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Hey! I have a problem....okay..I told my best friend to tell this guy that I like him and now he is nervous to even talk to me...and now I feel the same way about him.....I'm confused! What do I do?

Just don't be afraid 2 talk 2 him! If ur confident and show it, then he'll start 2 feel more comfortable talkin 2 u 2!

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i hate boys...why do they feel the need to tear out my heart and rip it to pieces?! >:0 :(

*sigh* I know wut u mean.

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Does anyone know any quotes that are about love and her liking him so much and him not liking her at all? I need some for my profile... ANything about love will do! Thanks a bunch!

iLL rate you a 5 for a quote..whether i like it or not lol

www.firehotquotes.com // Try checking there 4 quotes!

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i really like this guy but he is 2 years younger than me. my friends think its not right and i get really hurt. should i be wrong to like him or should i ignore my friends? im very short so im just a tiny tiny bit taller than him. hes the sweetest guy in the world though. please help me thank you i rate :)

Awww, that's fine! The age difference may seem weird now, but as u get older it will seem a lot better. I've had multiple boyfriends in the past, and my current boyfriend and I have so far been going out for 10 months and he's the greatest guy I've ever met and he's about 2 years younger than me! Usually the guy is older than the girl, but if u really like this guy then I see no problem in it! Good luck!

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ok..my BF and I have been together for 10 months TODAY! and like in these 10 months hes told me he loved me 2 times...and the first time he told me was on the fone and i go..are u sure...and he was like yeah..and i go oh..and he goes ur not gonna say nothin back? and i go i dont think u know what ur talkin bout..cuz we had only been goin out for 2 months then! and then like when it got to us bein together for 7 months..he told me again..i was sitting by him and we were cuddling..and like he jus looked at me..and said..my name and said i love you..and i juss smiled..and he said it again..both times i never replied..cuz i was scared..im scared to say if i love him or not..how do i know? and how do i know this is the forreal way he feels? Well i want him to tell me it again..cuz i wanna tell him i do too..

First off, congrats on 10 months! It's 10 months 4 my boyfriend and I 2day also! Hehe. Anyways... instead of him saying it again, maybe u should say it first. That way, it will kinda suprise him, but it would definatly be a good suprise! Truthfully, it's hard 2 know if u love sum1 or not... but if u really care about him and stuff like that, especially after 10 months, u probably love him... u just may not be "in love." Also, if this guy has gone out and told u that he loves u, he prolly really does. Good luck w/ ur relationship and everything! Also, congrats again! Let me know if u ever have any other questions and let me know how everythgin works out!

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ok im 13 and so is my boyfriend, weve been going out for over 2 months now... hes had sex with other girls b4 but ive nevr had sex b4... he wants to have sex with me really bad but he always says he understands if i dont... i kinda do tho... but then i dont... im really confuzed cuz i really lov him its just i dont wanna get pregnant and i people will find out if i have sex with him and i dont want people calling me names like a slut and stuf, at this same time im in a huge fight with some girls, but i really wanna have sex with my boyfriend but then i dont! i NEED HELP!!

Woah, hun, ur only 13 yrs old! U have so much time b4 u should start thinking about having sex! If ur having any doubts about having sex u shouldn't do it. You don't wanna do anything that u might regret later. Sex right now 4 u seems like a bad idea. IF u decide 2 have sex, make sure that he wears a condom and b safe. If u have any other questions let me know!

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Alright guys.. I dont want you to think i'm some kind of hoe.. or pervert.. But.. here goes.. I'm starting to have feelings for this kid... I won't mention a name.. But.. hes 15 I think. He's a friend of my sisters. I know he likes me... and I'm 17.. I dont know what to do! someone! Please help me!!

If ur worrying about the age... don't! It might seem weird now, but as u get older it won't matter as much. Heck, I'm almost 2 years older than my boyfriend and we have been going out for 10 months and he is totally great. Not only that, but my neighbor just got married and his wife is over 5 yrs older than him! There is nuttin wrong w/ liking a younger guy. Go 4 it and good luck!!

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what are some good ideas for gifts for my boyfriend (of 5 months) birthday?

