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I dont kno him this guy likes me. He calls me like 4 times a week and we talk for like hours, If he likes me i dont want to hurt him cuz i dont like him that much. I have a bf and i want to tri to make this work. But this guy is talking to me alot and i might start having feelings for him. So i dont kno if this guy likes me or he might just like me as a friend. I dont want to break up w/ my bf just bc he likes me. But im not sure if he likes me.
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What I think would be best fitted for this situation is make sure he knows that you have a boyfriend, and he should respect that. Tell him not to take offence to it or anything, and just remember that you ARE allowed to have friends that are guys during a relationship.
good luck
DREW
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Ok, i had a boyfriend and we were totally in love, but we barely saw eachother (once or twice a month) because we both went to different schools and were in all honors and ap classes (aka TONS of hw). In the end he ended up breaking up with me because "I love you, but i really cant b attached to someone right now." We still ended up being best friends, but about a week ago he told me that he had never told his mom about us breaking up, and i asked him y. He told me that it was because he still loved me (after 2 months), and that he could never take down the picture of us that i gave him for valentines. We're going to the same school next year, and he wants to get back together then....should i go for it because i love him...or just not put the used gum back in my mouth? (link)
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What i think you should do is sit back and let what is meant to be happen. I mean still call him and hang out, and when the dreaded time comes for all of us to go back to school, i think you will have a pretty good idea of what you want to do. If it was me, i think id give the used gum a lil try again ;)
hope i helped!
drew
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So me & this guy were going out.. it had been going great and all but his ex girlfriends were real bitches!! but anyways.. so we ended up braking up because he got suspended and got grounded for the whole summer. He's usually aloud to go to his best friends house (dont ask me why) even if hes grounded but he couldnt even go there.. so we decided to brake up. but see the thing is that about a week into summer (we broke up about a week before school ended) he was able to go to his friends house again. and about three days after that he wasnt grounded anymore.. i saw him at the carnival all over his ex girlfriend (the bitchy one) but he calls me once and a while(we were friends before we went out) but it just seems like i was someone to try and get over his ex and not someone who he really cared about. is he a jerk.. or what? (link)
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yeah, you hit the nail on the head. a true class act asshole. I hate to be the bearer of my worst case opinion, but i think he gave u a line of horse crap so he can get back w. his ex. im so sorry, ik how it feels. i hope i helped, and if theres anything u need, uk where to drop it. hope i helped
drew
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I have this ex-girlfriend, ok? And see what happened is she just broke up with the guy that she broke up with me for. And I'm kinda worried that she might try to go back out with me just because I'm their and I'm familiar. Plus we also were lightly flirting last time we were together, which was about a month ago so I think I'm safe. What should I do to let her know, without a doubt, that I won't get back with her now, but do it lightly so it's not really noticeable? (link)
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I have had the same problem, and i did it two different ways
way #1) "you speaking," _________ , i think we are just better off as friends then bf/gf, do uk what i mean?
Way # 2) Leave her a note saying that even though she is a great person, that you two would be better off as friends than a couple.
hope i helped a lil!
drew
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i have a car and someone keyed it... also, they egged it and put ketchup and sweet n sour sauce on it! ugh! i cant believe someone would do such a thing! also, they put a used pad on it. it had blood on it and everything. SO GROSS! Also, they put a used tampon on top of it. My windows are broken and everything. What should i do? (link)
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Hmm, if youve caught the bastart, LYNCH THEM! but in the high chance that you havent yet, file a police report, and have an officer come look at the damage, dont worry, bc your car insurance will cover it, but just think about who would do this to you and why, and therin lies your perpetrator.
Thanx, hope i helped!
drew
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So, I was reading your advice, and I was hoping you could help me a little..
You see, tomorrow I'm going to see my boyfriend. I haven't seen him in several weeks because I've been out of town. I got my hair cut today and it's will be the first time he's seen it down tomorrow. I'm extremely self conscious, and I'm very nervous. This is a convention of sorts that I'll see him at, but I'm very nervous. I don't know how I should act, dress, etc. Should I be the one to initiate? Or should he? I'm hoping you could help calm my nerves... thanks! (link)
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I think your biggest problem isnt your self consience, i think your just overly nervous to see what your boyfriend thinks of your haircut after several weeks of being apart, theres no shame in that! trust me, ive had my head shaved into a mowhawk for no reason at all. all you have to do is show your boyfriend that your the same you that you were several weeks ago, and i think if he is a good boyfriend, he would tell you your hair looks beautiful before you even could count to ten, even if it did look bad, which i doubt is the case. all you have to do is be yourself, and what helps me do that best ESPECIALLY with my loved one, is just act like hes your best friend, not your boyfriend, and that usually initiates conversation and brings out the normality in you.
