when ever i talk to a boy, i always talk to them as a friend. when ever i try to flirt i cant. how can i flirt more. what should i say?
Everyone has their own flirting technique, some better than others, but it's all up too you for the most part. Unless you know you like that guy who you are "flirting with", it's not going to work quite as well. Try making a lot of eye contact, smiling a lot. Laugh at the "funny" things he says. You can always try the teasing approach. That can work, but try not too go overboard, because it can get annoying if you do it too much. Try randomly passing notes in class to him, or saying "aww you're so cute" after he says something silly or does something cute. You can flirt in so many different ways, but if your way does not seem to work, then give these a try. - Fallin2Pieces
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wows. picture kicks high ;). anyways, i dont get why losing your virginity ( according to most females) is a big deal. your considered "tainted" if your not a virgin. i think thats complete bullshit, cause its the same idea with driving. once u get in a car and drive...u will never be able to say that u havent drivin a car. is it something emotionally built in women to think that way? i dont get it o.o blueflame :P
Well, sometimes times girls think differently about sex thanx guys. It's really not something you should do with like a zillion people to begin with. Girls have many reasons why they won't do it. It may not be a big deal when you do it, but think about what good happen afterwards, ya know? I mean sometimes guys like to "throw us away like trash" once you guys have sex with us. It's not a good feeling at all and theres also chances of getting pregnant and a many many other reasons. If your girlfriend or who ever does not want to have sex with you then just accept it. They might not be ready or don't want to. What ever the case maybe, relax... it will be ok.- Fallin2Pieces
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Im 15 and have been going out with this guy for over a week now. I thought i liked him at least in the beginning i did, and so i was happy when he asked me out. We talk on the phone every night, and we've hung out twice. But i told him i wanted to take things slow, and the two times we've seen each other outside of school weve been moving fast. I also feel like im always changing my schedule to see him outside of school because hes always with his friends. How can i tell him he needs to make adjustments to his life and tell him i want to slow things at the same time without overwhelming him and making him break up with me?
hmm... ask yourself "what am I doing?" and "Do I really want to live like this?". Usually when you are in a relationship you do change your regular schedule. The best thing to do is talk to him about it. Boys can be silly sometimes, but for the most part they will understand if you just explin to them what you are feeling. It's worth a try.
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this is getting soo messed up. i need your advice again chrissy. she called me back surprisingly (2 fucking days after she said she would lol)but she told me she might be moving in with her sister down here once her sister gets finacially back on her feet again even thought a month ago she said she would never wanna move to florida!?!?!oookay. she asked me how i am doing and out of no where she says "oh i cant wait to come down and visit you and see your room" ... my room ? its like. the fuck with me shed rather see my room.but then she starts to talk like shes flurting with me. i am confused. i think i need some crack t be with her lol. i still hold up my offer for you to come down here for a spankin!!!:)oh and i can handle it!! help meeeee!
Hey sweetie,
Well if she's moving there then that could be a good thing, right? You can hang out more. If you are having so many difficulties with her then maybe she isn't really the one for you, just think about it. You like her a lot, but everytime you turn around you get hurt. Are you willing to put up with everything? Is it really worth it? If you can't have a relationship like that, then just think, there are more fish in the sea. - Fallin2Pieces
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i am really stuck chrissy. i like this girl.. shes a few months older than me, but im not sure what the hell is wrong with her!? for instence some days she will want to talk to me but other days she gives me the impression like she hates me. i dont know what draws me to her but i cant seem to forget a bout her. i call her and have a desently long conversation and she says she will call me bak but she never does!? im mean whats up with that. she did that to me like 5 times. ugh i am confused. sumtimes i wonder if i should just have you come to my house and bend you over my lap and spank you. haha jk any suggestions? being a female yourself maybe you can understand her? thx
Girls can be confusing, but then again boys can be too heehee. Well anyways, with the not calling back thing, maybe she's really busy. You never know, now since school has started and everything maybe she has been busy. Ok I don't want to put you down or anything, but maybe she just likes you as a friend. Does she even know you like her? Find out how she feels about you. If you know any of her freinds, then find out what she thinks of you. If worse comes to worse, just tell her yourself. Girls like guys that "in touch with their feelings", I guess? Sweetie, I'd say talk to her about how you are feeling right now, but try to plan out what you might want to say, cause some girls are easily offended for some reason. Try asking what she has been up to and stuff like that and then add in there about how you feel about her, but don't be too forward about it. If you need further advice, just let me know. Also,you want to spank me? I don't think you'll be able to handle it ; ) lol jk. -Fallin2Pieces
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Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?