I always have this problem too... isn't it so hard 2 get gifts 4 guys? Haha. Anyways... sumthin u could get 4 ur boyfriend is a pictuer frame w/ a picture of u guys 2gether in it! That's always a cute gift, plus it's pretty cheap if ur kinda low on money. Also, keep in mind the "inside jokes" and stuff u have 2gether, that way u can get him sumthin 2 make him laugh. Another thing u could get him is abuncha his favorite type of candy... "the way 2 a man's heart is thru his stomach." Haha. If u want sumthin that will last awhile, get him a guyish necklace. Hope I helped ya out a lil!

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I like this guy that I have been friends with...but we weren't close friends before..but now when we talk...it's like we both see something different. Here are some situations that happened while we were talking...

Well we were talking yesterday online for a real long time. He was sayin how the convo was so fun..n he wanted us to rate each other.....and he gave me a 10! he said im really hot and that i have a great personality..he said that once he comes back from vacation he really wants to see me right away
We made this plan after talkin about stuff
Well u see....
im real sore from swimteam so he said he would give me a massage.....
n so we would chill in my hot tub while givin each otha massages watch a movie on my widescreen...model skirts ahahaha...go shoppin then go on my hammock n watch the stars n talk to each otha...lol it was mostly his ideas
we have like the same dream date!
he is so sweet!
well
i came up with a starburst kiss
so i told him tht ive always wanted ta do it and hes lyke wow that sounds koo
and lata he brought it up sayin tht we both wanna do it........n stuff lol n then he was lyke jp i was lyke no u werent n then he was lyke yah i kno
n we talked on tha phone
we can talk about nething!
hes jus open ta me
hahaha well u nevah kno wit guys
i mean what if hes jus flirtin to every gurl?
he says that he treats a gurl rite...lyke we were talkin about a walk to remember
and he said i cant build a telescope but i do treat a gurl rite..if u seen tha movie u get it lol.....
Do you think he likes me? Thanks!!

Sounds like he likes u a whole lot! Either that or he's a major sweet talker! Just b a lil careful cuz I have been tricked by a sweet talker b4 and it totally sucked. Good luck w/ him and let me know how everything turns out!

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is it okay for a girl to ask a guy out?

Ya, that's perfectly fine! Usually the guy asks out the girl, so sum guys might b a lil weirded out if u did... but I don't think it would matter 2 much. Good luck w/ askin this guy out (if u are asking a guy out right now)! Let me know how it works out!

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Hey everyone im the girl that jus wrote that ? in about her boyfriend forcing her into sex...well everyones advice helped me soo much... i talked to him yesterday about the whole thing and i told him that we are gunna stop having sex n doing everthing eles for a while...he agreed to that n sed he was sorry n hopefull he will never do it again...i told him that you guys sed it was rape n that got him thinking that hes never gunna do that again bc thats the last thing he wants to do...thank you guys who helped me sooo much i really apreciate it! if nething happens i will surely let you know thank you!
ºMagenº

I'm glad everything worked out! :-D

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Ok today at school , I met this really hot guy and I was wearing a tank top and a pair of light pair of jeans when I bumped into him and he looked at me and said sorry but before he finished his sentence he looked down my shirt and saw everything , he blush and just asked me out.!! Dose he really like me or what???
Help!!

Haha, that sounds like a funny story. Anyways, I would wait a lil while and get 2 know this guy better. If u think about it, all he knows about u is wut it looks like when looking down ur shirt. It's better 2 get 2 know this guy better b4 getting in2 anything that u might regret. Good luck w/ this guy and let me know if u ever have any other questions! :-)

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OK here it goes!...Me n my boyfriend have just started havin sex...n well once he has had it once he has to have it all the time...well sometime i really dont want to...but he will force me into it or beg me to have it until i give in...n i love my boyfriend so much we have been dating now for 4 months...i keep saying no over and over but he keep it going when i finally give in he says baby im sorry for doin that to you...but he still does it anyways he promised me that would be the last time but that wasnt the first time he did it either! What should i do and say to him w/ having to break up with him? Please help me!

Wow... only 4 months and ur already havin sex? Sorry. Anyways, it sounds like he's majorly addicted 2 sex. If he's forcing u in2 sex that is technically considered rape, but if u say yes than its fine. If u relaly don't wanna b having sex @ the time he asks u, u can't give in no matter how much u love him. Also, try talkin 2 him and telling him how, unlike him, u don't feel that u can be having sex all these times. If he really loves u, then he'll resppect that. Good luck!

