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hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachother she has been acting wierd around us when i am over there adn she doesnt hang out with us as much and she has a bunch of guys that r just friends that r over there all teh time too adn i feel weird like i suddenly become all protective like her bro! please help

aweee!! okay lol before you ask her out you should talk to her brother and tell him but if he says that you shouldnt then you have to take the risk of losing a friend or going out with his sister if you love her that much then i guess you should go for it no matter what her brother says but im sure if you talk to him since you guys are good friend that he will understand and he wont mind as much as if it were a different guy that he didnt know if you need something drop one in the inbox [♥]

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OK THERES A GUY AND HE HAS A G/F AND I RELLE LIKE HIM BUT HE SAYS IM CUTE AND STUFF BUT I DK WAT TO DO BUT LIKE THE GIRL SHES LIKE MY RELLE GOOD FRIEND AND SHES LIKE TRYIN TO MAKE ME JEALOUS LIKE HER AWAYS SAY I LOVE HIM SOO MUCH AND I NEVER WANNA LOOSE HIM AND GIRLS JUST NEED TO LAY OFF ...I THINK SHES TALKIN ABOUT ME
BUT I RELLE DONT HAVE A CLUE WAT TO DO .....I NEED HELP!!!

ok theres a guy and he has a g/f and i relle like him alott!! and he says im cute and stuff and hes relle nice to me and my friend asked him who he liked and he said he didnt relle like the girl hes goin out w/ and he liked a girl b/4 n e of me and this girl u kno and then like the girl that he used to like b/4 his gf she doesnt like him and his gf is my relle good friend and she is for sum reason tryin to make me jealous by like sayin on her away i love him soooo much and i never wanna loose him and sum girls need to lay off and i dk if shes talkin about me or sumone else...i relle need help tho.....but i love him prolly more than she does.....b/c ithink she juist wants me to b jealous......ahhhhhh HELP PLEASE IF U CAN!

sorri it took a while to answer but uhm!! i totallii know who this iss!!! lol okay first of you should forget about the girl (girls are stupid they cause too much crap that isnt nessacary) and then you should talk to the guy and tell him how you feel even if he already knows and see what he thinks of it/you. i mean if he likes you then he should be breaking up with the girl and you might want to hold off on telling him that she is tryin to make you jealous because it can start a lot of uncalled for drama GOOD LUCK! && get back to me i wanna know what happens! LOVE YOU! [♥]

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awee!! well i cant realli like tell u what to think but personally ii think that your friend needs to stick with the guy that she has and leave this one to you because apperantly she claims that she "loves" him so whi would she worry about any other guys and dont be afraid to tell her that...& if you dont trust him then i dont realli know what to tell you like theres no reason for you not to like him ... i think you should like just talk to him and see whats up ask him to be honest about likeing you and then take it from there i kno i didnt help much so if you need anything else just drop one in mi inbox [♥]

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i kno this guy and he texts me asking me if i like him and i do alot but hes 4 years older than me and he flirt with other girls when im around is he doing this to make me jelous?

umm im realli not sure i dont wanna tell u something wrong and then you would think "omg that stupid bitch" but um since he is four years older than you he probabli does like some other girls his age as well as you & all guys are different so u never realli know if hes flirting to make you jealous or if thats just how he is like flirting with every girl.. [♥]

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OK I am very sorry if you all are tired of these questions but I'm HOPELESS and can necer tell if they like me or not, so here we go.
Ok he talks to me a lot and sometimes flirts with me. I never see him doing that with anyone else and he somehow finds a way to go by my desk/lunch table.
So.. does he like me? I'm very bad at this and please no answers like "Are YOU BLIND" or "What kind of a hopeful idiot are you?" ... All 5's :/

awee it seems like he likes you... if he doesnt do it to other girls and if he kind of singles you out then he most likely does..if you like him you too then you should start talking to him more and see what happens .. [♥]

