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my bf and i last night talked about what we daydream and stuff not exactly text sex/sex put like him taking off my shirt and where i would touch his back and chest and stuff like that. we both really liked it and got turned on and thought it was sexy but the thing is we are really good Christians and we are wondering if it was wrong that we did that. can anyone tell me what they consider this? its not sex but is it 'unholy' i think it might have been kinda bad but i still really liked it. what should i do?? thanks so much :] (link)
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in the christian church it's a sin to masturbate and i would call what you guys did last night masturbation but it's fun soo who cares! if you like it keep doing it! and remember it's always easier to ask for forgivness!
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OK, so my bf and I have been going out for about 5-6 months. This has been, by far, my longest relationship (i'm 13, so yeah...). Me and him always talk on myspace and at school and stuff, but lately, he's just WAY too predictible :/. I hate it but on myspace, we always joke around about how long we will go out and stuff, and say stuff like "well, I'm not going to break up with you so, if we do break up, you'll be the one doing it". Yeah, I know, it was stupid to say that stuff. Anyway, everyone thinks we're the "perfect couple" and part of me wants to see how long our relationship will last, because I have been known for having very short relationships. There are also some things about him that I DO love, but I want to break up with him, yet I don't. Also, there's this other guy. He's really the whole pack, funny, sweet, and everything. I like him a lot (yeah, I know it's bad) but next year, he's going to a different highschool than me so I only have this year with him. I know that if I could hit it off with him, we'd stay in touch :]. I just don't know what to do now. I have problems in relationships because eventually, I just get bored of the guy. It's more fun to chase the guy than to have them (It sounds shallow doesn't it?). I just don't know what to do, and I can't talk to anyone because all of my friends are the gossip-type. Even if they say they won't tell, they will. I'm so confused :( help? (link)
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well......the WHOLE package comes out of the guy once you are dating, as you should know from the first guy. but you're only 13 so you have all the time to date boys...and since you like that other guy, maybe it will work! and the two different high schools is no big deal at all... me and my boyfriend met during the summer and started dating a month into school but he goes to a completely different high school...we've been together for a year and 3 months! if you really hit it off with the other guy it should work! there are ups and downs but it's actually really good to give each other space at different schools...and even if it doesn't work out for you two....you are going to meet so many boys in high school!
anymore questions?
ask me
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ok, so my ex and i dated for about a month from like early october to mid november. she broke up with me because "she didnt want to have a b/f at the time." ok, well now im talkin to her alot more and now i cant stop thinkin abou ther. i think im fallin for her again. i dont know what to do. plz help. her and i plan on hanging out at the mall with a few friends next weekend. (link)
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go for..but if it doesn't work the 2nd time it won't work ever..
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my friend has a girlfriend, he admitted to me last week he has always had feelings for me, i couldnt say it back and i dont know why. i regret it. its all thats on my mind and im afraid if i tell him things will get all wierd or he wont want to be my friend or something. please help me =( (link)
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if things were gonna be weird he wouldn't have said anything
all you have to do is send him a text message saying:
last week i got scared when you told me you have feelings for me because i didn't know what to think of it.. and i've been thinking and i have feelings for you too
he took a chance to tell you taht soo return the favor
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Ok so theres this kid and he liked me in the middle of the school year adn we would hang out alot. But my best friend at the time really liked him. So one night i was at my house with my other friend and we were on the phone with him and he asked me out and i said no because my friend liked him and i was trying to be a good friend or w.e. So we stopped talking for a while. After that I started to like him and to this day regret saying no. Now he is going out with my other friend recently and I kind of like him again. I know thats wrong and everything to do to my friend but were not like really close. Anyways me and him were hanging out the other day and his girlfriend wasnt there so we were just chilling. He was saying how he felt that him and his current girlfriend arent going to last and stuff. So he left his keys on the couch and I took them and he didnt notice until he was about to leave. Then we were just joking around and he was like on my lap and stuff. Im really confused about this whole thing and if I shouldnt be liking my friends boyfriend. I feel bad but, I regret saying no to him. Should I still regret it and should i like him? (link)
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take him! you said you and your friend aren't realy close! and he obviously likes you!
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Well im only 14 as you can tell.
I want a baby because they are soo adoriable.
I have a boyfriend we have had protected sex a few times already.
And would do it again.
We have been together for 2 years.
I love him and he loves me.
He is 3 years older.
My parents know and have known his family our whole lives, blah blah blah blah blahh.
So i keep telling him how much i want one but like he says i know you do but i am not ready to be a father and think about how much it would hurt and we dont have enough money.
