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♥ Hey!! My name is Allie Ribley.♥ I'm 15 years old turning 16 in April. And I live in Springfield, Illinois. It's pretty boring and theres not much to do. That is why I am so thankful for all my friends, they keep me busy and give me things to do! :) We like to go shopping,♥ some times go see a movie, but we like to rent them better, hang out at each others houses, and party! I love to party!!♥ Some people say I am wasting my life by just partying all the time, but my theory is that you only live once, so live it how you want!! And this is how I want it, so don't tell me to change it! :)
♥ I am not single anymore! I have been dating my boyfriend, Derek Betzer, he is also 15. We both go to Pleasant Plains High School.♥ And we have been together for 3 years. He has brown hair and blue eyes.
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♥ My family is not so great though. Both of my parents are alcoholics, I have an older sister [20 in February] I talk to her about some of it but I don't think she fully understands because she is not hardly ever home to know what I have to go through.♥ Their drinking problems really bother me. There's not much else to say about them.
♥ I have a lot of different sites. Here they are.
♥ CHECK THEM OUT!!
♥ Also, I can help you with any questions that you have! That's why I made this column. I hope you enjoy it, I try to get around to it every day! I have some other sites as well..If you want them, then you're gonna have to ask for them! =p.♥
♥ Hollister, Abercrombie, and American Eagle♥ are my life. I love pearls, and long necklaces.♥ Rings are a must. I'm a really nice person, unless you piss me off, I can be a total bitch! I speak what's on my mind. Some people don't like me for that, but whatever get over it. Don't be fake around me, cuz thats annoying. I hate bitches, but I love mine. I love glitter, ♥ and bracelets. Many other things as well. As long as your nice to me, I'll be nice back. Please don't ask me stupid questions. && we'll be okay. ♥
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my bf and i have always got along and always had fun well today he told me he hated me and walked away nd i asked him if he was breaking up with me he said no B*tch i was uhh i am soo confused was he showing off for some reason and then i called him he was like hello whos this i was like your gf he was like oh and it was silent i was like well why are you being mean to me he hung up soo I IMED him and he blocks me but i got on my old name and the thing in his info still says my name and now it says Ill love you forever and always babe you mean the world erg im soo confused
sorry its long =[
ill rate 5's !!! =]
♥ WTF? no guy should be acting like that. I think you should talk to him about it. And if he continues to be a dick to you -- freaking break up with him! You do NOT deserve that. That is too wierd. I don't know why he is acting like that? xoxo. Good luck.
What are the steps to get a girl from hardly noticing you to her going out with you? I am ugly so don't count on looks helping me here. I also don't want this to happen "That ugly guy keeps saying hi to me and talking to me. Its so weird. Next time he says hi to me I am going to say don't look at me"
So detailed guide in how to start.
♥ well you at least have to try. So you are going to start talking to her some time. just make small talk at first. and if you think you are getting the vibe that maybe she likes you too. well then you can talk about dating. but you just have to take it easy at first, and i know thats probably not what you were looking for since it wasn't very detailed, but thats all i can really think of for right now. so good luck anyways. xoxo.
I have a boyfriend and he is really nice. He is always very sweet and considerate of me. He has made it clear that he really likes me alot and I like him too.
He sounds really outgoing on the phone, but then at school he is so nervous, he can barely talk to me. My friends and I get the feeling that he thinks I'm really popular and experienced which actually, I'm not. So on instant messenger he kept saying, "Were going to make on on Monday and school" and he always calls me "babe" on the phone or computer. But then at school, he is so nervous around me.
So, is he a jerk, or just one really nervous insecure kid?
♥ awe. he's just shy around you at school. He really likes you. And I think you guys should try hanging out, out of school, and see if he lightens up a little. That's really cute. Stick with him! xoxo.
Ok, so theres this guy, let's call him Cameron. I've been literally in love with him for over 2 and a half years. He's liked me that long too, but the problem is, one of his best girl friends (who is also my best friend) says that he likes five girls. Two of which are halfway across the country. Then there's me, and two other girls that must go to my school. On a scale of 1-10 he rated me a 9, and a girl in another state a 10. I'm getting really jealous and I'm not sure how to react to all this. He says he really likes me, and he even gave me flowers on Valentine's Day, but I'm just not sure what to do. Should I still keep my hopes up for him, or try to give him up since he likes 5 different girls? Any help is appreciated. Thanks.
♥ I'd say, since some of them are across the country, you don't have to worry about them.
♥ if you have liked him for this long, there is obviously something about him, that is going to be hard to find in a lot of other guys.
♥ I think you should stick with him. Who cares about that other girl, step up your game and go for him.
♥ It sounds like he also likes you a lot, so I think you should be fine!!! Good luck, hope you get him. xoxo
Heyy.
There is this guy that i REALLY like, but i'm too scared to talk to him and i have no idea what to say. He isnt in any of my classes, i only see him in the hallways. Some of my friends say they think he likes me because he blushes sometimes when he sees me and stares and me sometimes, but he is really shy too so he wont talk to me. I want to say something to him and maybe become friends. but i dont want it to be ackward. Please help. ♥
♥ does he have a screen name? because if he has a screen name, and you have one. it is a lot easier to talk to people online, because you aren't in person. then after you guys talk for awhile online, then it won't be so hard to talk in person.
♥ otherwise, some day you are juts gonna have to gather your strength and go talk to him. but if you do it, guys can some times be jerks around their friends, so you want to make sure he is alone!
♥ or you could get his phone number from some one and talk to him on the phone. It might be kind of hard to get his number from some one. But if you really like him, then maybe this is a good idea. Good Luck.