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Ok, I have thick, brown, shoulder-length hair, and normally, I straighten it every day with my CHI straightener. But everytime I straighten it, it gets messed up within the next 30 minutes. So my question is, what should I use to keep my hair straight for the longest period of time possible? Like, should I use a gel type substance? If so, exactly what brand do you suggest, and exactly HOW do I apply it? Thanks so much!

After straightening it, try 2 put sum gel (not a lot), or some mousse in ur hair. U could also try this stuff called pomade (which I use after I straighten my hair). Also, try 2 stay away from brushing ur hair 2 much cuz that will just mess it up even tho u think it's helping keep ur hair straight. Instead just run ur fingers thru ur hair. Also, make sure ur hair doesn't get wet/sweaty after u straighten it cuz that will mess it up bcuz the water breaks down w/e it is that's keeping ur hair straight. Hope I helped!

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Around the beginning of July, I went into a chatroom and met this boy. I know meeting people online is a bad thing but this is different. Lets call the boy I met "Jim". Ok Jim is turnin 15 very soon and I'm turning 14 very soon. Jim lives in Connecticut and I live in New Hampshire. He is the most sweetest and kindest person I have ever known and met in my life. I sometimes talk to Jim on the phone (passed 9pm on my cell phone so I don't have to pay lol). He is so hot lol. Well anyways, he flirts with me all the time online like he'll say "cough cough you're hot" or "guess what? you're hot" and he'll say sweet and kind things too. I think he likes me but there's just one problem, he likes another person. Jim says I am hotter and have a better personality than her. I don't know what to do like I'm not the type of girl who will ask a guy if they have feelings for me. I think he likes me because he wouldn't say sweet and kind things and he always flirts with me. He's not a player so don't say "he's only saying that to get in my pants" lol. I like Jim as a great friend but I don't know if I like him. I flirt with him sometimes but when he flirts with me, I get these feelings inside of me that makes me wanna like me. Like I said before, I don't know what to do. Please help me lol. Thanks for those of you who are taking your time to read this and might wanna answer this lol.

I know u like him, and how sweet he is, but the truth is, u barely know him! Sure u know him online and on the phone, but u don't know him in person. Just knowing him online and on the phone it's hard 2 get 2 know sum1 cuz u don't know whether or not they are lying. Maybe 1 day u guys will find out u were meant 4 eachother or w/e... but 4 right now, especially since he likes sum1 else and that u guys haven't even met, u should just keep everything on the down low and try not 2 get 2 attached 2 him yet. Good luck tho!

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Hey Everyone ! Ok ths is a good one, How come when your single you have the hardest time finding anyone to go out with. But as soon as you have a BF and become Attached Everyone in the world wants to date you. How many times has this happen to you guys? LOL its agravating. But I love my man so no huge complaints here. Have a great day everyone ! xoxoxoxooxoxoxox

It's probably bcuz the other guys know that ur not available anymore and that's why they want u all of a sudden.

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I met this guy online. I have been takling to him for like 8 months. I like him and he likes me. We live in diffrent states. What should i do!?

Online relationships are hard 2 work out. First of all there is the distance that sux. Then, ppl ight act 1 way online but then totally different in person. (I had a boyfriend that I met online from a friend and then that friend had us meet in person and we started going out cuzza how he was online... but in real life he was a jerk.) It's hard 2 trust sum1 if u don't really know them in person. Just b careful.

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ok here is my problem. I've always loved penguins, but lately I've been feeling a sexual attraction to them. now I think that's as sick as the next person, but there's just something about penguins. what do I do?

Well... errr... that's kinda weird. I don't really know wut u would do... but if u are really serious about this... then maybe go talk 2 a psychiatrist?

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how do you know when you are truly in love with a guy and how do you know when it is the right time to tell him?

It's kinda hard 2 tell when u are turely in love w/ sum1... but when u are, u should just know. Sorry I couldn't help that much... but u can't really explain the feeling or anything.

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hey yall i met this guy and i really like him but i don't think he like me.
i think the reason is that i am kinda chubby. but i really like him and he is sweet and we have a lot of things in common.please tell me what to do.

If he doesn't like u just cuz ur a lil chubby then he's not worth it. But anyways, tell him how u feel about him, that way he knows how u feel and he might feel the same way. Ur not going 2 know whether or not he likes u if u never talk 2 him. So just ask him how he feels about u sumtime. Good luck! Let me know how it turns out!

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