So i need someone to try and convince me not to want one.
Because you have no idea how badly i want one.
Please help :\ (link)
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sweety.....
1) your 14 and you've had sex w. a boy whose 3 years older then you.. that is already statutory rape..
2) what would your parents think if you got pregnant?
3) how are you going to take care of the baby & go to school?
4) you have your whole life ahead of you! why would you want to ruin your life and your families lifes?
5) having a child isn't something you can just say you want and not be completely and fully ready to take care of it and be a mother.
think about how your possible decisions effect not only you, but every1 around you!
trust me you aren't prepared for a child at 14!
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i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 16. we've been going out for a year, tomorrow. is it wrong that i don't love him? i know that i don't. i like him, but i honestly don't love him. i know that he isn't 'the one' and i don't want to have sex with him at all, or any time soon. all of the poeple my age that have been going out for over 6 month are always together and claim that they love eachother. i don't. is it wrong, am i being a bitch? should i even bother with him, am i supposed to love him? (link)
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you shouldn't be with some1 for this long when you don't love them.. you are only fooling with their hearts.. i suggest:
-break up w. him asap
-spend the weekend caring for your self
-come monday look for a new guy!
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i want 2 get str8 2 the point i like 2 guys let me explain them both 2 u..... not the looks but the personality thats what i want
Jeremy
phsyco(but i love it)
examples brung a steak knife 2 school
(i told him not 2 bring it any more) he stopped.
put boot protector on his hand and set it on fire (what a wierdo i still luv it)
i asked him did he have a girlfriend he said no i like the single life 4 rite now (he needs me in his life)
always sits with me on the bus (even when there are empty seats) he sits pretty close
always waves at me and tells me hey
gave me a hug(once because i got this jacket from this girl for him)
Hakim
he is younger than me (by like 1 year)
he is in a lower grade than me
he said that last week he had three girlfriend in a row but the broke up with all of them because they are childish
gave me a hug (once i guess because he wanted 2)
told his cousin he likes me i just have 2 tell him i like him myself(thats not my style)
talks a whole lot(its not a problem with me but dang he can talk)
well thats it plezzzzz help
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the first 1 sounds better to me!
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Okay so me and this guy just started dating and I lack like all experience. Ive only kissed one guy and only once. And that would be him. And I just want to know how experienced he is but I don’t want to just come right out and ask him. How would any of you consider asking your boyfriend/girlfriend that. Or should I just not even ask? (link)
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ahhhh. this alwayss happens to me! just be like..."wanna play a game?" && then be like "20 questions" on the internet or something or while you are walking in the mall together.. and make it a question around the middle or end like # 13 or 19
get it?
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my friend likes this boy and i think and everyone else think hes gay for example he only had girls as friends and he cares tooooo much of how he looks but hes really cool and everyhting everyone loves him as a friend.but is it weird that my friend likes him? (link)
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NO! he could just be meterosexual! don't stop your friend from following her heart! you should be happy for her! && it is good that she isn't shallow!
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I like this one boy very much but he doesn't like me because I'm not "sexy/seductive" enough. For example, the girl he likes is very confident and a tease. How can I be a bit more like that? (link)
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You shouldn't have to change for some one to like you. You will fidn the right person along the road as long as you give it time!
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this guy and me are getting really close..im just afraid to make the first move..should i?
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yess women sholdn't have to be the ones moves are made on.. think of the feeling you get when guys make moves on you.. don't you think guys would enjoy that same feeling?
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what are things to be cautious of (link)
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There really isn't anything to be cautious of except for syphilis.. it is an STD that you get from oral sex. If you have an ulcer somewhere, and you have been doing things, you probably have it and should get checked by a doctor. It is minor, but spread's easily.
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Ok. So i met this kid at a show and we barely talked. But then he came over my friends house with my friend's boyfriend. He's basically really cool to me. Hes totally comfortable to do anything in front of people and is crazy and fun but calm at the same time. He's really nice also. Toward the middle of the night, My legs were over his lap and things like that. But toward the end of the night. But toward the end of the night I was laying on his chest and his arm was across my back/neck. Him and I apperently acorrding to our friends looked really cute together and we were like ok whatever. They wanted us to kiss but it was our first time acutally meeting so yea.
To get to the point..I think I like him but I'm not sure. I want to get to know him better but what if he ends up going out with someone else???? (link)
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All I can say is.. don't get too sucked in.. he could be a player.. this has happened to me.. and I hated it soo I am trying to help you out! get your friend to ask her boyfriend about hsi relationships in the past or you could ask him yourself.. but make sure your making the right desision! I am sure you are a nice and fun girl who doesn't like heartbreak.. watch out for people like this...
