
16/f
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I have a boyfriend that I have been with for two years. However, for the past 6 months or so our relationship has been really boring. We never go out, he never has any money, and all he wants to do is sleep on my couch and call it "spending time with me". He refuses to go back to college and try to get a better job so he can move out from his parents. I mean, he is 24! The flip side of this is that I have thought that I love him. he claims to want to get married and I'm gonna feel bad for hurting his feelings.
Then I met this other guy. He graduated business school from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. He has a good job, his own house and a freaking life. I broke down and went out with him on a date last night. I had a really good time. He opened doors for me, payed for my dinner, even walked me to my car. The flip side of this is he lives an hour away and I am used to seeing my boyfriend everyday.
So, what I am asking is for opinions. What should I do? Do you think it has the chance of working out with the other guy? I'm not a habitual cheater and I have never done this before. In fact, I feel guilty about it in a certain way, but in a certain way I don't. What do you think? Thanks. (link)
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I recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year because our relationship got soo monotonous. There is no rule in a "relationship" that after a certain point you two have to get married. If he doesn't want to spend time with you where you have fun, it's not worth it, especially if you met someone else. I think if something happens with this new guy, you'll be very happy you got out of the other relationship and the hour distance won't be a problem. It may take some time to get used to it, but I really don't think you should stay with this guy.
Hope I helped!
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I have a problem... like without using girly names i need some other names to call my boyfriend by instead of saying hun all the time. He has so many names for me but i become dumb founded when it comes to callin him something because everything else sounds so girly ( like sweetheart or baby) if you know what i mean? I really need help! (link)
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I kinda have the same problem. So far, I've been mostly comfortable with hun and babe. I'm the same way, baby and honey and sweetie don't feel right when I say it haha.
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Okay I'm 14 years old and this summer has been like the crazziest summer. Okay these are the things I did just in 2 weeks
1.Gave a blow job in a public restroom
2.Had sex in a public restroom
3.Flashed a lot a guys at a public pool
4.Sent nude Photo's to atleast 7 different guys
5.Had a 3some (2 other guys)
6.madeout with a way older guy
7.Did a lot of ohter "things" in public places (link)
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Uh...thats great for you? I really love how this isn't even a question, it's a way to show everyone how much of a whore you are and i dno, get people "jealous"? I hope girlfriends hear about this and confront you or you get an STD. I would say I hope you get pregnant, but I could never forgive myself if that happened, and a child had to grow up with a mother as immature as you, if you would even take care of it.
Hope you like the life you're leading.
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My friend and I like the same guy but he likes me more should I be happy or should I forget about him? (link)
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You know for a fact he likes you right? Well, if he does ask you out, I would ask your friend first, like ask if it would bug her too much if you went out with him. I understand you like him a lot, and I'm happy to hear you want to consider her feelings before you go out with him. If you talk to her about it and she seems totally fine, I think you could go out with him, but if you think she is the slightest bit hurt, I would at least wait a little bit until you go out with him. If you tell him that, he should understand as well.
One last thing: dont EVER ruin a friendship over a guy. It really doesn't sound like you will, but I'm just warning you.
Hope that helped
16/f
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I'm 14 years old and a girl and i'm having so much trouble deciding whether or not i should tell this guy that i like him. i'm very afraid of rejection and even though i dont like to admit i know that i will care what people think about him and I being together. What should I do? (link)
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1. Don't be afraid of rejection, be afraid of regret. If you don't ever tell him, you will regret it. It would be great if he likes you too, but if not, so what? You're 14 and you have nothing to lose by telling him. If he doesn't like you, then you will know and can move on to someone else. It might be hard at first, but it will be worth it.
2. I understand that you care what people think about him. I'm not sure what else to say, but if they are your friends and they know you like him, they should be nice and not say rude things about it. If they are mean to you about the guy you like, what kind of friends are they?
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Alright so ive been dating this girl for about 5 months now and ever so slowly ive started to wonder when to have sex. I dont have much expierence in the dating world and i wanted to know if its too early "to do it" or not. Please help me as i am very confused. (link)
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I think this is a discussion for you and your girlfriend, but it sounds like you respect her, and I'm really glad to hear it. No relationship will be the same, so you need to talk to her. Don't make it sound like that's all you want right now and are forcing her to do anything, show her you respect her. A lot of girls are afraid of being dumped after having sex for the first time. It's not bad to wait, but make sure you both are ready. Relationships shouldn't be based on sex, so as long as you two love each other very much, you can wait as long as you'd like. Don't feel guilty for thinking about sex with her, and when you talk about it, don't make it seem like you're really anxious, and are using her for sex. (I'm not saying you are or anything, I just wouldn't want her to think you are)
Good luck, and I hope this helped.