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i'm going out with this guy. and omg i love him! and he says he loves me too. but i'm afraid he is just going out with me to get back at his ex. he tols me he isn't and i believe him but i'm still not sure. can you help me please?

hmm well thats not good if he says he isnt you should be able to trust him.. i know in some situations its hard to but talk to him again in person like forget phone,aim,ect. talk to him when you guys are together and just like see what he does and says then and if your still having doubts then you might want to talk to his ex and ask her whi they broke up in the first place and then get back to him [♥]

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but anywayz there is this guy and i dont really know if he likes me. he always tries to get my attention like onetime he said the stupidest thing he goes up to me and said i didnt no you were in this classs when we were just talking to eachother yesterday and the day before in that class and also one time he said i didnt no you were in this class when like ten minutes before he had looked me straoght in the eyes. we always talk and stuff but i do know that he also likes this one girl i know because he told me. does he like me too?? thanks!

well from what you told me it seems like he does.. whi else would he try so hard to get you to notice him ? and he may just say that he likes the other girl so that you like dont figure out he likes you but it may be both of you [♥]

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So i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half.. i once broke up with him for two months and he cried.. ALOT.. then we got back together and now all he does is go out with his friends tell my i'm stupid, call me names, and forget about me. He tells me all the time how he doesn't care about me and that really hurts my feelings.. what should i do?

wow well i think that you should have a serious talk with this guy.. get him away from his friends from everyone and then tell him exactly what you said here,that he hurts your feelings really badly and he cried when u broke up with him. just ask him openly if he likes your or not and if he does then whi is he treating your like that no girl deserves that & if he gives you an answer that is absurd then seriousii i think that you should move on you can do so much better you do not need a guy thats gonna make you misrable. leave one in mi inbox if you need anything else [♥]

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my boyfriend flirts with tons of girls that arent me...do i just let it be?

HECK NO! um you should deffinantly talk to him before you think about breaking up and if that doesnt work then your second option is to flirt with other guys and let him see how it feels.. and then if still nothing works out the you should dump him.. [♥]

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ok theres these two boys abnd i dont kno who took like? can u help please

awe well which of the boys treats you better? um like you should take things like that into consideration... it would help me a lot if i knew who u were and who the two guys are lol so if you'd i/m me at ll bebii boo ll ill greatly help you b/c i cant really say anything like this i dont kno you or them... [♥]

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i dont know if this is in the right catagorie..but w.e. im 12. i am SO shy whenever i have a boyfriend..like im always scared that i smell or sumpthin..i dk..also..all these people asking for advice r like...tallking bout sex when THEYRE MY AGE! its like..im not even thinking bout having it for anothiner 5 years or so! will i ever change? I RATE HIGH!

awe yes you will dont worry about it at all i mean everyone is different. I know your might think you should like think about that stuff but you really shouldnt your only 12 and you have other things to worry about so you should worry about it but eventually yes you will change. [♥]

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okae .. soo theres this guy .. nice guy .. know the guy .. kind of hang out with the guy .. like the guy .. buttt .. i'm not sure if i'm his "type" .. but i really really like him .. we talk and everything .. and we're sorta friendly .. and geeze .. it's confusing .. do you think you can help?

well to be honest i realli dont know if i can help but ill try mi best. okay um you should pay attention to if he flirts with you and um try not too like him too much untill you know that he likes you... xoxo Dzana ♥

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LiKe hEySz! well yeah i'm goin out with this guy and i really love him!!...but i'm afraid that i like this other guy which is his best frend..but i am starting to lose feelings for the guy taht i love he just ..i dont i just dont feel the same that i used too! HELP PLEASE! thanx a bunch ..i rate 5's!

heyy awee!! :( that sux well okay hhmm i think you should seriousli try to stay away from his best friend i mean unless you want something to happen between you and his friend... but i wouldnt if i were you i mean at least you have your bf and you love him and he loves you... i know its hard just to try to stay away from his friend but like try your best and just try not to talk to him as much and the usual and it should help hopefulli xoxo Dzana ♥

