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i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 16. we've been going out for a year, tomorrow. is it wrong that i don't love him? i know that i don't. i like him, but i honestly don't love him. i know that he isn't 'the one' and i don't want to have sex with him at all, or any time soon. all of the poeple my age that have been going out for over 6 month are always together and claim that they love eachother. i don't. is it wrong, am i being a bitch? should i even bother with him, am i supposed to love him?
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As long as he knows the truth & is fine with it, there's nothing wrong with having a relationship with someone you aren't head over heels for. On the other hand, if you are telling or leading him onto believe that you love him, then that would be wrong. Sometimes it takes a longer time to completely FALL for someone. Plus, you are only 15, so it's okay to take things slow for now & not jump onto the love wagon. My suggestion: if you don't see yourself ever learning to love him in the future, then don't waste either of your time. Eventually, he's going to get his feelings hurt if he tells you he loves you & you can't say anything back. If you see any hope for the future, have a talk with him. Tell him that although you have been going out for a long time, you aren't ready for it to become "serious." Explain your situation & hopefully he'll understand. Communication is important in the relationship.
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no you do not have to love any one you do not want to.
you should break up with him but should still talk and keep a good relationship as friends
no you are not being mean by doing this either it is the way you feel and if he loves you he should respect that.
i think that it is wrong that you are still going out with him when you do not like hm any more. even though that they have been going out for 6months does not mean anything because you people are still kids and so are your friends if they are the same age as you!
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you should just break up with him. honestly, you shouldn`t be wasting your life on someone you know you don`t love. you should get out there and try to find someone you love, and your boyfriend should be doing the same thing.
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you shouldn't be with some1 for this long when you don't love them.. you are only fooling with their hearts.. i suggest:
-break up w. him asap
-spend the weekend caring for your self
-come monday look for a new guy!
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