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hi, random question but what would you say is a good age for kissing (like on the lips...with a guy you love). plz don't say "any age, as long as your ready" caz that's not what i want. when did you kiss? what's a really common age? (link)
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Sorry, but what you said not to say is what came to mind, but I'll say more lol. I don't think you have to completely love someone with all your heart to kiss them tho, (that's what sex and marriage is for) but you need to like them. I had my first kiss at 15 and my boyfriend (who is still my current boyfriend) was 17. I think you should be at least....13 or 14 to kiss someone, because I think some 12 and under is way too young. If I had to guess a number, I'd say 14-17 is a common age for a first kiss. I can't really say tho an age, because it's more of a feeling between the two people, and how long you've gone out. I'm not sure that helped, but I really hope it did.
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14/f. My friend with benefits, Brandon, is telling me he loves me. Yet the reason why Brandon is a friend with benefits is because he has a gf. But it gets better! I figured out why he was telling me he loved me. He was telling me it so he could get into my pants. I was really pissed off at him after that. But Brandon is 16 and, as I said before, I am 14. But the question is, should I talk to him anymore? And am I just the girl on the side that whenever he isn't getting what he wants from his gf, he looks to me? I mean, I am a virgin and I am really afraid of losing my virginity, and Brandon knows this. So why does he keep on trying to take away from me? I am really confused, can someone help me? (link)
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PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE! do NOT lose your virginity to him. He is telling you he loves you, yet he is with another girl?!?! Why does he need a friend with benefits if he is with someone? I'm glad you know that he is pretty much using you for things, and trying to use you for sex. I really hope you choose not to have sex with him. Lose it to someone you can see yourself being with forever, and that you're going out with!! Don't have sex with someone that you don't without a doubt love, who isn't with another girl. Please take everyone's advice and don't talk to this guy anymore.
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13/f
i like this guy, lets call him S.
Next month i will be a freshman, but it is not intill late next month intill i get to see him.
about 3 weeks ago his gf broke up with him. So i have not flirted as much as i wanted too becuase i figured that he would like so time to think. But now i want to step up and i would like it if he was interested in me.... but i dont know for sure if he is or not... we talk by myspace. Is there anything that i can say to hint that i like him? or that he can hint to me?
i want to know if he likes me, but i am to shy to ask... HELP PLEASE. (link)
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I'm really happy to hear that you care enough, to wait until he's over that girl and ready to move on. First, I would get his number, and give him yours, and ask to go to a movie or somewhere. It might be awkward at first (well I was always afraid of that) so you can do stuff in groups, so it's not totally obvious you like him. After that, you can casually ask to do something alone. I can understand that you're shy, almost everyone is lol. You can always do the usual -go to a scary movie and jump and 'accidently' grab his arm'- thing. lol sorry, it's corny i know, but it's all I can think of.
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Okay, I understand it's really hard to do, but maybe have your friends become friend with him as well? Maybe they can ask to do group activities with you, and you can build up the courage to ask him to do something, just the two of you? Or maybe he'll ask you after you get to know each other?
Hope that helped,
(16/f)
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ok my friend keeps saying he likes me and he is going out with my friend she is clueless on this whole ordeal and i really like the guy and this always happens to me and hes telling me to wait for him for like 5 more months but he is wanting to kiss me makeout with me hold hands etc. and i just dont no if i should tell the friend or not and should i tell him i loe him to cause i kinda do. (link)
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1. how good is this friend, to where you dont tell her that her boyfriend wants to be with you??
2. why 5 months?
If he wants to kiss you while going out with your friend, what makes you think in five months (i assume he'll dump her and go out with you then?) he wont do the same thing to you, and do things with other girls? I really dont think he's worth it, and i know you like him, but hes not considering your friend/his girlfriend. If he likes you more, and can see himself with you, he better leave the friend and be with you. I would like for you to be with a guy thats respectful of you and your friends as well, who wont cheat or lie, and I dont know this guy enough, but from what i hear, he isnt the right one for you.
Do what you'd like, but I hope in the end you're happy and think of this friend of yours.
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so im dating this boy and hes like 2 years younger but none of my friends no that yet. but im afraid if they find out they will laugh what should i do?
o i do like this kid a lot (link)
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Don't worry about age, as long as you like him, it should work out. If people don't like that he is younger than you, they don't respect your decision. It's your choice who you go out with. A lot of people see age as a level of maturity or "coolness", but I very much disagree. My boyfriend will be 18 soon and I recently turned 16, and my parents HATE the fact that he will be two years older and they think he will automatically pressure me for things. Age is a number, and if people don't respect your decision on going out with him, they obviously don't respect you.
(By the way, look at adults age differences, my parents are like five years apart. As long as you like the guy, that's all that matters.)
