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ok soo i like this boy... alot & i was straight foward with him ... i told him i liked him & when i told him we talked & we always gave eachother hugs& kissed ((only once on the cheek)). & then he bought me in this room in school just me & him & said I know you like me & I like you to but I don't want to go out with you right now because i have basket ball & i wont see you, so were not going out. but it's weird because he always is free on the weekend & i can go to his games & it would also be good because we would have space, but i didn't say anything. & now we never talk & when he sees me he just looks at me. I'm wondering should I give up on him & look for someone else or wait, but i'm also wondering if he even like me in the first place & he was just saying that??

----> confused♥

you shouldn't give up u never know whats instore for u in the year of 2006 if he really likes you give time and he will ask you out

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i am having a problem i am goin out with a boy but sometimes i really like him then sometimes i dnt i dnt no wat to do pleez help me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Gosh i know just how you feel there was this guy i was dateing i was on the brink of breakeing up with him but everyone kept telling me "you'll break his heart" "think about what your doing Danni" so i did i measured out what i liked about him and what i dident he was really cute but he could use a hair cut, He was really sweet but bad at when we had our romantic moments he'd ruin it with a bad joke or say something really stupid like "Does it smell like cheese out here to you" you know dum stuff like that but then i relized no ones perfect and he evened out there were as many good things as bad. I dident break up with him and i talked to him about the stuff that was bothering me and it helped he said "i say stupid stuff cause u make me nervouse" i feel in love when he said that. Think about why you want to break up with him and ask your self does it really bother me that much and if it does talk t him about it. Hope i helped please rate me
Danielle

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ok ive only had sex with 2 guys but im always doin stuff with guys. like with the guys that havnt gotten hand jobs or fingered girls, stuff like that. ive only done this like with 6 or 7 guys.. am i a slut?

no of course not

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there is this guy that i REALLY like. but my best friend likes him to. im not sure what to do. do i keep liking him or do i look for another guy.

well it really sucks to find out that ur best friends likes the guy u like talk to her about it tell her nomatter what happens u to will still be friends u cant help ur feelings im pretty sure she knows that just be happy for one another whoever gets with him. but if u feel that u can move on to another guy then do it save the both of u the stress later =Danielle hope all goes well

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There is this person that I really like, and I am preety sure they like me too. But we both are to afraid to say anything to go out because we don't want to ruin our friendship. What should I do.

if u really want to got out set some standerards like ok if we go out we have to promise to still be friends no matter what see what happens later

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well thanx for answering me back its just that i dont make out wit the guy right away u kno and he trys to tell me he wants to but in different ways like hes like oh u made out wit whatshisface at a party wen u were wasted but im ur bf and u wont make out wit me its just that wen he kisses me he doesnt lk open his mouth so how am i supposed to make out wit him?????

well when u kiss and ur on top of him that is makeing out but talk to him tell him how u feel but i dont think its right for him to bring up liittle incedents that happend while u were wasted and tell him that u were wasted so that other guy was just a mastake and that when u are ready to be entamate with him u want to be sober and that u just want it to be spesial because isent that what every girl wants hope i helped later

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umm when u shave *down there* lol yah do u shave all of it or what..what r u suppose to do??

it's totally up to u

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about a week ago i was talking to this guy on the internet and he was asking me who i liked and i was like idk who do you like and he gave me all these clues that lead up to me then told me that it was me and then i told him that i like him. he is cute and makes me laugh (which i like) but on monday he went on this trip and my best friends bf waS there to. so of course they talked on the phone everynight then one day she told me that while they were talking he asked for my phone # but he hasn't called me yet, should i call him or just forget about him??? im am really confused (14)

maybe he's just been really busy give it an other day or two and if he doesent call u then u call him

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i have this friend who had a bf for almost a year but lets jus say,,, i dunno how it lasted that long.. anyway the broke up lyk 8 months ago and she jus is gettin outta the depressed phase and is thinking about going out with this other guy.. or should i sey boy because she is soo shallow and immiture.. anyway she flirts lyk crazy with him and he barley cares... theyve talked on the fone and stuff but he always has his other friends on the line and ignores her completely.. Ie tryed to give my advice to her and she ses that its not my business and that i shouldnt give my opinion.. she also said that he might change if they got inot a relationship..in my own opinion she is jus desperate to have a bf and i deciving herself into thinking she likes the first guy she sees... i really dont want to see her hurt again.. what can i do???
thnx

Talk to her about this tell her ur sorry if u hurt her feelings but u just dont want to see her get hurt im sure she'll understand help her introduce to other guys someone that will actully appertate thier relainship

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hi

im a 14 yr old female. ive got a boyfriend and hes recently aske me 2 give him a blowjob. im scared my parents will find out

wat shud i do???