It's ok. There is nothing wrong with you. I have freinds that are older than you who haven't had there first kiss yet. These things come at different times. Nowadays, teenagers are in such a rush to grow up and just because you aren't at there "level" doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. People can get there first kiss at any age. It is just the matter of timing. Just relax, you'll find the right girl to kiss. Maybe sooner than you think...-Fallin2Pieces
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Okay...There's this guy that likes me at school. And he's really short well for me anyway because im 5'4 right now. He doesn't bother me at all, but it's his friends. All they do is say things like "Will you go out with him, do you like him, he's in love with you!!". I wouldn't have any trouble with it if they didn't harass me every minute. It's just so distracting because now every time a guy asked me if i like him i scream, "NO I DONT GO THE F- AWAY!" or something real close to it. Im at the end of the rope because it's been happening for osme time now and i cant seem to know what to do! please help me!!! thank you
signed,
stressed out!
Alright, it doesn't matter how tall he is because he'll eventually grow just not now. If you like him to then go out with him, dispite what all his freinds say. If you don't like him then just get on with your life. If his freinds say anything to you just engore it or just go with it or be sarcastic about it then they will eventually stop. That's how some people are. No matter where you go someone is going to say something about you for some odd reason. Just go on with your life and don't let it get to you. It's not worth getting upset over. - Fallin2Pieces
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Ok I was having a convo online with a person i adore and I had my BEST friend EVER over.. I asked him if he liked me as a friend."Hell no" If he was my friends "HELL ya"She asked him Who would he rather go out with (My friend Only likes him as a friend..)He said Tori My friend..
She asked him who was prettyer ME ! But he HATES me Not just a little hate i mean HATE..I dont know what i should say to him ! :(
EWWW... forget him! Don't even bother. It's not worth it. If he's going to sit there and tell you how much he hates then don't let him waste your time.- Fallin2pieces
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okay see my boyfriend lives in georgia and i live in new jersey he so far away... im 13 and he turning15 ... we like each other so much but no one really aproves since we met on the computer and he lives in georgia .. we wanna meet but its a lil hassle ... wat should i do... should i stay with him and meet him or wat?
Ok, I'll admit that there are many very sexy kids in Georgia, but there are a lot in New Jersey, too. You're young, and long distance and teen love, |usually| doesn't last. I'd say, look for a guy that lives around you, but if you really feel like he is worth meeting, then I'd go for it. - Fallin2Pieces
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well here it goes i liked this kid and we started goin out on june 18th i think and we broke up recently...well he was on the fone with me n his best friend grabbed the fone and started dumpin me 4 him and im like ok i got ova it i mean i cryed 4 a good week or longer and im like y did he do that and hes like it wasnt all his fault and im like ok? but ne ways mi friends didnt really like him kinda chubby...but so sweet to me and im havin trouble getting ova him plz help me mi friends think im ova him and everything but i mean i dont wanna make them stress out all 4 me bcuz of him plz help ill rate u Signed brokenhart
A break up is always hard, but getting over them is even harder...it takes time. Try to do things that will take your mind off of him, like going out with your freinds, or doing the things you couldn't do while going out with your boyfriend. Don't worry, you'll eventually get over him, and you'll look and realize that he was never worth the stress. In the mean time, I would recommend the song "Rapid Hope Loss" by Dashboard Confessional. - Fallin2Pieces
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there is this girl and we are kinda together but we are staying "single" through sports seasons in the beginning of the year. She always tells me how she masturbates and and its a turn on for me but how to i ask her if i can do it for her. I dont think she is hinting me on just that she maturbates alll the time and jokes with me about it. We havent done more than making out. what should i do...oh yeah another thing to add is that sometimes she takes things meant to be ba as a joke and sometimes she takes things as a joke personally so idk give me a long response! :)
Hmmm, Well, just making out isn't a bad thing. If you want to go farther, just ask. The worst thing she can do is say "No". Relax, if she dumps you and thinks your a perv, then it wasn't meant to be, which I dout will happen, but you never know these days.-Fallin2Pieces
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OK this might be long but i really need some advice there this girl i really like i talk to her and i told her i like her i but i never ask her out and im in love with this girl before i can ask her out she going out with some1 elese and i still love her and i talk about her every day and think about her every day what should i do
Ask her out before it's too late! - Fallin2Pieces
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I am experianced but like what is a regular kiss, just to show someone u like them...just something u would do on there way out...is it like the kisses in movies??