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ive only kissed somone with my mouth open probally like twice and it wasnt even for long.
i liek this boy and if i makout with him i KNOW ill be nervous expacally because he has hooked up with sooo many girls. can someone give me some good tecniques i wanna make it memorable and i want him to just want more and something we wont forget for a while type of kiss.
advice please ! (link)
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First of all, and I'm sorry if you've heard this a million times, but you have a ton of time to kiss a guy. I can't really say how to make out with someone, but if you really like them, they can understand if it's not a romantic movie (like The Notebook, for instance) kind of kiss on the first time. If he really likes you, he won't compare you to other girls.
My boyfriend and I sucked at it at first, but after a couple times we got the hang out it lol. You've seen movies, and sorry if they've gotten you nervous and possibly intimidated, but I wouldn't worry about it. I was at first, but then I felt silly for thinking like that.
Lol it's like you hear all the time with sex: no one is good on their first time. You have your whole life ahead of you, don't spend it worrying, because when the guy comes around, you won't even think about it when you go in for a kiss, if you truly like him, that is.
And think about it, when you're old and married, you can laugh about how silly it was to be nervous!
Hope it helped
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This guy that I met about a year ago got my # and started texting me a lot, but I was already in a relatinship at the time. When my relationship ended, about two weeks later he asked me to hang out with him. Well, it ended up we started dating but only for a month and then he dumped me and gave me a stupid reason for it. We still talked after that, but only as friends.
Just recently, he asked if I was seeing anyone and I told him about the guy I just started dating a couple weeks ago. That's when he told me the "true" reason he dumped me before, in which it was not really his fault, but he was extremely apologetic. And then he asked if we could start over, but I told him I had moved on, and so he said that whatever happens will happen.
The problem is, now he texts/calls me pretty consistently throughout the day, as if I am all he thinks about. Is it possible that this guy could just be trying to get back with me because he wants sex? Because when we were dating, he would bring it up and I would tell him I wanted to wait. My first inclination was that he was only in it for sex, but now that I think about it, if he only wanted sex, then he wouldn't be spending all this time waiting on me because there's plenty of girls willing to hook up with a guy around here. Should I consider him? (link)
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Was he understanding when you said you wanted to wait? Or did he just get upset and not listen? If you could see youself with him again, i guess you could try it, but not if you really like the guy you're with now. Don't dump him if you have any doubts about this other guy. If you do go with this guy again, make sure you're very clear on what you want (and I'm sure you were the first time). If you think he is being honest when he says you are all he thinks about, I guess you could try it, but think about the guy you are with now.
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okai so I only have 2 weeks of school left and i really wanna talk to this guy i like.
he seems like he likes me as well because he looks quite often and always seems happy to see me. the thing is that hes a year above me and we've never talked :P
i get soooo nervous around him .. i cant even look him in the eye when he's walking by me (he always looks at me tho). I can only look at him when hes far away :/// and his best friend used to fancy me but it never turned out good so im also scared to look at him when his friend is next to him :/
i really wanna talk to him on the bus or something but i get sooo nervous, and i really want him to like me (since he doesnt really know my personality too well)
so how can i talk to himwithout throwing up in his shoes? hahaa.
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thanks
xx
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Well, I obviously say don't walk up to him and introduce yourself and say you like him, you just think he's cute from what I hear. Try to get to know him as much as you can so you don't freak him out, and so you can be sure he's not a jerk or anything. Do you have any friends that are friends with him? If not, (before you eat a meal) go up to him in introduce youself. I'm sure if you are very friendly and smile, he should do the same back.
By the way, you get out of school really late!!
One last point-- don't worry about the age difference! That doesn't make them any different, they'll just be able to do things sooner, like get their license (I'm not sure how old you are, sorry), and graduate.
Hope that helped! And I know it's hard to tell someone you like them, but whatever happens, you'll be glad you did it.
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well us girls and boys know when you like someone you cant get enough of them and you like this person so much that you would do anything for them. i feel this about this certain boy and the sad thing is im not sure if he likes me to. we flirt allot but theres this other boy who flirts with me too and hes always getting in the way like he doesnt want us to get together as soon as me and this boy get close he always buts in what does this mean and what shall i do about this boy who i think i love? thankss guyss L.y x
asl-13/f/uk (link)
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Well it's obvious the other guy is jealous, and wants you to spend time with him. Do you like him at all, or are you focused on the first guy? If you think you love this boy, go for it and tell him! There's nothing to lose, and if you think he likes you, you won't regret it. If he doesn't, you're too good for him and can move on, look at other guys, maybe even the other one who flirts too? I know a lot of people will tell you to just tell someone you like them, but it can be really hard, I understand, but I did and I don't regret it. There was a time I told someone I liked them, and it didn't work out how I hoped, but it gave me more confidence.
Hope that helped!
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