wow 14 is young to be doing that kind of stuff maybe ur just not ready for that kind of thing yet mentaly i mean tell him and see what happends

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I'm a 17 Female

There's this guy who goes to my friends church. His name is Collin. Anyway, I've thought Collin was cute for a while and I noticed him looking at me a few times during church and stuff. Well I told my guy friend, Aaron (who's friends with him) about it. Well last Sunday night Aaron went up to Collin and asked him what he thought about me (I didn't know what he was doing at the time. All I saw was Aaron talking to him and Collin smiling a lot.) Well Aaron told me that Collin smiled and nodded and said "Nice" (like he thought I looked good or something). Aaron told me I'd have to start talking to him because he's shy or w/e. Well when I got home he was online and my friend Crystal (whom he barely knows by the way) IMed him.. and asked him what he thought about me, again. And he told HER that he wasn't my type or something like that.. Could someone tell me what he means by this? I mean.. I know he's saying he doesn't think He's my type but.. why did he act like he was interested when my friend Aaron asked him but completely turn the tables when Crystal asked him.. Could it be that he doesn't know Crystal and didn't really want to tell her, or what? If anyone could help me, I'd greatly appreciate it! :)

it could just be a guy thing why would he tell another girl what he thinks about you i think u should stick to what Aaron said and kick crystal out of the picture she'll just mess things up why dont u just talk to him ask Aaron to introduce you to then see what happens

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I like this guy and I really have no idea why.. We have never talked in person but I think he's cute and we've talked on the internet before. Do you think I should take a chance and go up to him and start talking or what ? Im confused...

yes definitly the next time u talk to him on the internet tell him you'd really like to talk to him in person then set up a place to meet and start from there i hope everything works out

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I like a 6th grader and I'm pretty sure he knows but there is no way I can talk to him without barely being able to speak how do I deal?

If u have any classes with himfind an excuss to talk to him like needing heip with class work or write him a note telling u think he's really cool and would like to become friends it's ok he wont bite u just be yourself guys like that later -danni

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i've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 months now and we're both too shy to kiss, we both said we wanted to but neither of us has the guts to make the first move. I don't know how to make a move on him and i'm scared that it'll all go wrong but i'm sick of my friends calling me a fridge. what do i do? :(

The next time you 2 go out when he drops u off give him a hug and just as ur about to pull away stop like right by his cheek then stare him straightin the eyes look away look back and slowly move ur face close to his keep eye contact eventully he'll start moveing in and the next thing u know you'll be kissing. Maybe he's just one of those guys who likes the girl to make the first move. I hope it works out email me back at AskDanni@aol.com to tell me how it turned out later-Danielle

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i have liked this guy(lets call him *B*) for about 8 months. he has changed my life completely around. i like him so much, i can talk to him about anything. and he makes me feel like a princess. he is like the ideal guy. except he has changed me and not for the best. before i used to be the sweetest girl who wouldn't make-out with guys a lot. but now all my friends are like to me "god you spend all your time with him now" and their all like "its not my fault.. cuz *B* is kinda controling" Now last nite my bestfriend told me that eventually i am gonna have to choose between haveing *ALL* my good friends or the GUY!.. but i like him soo much!!!!What should i do?? PLEASE HELP ME!

--troubled

If this guy really liked he would understand u need friend time tellhim no one controls u but u and u miss ur friends and would like to spend more time with them if he gets mad then he's not worth ur time i know it's hard giveing up a guy u really like but there are alot of other guy's out there dont lose ur friends over a guy but do what u feel is right follow ur heart email me at AskDanni@aol.com to letmeknow how all goes later -Danielle

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I really like this one guy, but the bad part about him is that he's a flirt. He is currently single, but he's constantly flirting with girls and he even has a little black book with dozens of girls' phone numbers in it. He's got a very perverted sense of humor and always asks me if I could do perverted things for him involving taking off my clothes. He's just kidding of course, but is this kind of guy worth my time?

if ur not in to that kind of stuff by that i mean kidding around about preverd things then no he is not worth ur time there are alot of other guys out there i know what it's like to like a guy who's abig flirt u feel like if u went out with him u know u cant trust him my advise to u find someone else worth ur time who is'nt so perverted and is interested in the same things u are

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My friend started dating my crush and i dont know how to tell her i've liked him for like 3 years. what do i do?

Tell her it will make u feel much better i know it's hard but she has to know if she's a true friend she'll understand no guy is worth fighting for. tell her ur happy for her and that ur sorry u like him but u cant help ur feelings and that it doesent change anything and u hope u all can still be good friends. i hope it goes well for u email me back to let me know how it went at AskDanni@aol.com

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