Let see, it depends on what kind of kiss you're talkin' hahaha, just kidding! Well, if you know you like someone and you have the opportunity to kiss them, and you know the kiss feels good at that time... then they will know you like them. It's hard to explain. It's not the type of kiss, it's how you do it, I guess and also what happens afterwards and NO I don't mean sex lol... you know what babe, you'll just know, as well as the the person you kiss. - Fallin2Pieces
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im 14 years old i havent had my first kiss yet or a b/f yet and im starting to fell like im to fat and ugly and ill never find anyone what should i do about this?
I'm sure you are beautiful just the way you are and I'm sure it's not you. First kisses can come at anytime. It just happens to some people before others. I have a few friends that are older than you, and they still haven't had there first kiss either. Don't sweat it, you still have time. It will happen, I promise. - Fallin2pieces
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Hey i am 15 and i am having some problems. I am in love with this one girl. SHe is everything for me and me and her have such a connection i think but she insist that we are just friends and she doesnt want to ruin that between me and her. But guess what she likes my best friend now. they met when i introduced them i thought it was no big deal but look at it now, they like eachother. My best friends said its my choice but i cant ruin this for him, the girl said its my choice but i cant ruin it for her. idk what to do. they bother know i like her but i am always like, nah its no big thing. what do i do
Hmmm... Sweetie, I would just wait a little while. Teen love usually doesn't last. Just be there for her and support her. Just think of it this way, if it doesn't work out between you and her then it wasn't meant to be. There are a lot of other great girls out there and maybe you found her and maybe you haven't. Love is like a silly game of hide and seek. Love can be anywhere, it just takes time to find it. You're only 15, you both still have time to realize how much you mean to eachother and if she can't see that then like I said, it just might not be meant to be. -Fallin2Pieces
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my aunts best friend had a son and they ALL told me i would like her son and we emindently hit it off!! hes got BABY BLUE eyes and hes gergous!! the prob is ...hes really short im 5'2 and hes a head shorter then me!! we went to an amusement park and it was kinda embarassing to be seen with him!! but then again i wanted to b near him n stuff and im having mixed feelings!! hes the sweetest guy ever and we wentt o my other aunts house for dinner and we wer playin like tackle football hes just soo nice im not afraid to b myself around him i really like him but idk...shuld i juss not kare wat ppl think? i really like him but its kinda embarassing....idk..it sounds mean but ya i need help
Don't worry about it. I used to go out with a kid that was more than a a head shorter than me. Of course I dumped him for that reason, but then again I was 13 and I didn't know what I was doing, no offense. Well anyways, Don't worry about it, you shouldn't care what people think. He'll eventually grow, I promise. For now, don't sweat it. If you both like eachother, then I say totally go for it. - Fallin2Pieces.
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Mi B/f is So0 hoTt n a ToN oF gUrLz lyKe Him..
iM sCaReD heZ gOnnA dUmP mE
HoW cAn I mAkE sUre ThaT He Is/IsNt!?!
I'm in a similar situtation. My boyfriend is hott as well and a lot of girls like him. I'm afraid he'll dump me once school starts, But think of it this way... He obviously liks you if you chose to go out with you and there must have been something about you that he likes. Worry about it when the time comes because it will drive you crazy.
-Fallin2Pieces
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i like this guy...but i have a bf n everytime i talk to this dude i feel so guilty...im so confused on what to do..should i tell this guy to go away...or what? cuz i love mah bf so much yet this guy gives me the attention i need at times when my bf dont? PLZ HELP!
The worst thing you can do is tell him to go away. That's not nice. I'm actually in a similar situation at the moment as well. All I can tell you is to just wait and see what happens. Things will eventually come together. If you like this other be sure that, if you decide you're going to break up with your boyfreind for him, this guy is acutally worth it and really likes you, too because everything can back fire.
-Fallin2Pieces
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