Im sure you will be just fine, all thats wrong with you is a severe case of the first sight jitters, dont werry, it happens to all of us!
hope i helped! feel free to drop one in my inbox if need be!
good luck
DREW
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okay so theres this guy that goes to a different school. hes best friends with a lot of my close girl friends but ive only met him about 4 times. i talk to him online all the time and just recently he started liking me. he asked me to go ice skating with him and i accepted. now i'm scared of rushing things too fast and i always have. i'm scared to hold a guys hand and i dont know what to do if he tries to kiss me. please help! I am a 13 year old female! (link)
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Hey! first of all you need to calm down, i dont think i know of a guy who likes a nervous girl! All you have to do is treat him like you dont like him, and be yourself, and as things start to come to you, go with the flow and be real! Everything that is meant to happen will, so just be yourself and let things just naturally come to you, and thats a good thing. Hope i helped.
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I've been with my girlfriend for over 18 months. I'm 19 and female and i just transfered schools. She's 18 and is just going in to college. We're only going to be about an hour apart, but for some reason she thinks she's going to get her heart broken. I keep telling her that we will have to work together to make it work, but for some reason she doesn't think so. Is it possible that she wants out? Can our relationship survive while we're in college? (link)
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I believe that if you two love each other enough (im not doubting you), than you can make it work, i mean, this isn't a long distance relationship or anything, your only an hour away from each other, just make sure to call her every night, and see each other on weekends! best of luck!
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I really like this guy named Mike. Me and my friend Logan went to the movies with him and he held are hand and kissed both of us. Then after that he gave us his number. I was really attracted to him. He asked out my friend Logan but she said no. I really like him and he knows i do but now he likes some other girl. why would he kiss me and hold hands with me and telling me all this stuff on the phone and now likes another girl?
signed,
confused (link)
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Once again, a typical teenage "pimp," im very sorry that you had to experience that, because no girl should be treated like that, and please, a guy like that in 10-15 years will be bumming money off of you for drugs anyway, so just keep yer head up and look for a guy that is worth your love, and once you have him, keep him, because true love is not something to waste.
any more problems feel free to drop one in my inbox
Amore Molto
DREW
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I went to visit my aunt and met this guy and i guess he says he lieks me and when we were in the car he asked when i was going to be his gf and i said i didnt no well i havent seen him for awhile and i call him and talk to him on the phone and i really really like him what should i do becuz i really want to go with him (link)
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Hey, this is all up to you and what your gut feeling tells you to do. If you really like him and you think he will be a good bf, then date him, if u dont really think thinks will work out too well, then just stay close friends until u figure out for sure. You should call him n try to make plans to meet somewhere like the movies or go ice skating or something, theres no harm in that!
much love
drew
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RaTE
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this question is for my friend:
my boyfriend is so sweet. he'd never cheat on me and he never acts Interested in another girls or stuff like that. do you think he could be gay? because he doesn't seem to be interested when girls are wearing skimpy clothes on tv or pictures and id ont think he looks at it on his own. but he gets horny around me. i don't think he is but soemtimes i wonder. (link)
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Sometimes you'll find that guys are very loyal, especially if he is shy at school and stuff, but you cant really tell if he looks on his own unless he tells you. Second of all, i dont think hes gay because hes going out with you unless hes trying to cover being gay up. i bet he is interested in girls in short skimpy skirts n stuff like that but is just too scared to look with you, no offence but im sure he does without u with him.
if u need ta ask me nething else drop one in mi inbox, or im me at HckyAg89 on aim
much love
drew
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hey everyone...ive never had a guy treat me right...they all use me for sex, my body or watever and i dont do nething wit them tho...im pretty every 1 says and alot of guys like me but they r all the same...they ALL even tell me "when u gonna let me hit that" im like never and theyll ask me out n juss wanna fuck...so i kinda juss stopped well im startin h.s this yr and im hoping to meet a guy ther...who will love me for me....the thing is...im going camping on tuesday..i think its a gr8 chance to meet guyz...i juss dont kno wat to say to them if i see a hott one....wat shuld i do? do i wait for one to come to me? do i go up to a guy if i think ill like him? help...i want a bf s0o bad... (link)
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Ok, you have 2 problems that guys will use you for.
1.Your being desperate... you will NOT meet a good guy by being guy crazy and wanting a bf that bad, slow it out a bit n let them come to you, thats what normally happens anyway.
2.If you dont want to be treated like a sex toy for the rest of your life, look a lil beyond the looks and go for the personality, its a sacrifce most of the time worth taking.
if you correct these 2 things, i promise you that over time (like a month) things WILL change.. and standing up against the guys who say such degrading shit to you will help a lil too ;)
much love
drew
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