Hope I helped.. Danielle
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ok i'm a 15 year old girl and i need some answers about 2 or 3 weeks ago me and this sophomore that goes to my school we did some "stuff" we went to like 3rd base. I went over to his house like 2 or 3 weeks ago on monday and we just made out ALOT then on tuesday was when everything else happend everything was fine before that and then on thursday i asked if he wanted to come up to school and just hang out or w/e and he was like "no thanx" and so i asked why whether it was b/c he couldnt or there was nothing to do there and he said both and that i didnt talk and i was clueless after that i obviously wanted to kno why he said that so i called him and talked to him and all he gave me were half ass answers and he was being an ass the next day at school when i was trying to text my brother and he texted me and was like "stop talking to me" so i was like wtf but i didnt care i was mad at him than and still kinda am so my question is what is his deal and did i get used? (link)
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You were used.
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there is this guy and i like him so much. We used to go out. We went out the whole summer. After we broke up, we havent talked since. We see each other all the time, and he stares at me sometimes, but never talks. We even hang out with the same people at church. The bad thing is, he has a girlfriend. We went on a ski trip with our church a month ago, and there was this girl who liked him, and when someone asked if he liked her (he had a girlfriend on this trip too) he was like "no i would never go out with her" but then like 2 weeks ago someone asked him if he would ever go back out with me and he said "umm .. i got a girlfriend". so he didnt say yes or no. i want to go up and talk to him wednesday, but im so scared. Do you think he still likes me and what should i say if i go up and talk to him? SORRY ITS LONG, BUT I RATE 5'S!! (link)
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I advise you to go up and talk to gim but just start talking! He coulda have totally changed over the months! get to knwo him better then make him see what he was missing out on!
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Ok I'm scared to kiss my bf. I'm pretty sure he wants to kiss me too, but we're both really shy. How do I get him to kiss me or gather up enough courage to kiss him myself?
I'm 13/f by the way.
Thanks I rate 5's (link)
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start off small.. like hold hands and then maybe move in for a peck on the cheek and then lips peck and then making out.. I suggest to stop there! don't do anything you will regret!
Hope I helped!
Dani3ll3
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ok so my boryfreind came into work today to introduce me to his best freind...i was excited about meeting her, till i saw her. She was gorgous, exactly how my boyfreind used to explain how i looked wen he first met me...tall long black hair, tan, skinny...spet shes prettier then i am...least i think she is. I know he would never cheat on me, cuz he loves me, and i love him..blah blahl blah,...but now that i met her i feel completly uncomforatable with my boyfreind bieng around her...ahh i hate bieng jealous..what should i do? (link)
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It is natural for you to get jealous.. that is just what women do! don't batter yourself for it! I know if it a bad feeling.. but it happesn!
hope I helped!
Dani3ll3
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i'm super confused. I think i may be a lesbian but i'm not sure. see, i find myself flirting with guys like any normal 14 year old. but i find myself checking girls out too. i'm not afraid to be a lesbian but this has been going on for quite sometime now so can somebody just help me decide? am i a lesbian or not? (link)
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Well.. it's hard to say.. but I always look at girls! more at guys.. but when I look at girls I don't think of them as HOTT but more as of gorgeous.. like not in a lesbian wayy! I think you are probly getting confused with how you feel about girls..
Hope I helped!
Keep me updated
Dani3ll3
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I'm sorry this is gonna be long but I really need the help with a few questions.
- I want to break up with my boyfriend. I was kinda desperate when I said I would go out with him. Tuesday will be a month and a week we've been together. And I know he really loves me. He's even snuck out of his house to be with me. I still wanna be his friend. But I'm afraid that if I dump him he won't wanna be my friend. And there are a few reasons that I want to dump him. Any ideas here?
- The guy that I like, really really likes me. He asked me out a while ago and I didn't like him then so I just said I dunno, and then I got a boyfriend. But now I really like him and my one friend was talking to him and they started talking about me. She asked him if he would ask me out if me and my current boyfriend broke up and he said he would. Then he said that I would never say yes, so he probably wouldn't. And I really wanna go out with him. And I'm dumping my boyfriend (hense the question up there ^) lol. What should I do???
- Please help me!!!! (link)
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Well although you love this guy... after you break up w. your bf wait about a week so that it won't seem ovious to your current bf that you broek up with him just for that other guy.....
It also depends if your bf and this guy are good friends..
If they are.. don't go out with either
If they aren't.. use the info that I said at first
Hope I helped! :)
Dani3ll3
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