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How do you tell someone you LOVE that you still have feeling for them when they're already in a relationship????????

awee! well i would just talk to them and see how things are going with the other person ... and then i would say "i need to tell you something but i dont want it to mess up your guys relationship" and he/she should understand and then you would tell them that you still have feelings for them and see how things go if you still want to go out with him/her dont break them up thats mean unless he/she wants to break up on her/his own. thats pretty much it x0x0 Dzana ♥

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anyone have any ideas how to say no if someone asks you out and you really want too but are afraid,or you just dont like em. and dont want to hurt their feelings.
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awe well first of be honest dont make things up .. if you dont like them just say that your sorri but theyre not your type or watever ... just be honest and um to to be realli polite about it ... x0x0 Dzana ♥

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Hey. I just want to be really realistic here with my question. Think of something you might do in real life. There's this kid I know from my church, he used to come but he left for a while. We were kids then. Now he's back and he's a year older, I'm going into 9th grade. I'm very interested in him and I wouldn't know if he has any in me because we literally never talk. How do I start something up with him? And realisticly, I'm not going to be all bouncy and annoying. He seems a bit shy too, and I want something clever, and not like "Hi, what's your name" type of thing. Thanks!

hey i totallii know what you mean.Well i think that like you should go up to him and just start a conversation and then ask him if he even remembers you and if he does then great but if not then just like um tell him that you knew him from church and what not. Basiclii um like just be your self and you should be fine. Hope i helped x0x0 Dzana ♥

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Im looking for a girlfriend and none in school are my type so what should I do??

hmm well try to see if and of your friends can hook you up with some one and maybii you could give some of those girls at your school a chance you never know they mite be jsut wat your lookin for x0x0 Dzana ♥

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ok i lyk this guy. ive liked him for a long time. ive known him since about kindergarten and now im in 8th grade nd ive liked him since 6th. i had a friend ask him out for me last year but he just sed maybe. out of 3 girls he liked he chose 2 ask out some1 else. this year we have no classes 2gether nd i still rele lyk him. hes rele popular. he lyks 1 girl tat i no of for sure nd shes more popular than i am so wats a girl lyk me 2 do im just a lil bit popular. he told me tat we will always be close friends but he doesnt act lyk it except @ dances! i wanna be so much more than friends! wat should i do?!?!?!

okay you seem pretty like worried about your popularity.. you shouldnt reallli worry about that too much if this guys realli likes you he wont either... you've known him forever aperantly and i think he should start realizing that you like him like if you hang out with him alot orwatever you kno just give him a lil time and try to be around him as much as possible and then if he doesnt get the point you could have a friend tell him if your shy or just tell him yourself and you have to see how he feels about you.. you realli cant do anything if he doesnt feel the same way but if he does then he should eventualli ask you out... he shoudlnt care that your not that popular thats kinda stupid .... well i hope i helped if you need anything else you kno were to find me x0x0 Dzana ♥

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umm .. okae .. theres this really cute guy at school right?well we talk and everything and he tells me about all of these girls .. but i think i like him?..okae .. i do like him .. butttt to the rest of the girls that like him - i'm nothing .. but we're cool .. and he acts like he likes me .. geeze i'm so confused .. can you help?
thanks =)

hey okay umm you shouldnt do anything yet... xept flirt with him like alot!!!! after a while he would probablii get that you like hhim but if not you should telll him and dont be afraid to get rejected ... and see if he acts like he likes the other girls too cuz he mite just be doing that to get girls to like him or for attention but if he doesnt thenyou should definantlyy tell him and go on from there .. hope i can help x0x0 Dzana

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Well theres 3 siblings in my family including me and im the middle child.My parents always forget about me they usually like my younger brother the most and they adore my big sister what should i do for them to notice me that imtheir child!!!!!!!!??? PLIZ TELL ME __lUv AnOnYmUS

AWE! okay well you could try helping out around the house or doing somethign that your other sibblings dont do and try to behave better than them ... hope it helped x0x0 Dzana

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