ive never been kissed b4.. is that a good thing?? or noo???
hey..i dont realy think its a bad thing that u have neva been kissed b4..whenever the time is rite for u it will come to you..dont rush into things u dont want to.hope i helped.xoxoJay
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i'm 16/f and am totally confused my the actions of my recent ex-boyfriend. We recently had a discussion and he really said some things that threw me totally off. First off, the reason he dumped me was because he said he didn't love me anymore and that really hurt. Alright, well then today he tells me that he wants to be careful of other guys and he flipped out when he heard i was interested in another guy, then he tells me he still cares about me, and that he has to tell me something that's very important, but doesn't wanna tell me because he's afraid that it'll screw stuff up. I don't know what this stuff is, but anyway, I really need some help! I think my ex doesnt want me to be with other guys and wants me to be devoted to only him! What should i do??!?!?!?
hey,i think all ex bf's are like that..he still cares for you even tho he said he doesnt love you. maybe he was afraid to show his feelings and now that he has seen u with another guy he probably realizes that he cares for you more than he thought.just give him time he will come around and tell you how he feels.hope i helped.xoxojay
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im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl....
hey..i dont think that ther is nothing wrong wit that at all.dont worry about what people think its none of their buisness.xoxojay
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i was out with my ex boyfriend last night. we still hang out and all that crap. basically, we still act as if we are still girlfriend and boyfriend. well, while we were having dinner, i said to him, "im a good girlfriend, youre just to dumb to realize that you should be with me." i watched his reaction, which he didnt really have one, and a couple seconds later he replied "its better that were just friends.." he seemed sort of unhappy when he said that. well, after that being said, the rest of the night, he was holding me, laughing, all the good stuff.. and he tells me that he loves me. he bought me a painting to have it say [his name] loves [my name]. so right now, im feeling sort of confused. he always tells me that he loves and that were going to get back together when he gets his head together.. but then, he says that whole thing with us being "friends." how should i feel right now?
btw.. im very much in love with him, and so he says that he is with me. we are both 18
hey.maybe he needs time to think about things.it seems like both of you are very much inlove but just need time to think about it.yea love is confusing but thats whats awesome about love, the anticapation.just take things slow love will come to you.....hope i helped.xoxojay
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Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl. I'm noticing that I'm interested in girls more than guys. I want a girlfriend. Not a boyfriend. But I can't tell anyone about my sexuality because people don't accept gays. I can never have a girl spend the night thought because I don't want something to slip. But I really want an intimate relationship with another girl. Its that ok?
hey personaly i think that is fine there are alot of lesbians and gays now adays.maybe now u are to young to have realtionships wit grls cuz some girls still have not realized there sexuality yet..but once u are a lil older more girls will come out of the closet than u can have a relationship wit a girl..hope i helped you.xoxojay
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i like this guy he's in 12th and im in 9th, 3 year age difference, i don't really kno him that much anymore but i want to get to kno him again. we used to hang out all the time, cuz our families are friends... wat should i do.... is he way too old? should i wait a lil while?? should i move on??
hey girl.my boyfriend is almost 3yrs older than me too..i dont think there is anything wrong with that at all..if u really like someone u cant hide ur feelings or try to move on cuz u might be looking for sumthin u already have.u neva know maybe he wants u as much as u want him..go for it!
good luck.drop it in my inbox if u need anything else...xoxJay
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ok theres this boys and i jsut moved from georgia and goin bak in about 10 months and theres this boy bak there we dated almost all year and we broke up jsut before i moved and everytime i talk to i i start liking him agian and he talks to my friends about me all the time and he we he asks me out agian what should i do
hey girl..well if your moving back in 10months maybe your love is strong enough to last the long distant relationship if not have fun with the people u meet were your at. and when u go back u can hook up wit him or suttin..i hope everything works out okay need nething drop it in my inbox
xoxoJay
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ok heres the deal sorry if it's kinda longg..
well my boyfriend one day got into a fight and i was so like depressed nd shit that i cut myself and yeah but then we got the fight resolved, and like we went out for a week after skool ended and then he dumped me cuz he felt guilty for being my boyfriend and not being able to see me..and he went out with this grl nikki from his camp, then after that we got back together and then after like 2 weeks he dumped me again same reason diff. girl her name is lauren (also goes to his camp) then dumped lauren and went for another grl katilin who came to vist from maryland for a week and then dumped her and now were going out... notice the pattern and i think he does love me on some extent but he also has to be with other girls oh and b4 katilin i went to bahamas for a week and didnt have fone service so i didnt get 2 talk to him and my bff told me that while i was gone he hit on her and told her he loved her nd everything and also now wen were going out he still sometimes tells her that even though shes not interested and like he told me that during the yr. he has to dump me and go out with this gurl nicole to help her make her ex boyfriend jealouse cuz he cheated on her but she likes my boyfriend (whos name is charlie by the way)!! ?? help!!!!!!!!! is he just desparate?? lost intrest?? cheating?? does he really love me??? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! or
hey hunn! Cant you see hes a playa... and its common for people to cut themselves but its NEVER a good thing to do.. if you think its a way to relive the depressing matter its not! just trust me on this one... maybe instead of taking it out on urself punch ur pillow or something lol and about the boy tell him no the next time he wasnts to go out wit you to show him that he cant get everything he wants! just dont cut its dangerouse....
if you need ne thing else hun just drop it into my inbox i hope everything works out...
xoxox jaycie
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Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??
Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed
hey hunn,that is so mean why should people care?dont let them bring you down.be proud of who u love.race is nothin but a color.dont let them get to you.just blow them off.you are better off with people who care about you and isnt bothered by ur reltionship..bye girl..if u need anything else drop it in my inbox..xoxojay
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Okay i have been with the same guy for the past 4 years all high school you could pretty much say, but anyway...All this time i have been a virgin yeah we do everything else and yatta yatta but i dont know i think that i want to have sex with him, i know that im ready but idk I love him with all my heart but what if i could get better or something? i mean i know hes awesome at everything else but what if hes not good at sex? then what do i do just resort to everything else that has kepted me happy all this time? please give me some advice
-Cass-
hey..well pretty much every girls time its gonna hurt so i wouldnt worry about him bein bad till uve had sex a few times..but it should be special between the both of you and dont rush into anything you dont want to..anythin else drop it in my box...xoxojay
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Okay i'm having big trouble in this department...like how do I get a girlfriend or boyfriend (in general) I need serious help because yeah it's really eating at me and everyone says that there is someone in the world for everyone and I think i might be the exception to that...i don't know anything i don't even know how to talk to girls i would like even make some more friends but I don't even know how to do that.? help anyone please give me the whole thing...and thinking more about stuff gets me even more depressed.
hey..well dont be anythin otha than urself people will like you for you..just try to walk up to girls and talk to them girls like that.dont stress on it okay it will come to you dont worry.
if u need nethin else drop it in my inbox..xoxojay
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ok well i like this person alot and the person likes me alot...and well today i was talking to my friend at a chat room and the person that i like alot and who likes me was there too...and i asked my friend to ask the person i like this, if she were to ask u out what would u say? and so my friend asked the person that and my friend told me that the person said that i would say yes...so im thinking should i ask the person out or should i not and wait for the person to ask me??????plz help fast!ill rate u for this!
hey girl...dont worry..maybe he is scared to ask you or to make the first move so it might not hurt for you to ask him..maybe thats what he wants..good luck and drop it in my box to tell me how it goes...xoxojay
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yea ive liked him 4 a year so i mean i can talk to him bout enthang and everythang just not this
god that doesnt put you in a good position im sorry i just dont know what else to say.good luck in w/e u do..make sure its what u wanna do aiigt girl byebye...xoxojay..
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hey its me again yea hes not that guy and i dunno how to change tha subject inless i take a friend and my friend is not doing sumin wit us tha next time so i dunno
hey girl..god i dont know i know how u feel tho.do you really love him??just make sure he treats u with respect okay..dont let him do anythin u dont want him too..hope i helped a lil just drop it in the box if u need anything else..xoxojay
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ok i have a bf and everythang and he sed if he did sumin 4 me i wuld have to kiss him tha next time we see each and i dont wanna kiss him right now enwayz so wut should i do..??
hey girl i was in that same situation once.if he is the type of guy u can just say hey im not ready to kiss ya yet or if hes the guy that wouldnt understand that then just try to avoid it and change that subject when it comes along..or if ur afraid of loosin him if u dont kiss him then just kiss him maybe it is the rite time for you.but he should always respect you and if he doesnt maybe he isnt worth your time hope i helped.put it in the inbox..xoxoJay
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okay ive liked this guy for like a year and i cant stop liking him...hes like perfect...and i want to stop liking him because I dont think I have any classes with him and I dont think I will see him a lot but ive been trying to not like him...and i just keep thinking about him all the time and how i like him so much...please give me advice on what to do...
oo i didnt no you were 11..okay.well can you still call him??will your mom let you?i dont really no what else to say there isnt much to do with ur age if ur mom doesnt let u..umm write back if u need anythin else..xoxojay
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Hi i have a gf and her 16th birthday is coming up soon and i have no clue what to get her.. I was thinking like a necklace with a heart on it... Do u have any suggestions?
hey.maybe you could get her one of those id bracelets.it has your name and her name on it there really cool.
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I just met my current boyfriend this summer and I really do love him. The problem is, he's moving a little too fast for me. I have no problem kissing him but he's trying to do more and go further. I'm too embarrassed to say something, but I really want to take things slow since we haven't been going out for a while. He's really experienced too and he's done alot of sexual things with his old GFs. I'm not anything like them though! What should I do or say to him?
hey,please dont try to be like his other gfs.You know how fast or slow you wanna go.you have to tell him how you feel.If he doesnt accept that then maybe he doesnt repsect you enough.just dont
rush into anything you dont want to okay..
best of luck girl
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