♥ thats the only way you are really gonna get him, you have to go out and try! Don't be shy! Good luck again, xoxo
The Boy i like likes me and another girl...and he says he likes me more. And the friends he hangs out with are kinda differant and i realli realli realli like him but i dont no how to get him to ask me out...i need help
♥ flirt.
♥ you ask him.
♥ talk to him more.
♥ bring it up in a convo.
15/f
what kinds of things should i put in the card to my bf?
-quotes
-lyrics
-something to actually SAY to him.. i really have no clue..
anything is appreciated.
♥ let him no how you really feel about him! make it come from your heart!
well, im talking with this kid and were about to go out. we go to the movies and dinner a lot but where else is there to go besides bowling dinner and movies? thanks!
♥ go to the mall
♥ a basketball/soccer/baseball/etc. game
♥ skating
♥ go to eachothers houses. and friends houses.
I made this thing for my boyfriend, and I wrote "I love you" on it, but I have room to put his name under that.
Do you think I should personalize it or just leave it as "I love you"?
♥ Personalize it, that makes it cuter! ♥ and you don't want just blank open space!
I like my best friend a little, he just got out of a long and serious relationship. Way back last March he said that he liked me, but I don't think he still has those feelings for me...that was a long time ago. Anyway, I have a boyfriend, who I've been dating for over 7 months and I like him alot, but I also like my friend. Should I tell my best friend that I kinda like him or is it just a waste of my time?
♥ I don't think it is a waste of your time. But be careful, because if you tell him people might find out and it might get back to your boyfriend. So, I would go ahead and tell him as long as he promises he won't go tell other people.
yeah, i know there's alot of questions about Valentine's already, but most are all asked by girls. but does anybody have any good ideas for a guy to get for his girlfirend? She's pretty close, and has a good sense of humor. Please try to stay away from cute/fuzzy stuff (sry, but i cant stand giving that). Thanks
19/m
♥ Chocolate!! Girls loove chocolate.
♥ Flowers, they make us happy.
♥ and a very cute card. and right how much you like her and cute stuff inside of it! :) just be sweet!
♥ Good Luck. hope you find something she will love!
13/f
Ohkay, I like this guy and he is like one of my best friends. I can talk to him about anything.. and I mean like anything. and ever since i became best friends with him(which was like 3 weeks ago) my friends have been saying ive been alot happier and him and i should hook up. and ive been going thru alot of tough crap with my family.. and i feel happier when i talk to him and see him and when im with him. whenever we see each other in the hall i get massive butterflies in my stomach and like i just cant help to smile and he like turns bright pink and smiles big when he see me.. and like that happens in the hallandin class.. and i have a class with him too and it all year so i see him every day and like i sit close to him so we flirt and more but how do i know if he likes me or not? i dont wanna screw up our relationship cuz he makes me really happy..&&he a really good friend to me
♥ AWE!
♥ well it sounds like you guys both like eachother a lot.
♥ i think you should make a move!!!
♥ ask him about it if you want. or soemtime when you guys are alone just go in for a kiss or something. let him know that you like him and he will let you know how he feels.
♥ good luck!
okay so like last year this kid named danny asked me out and then so i said yes and we went out then i dumped him the next day he was really heart broken but i really didnt care. So then this June i moved but the street i moved on to he lived on..and he started likeing me again and i liked him to so then it hit like NOVEMBER and he started likeing me lk he was lk kissing me and everything .. so then he was suppose to ask me out but he never did and i still like him but he doesnt like me ... and im really confused shud i like him or shud i just let go?
♥ ohhh man.
♥ all i have to say is love hurts.
♥ but you should still stick with him i think. I think you guys will end up getting together because you have had a history.
♥ just stick with it for awhile. and see what happens! :)
hey...ok-- i kno this sounds alittle weird .. i want to have sex with my boyfriend but im not really sure how to... can u help me with that.. or give me some tips?? like if i suck him?? how does that make him feel? HELP
♥ um, well if you're talking about "sucking him" otherwise known as giving him head, that's just oral sex. If you are actually talking about having real sex then he's gonna have to put his dick in your vagina?
♥ oral sex - you just suck him until he cums. it's really not hard.
♥ you might be bad your first time but don't worry about it.
♥ sorry I couldn't help you anymore than that because your question wasn't detailed enough, so if you want to know more than just ask a more detailed question.
I was in a long distance relationship with a guy for 8 months. I met him at a summer camp 2 summers ago and we started dating in July. We saw each other 2 times during our relationship, then I surprised him once and visited his church this past summer after we broke up in April. He was my first kiss and my first love. I've had a boyfriend since we broke up, because I thought I was over him. He's one of my best friends and we still talk all of the time. I got over him because I didn't think he loved me anymore. He broke up with me because the distance was hard on him. He's more than worth the distance to me. After me and my last boyfriend broke up, we started talking a lot more cause we didn't talk so much while I was in a new relationship. I talked to him last night and my sister asked him if he liked me. He said yes, but that we couldn't do anything about it because I live here and he lives there. I understand where he's coming from, but I might see him about 2 times before the end of the school year and then again for a full week because of summer camp. Because we still like each other, when we see each other, I still want to be together. I'm still in love with him. I guess I should tell him, but what would you do? I have an idea, but I want other peoples' opinions.
♥ Me and my friend live in springfield illinois.
♥ Her bofriend lives in Rhode Island.
♥ they have been dating for a very long time, they talk on the phone every night. Also, they watch t.v. shows or movies but talk to eachother on the phone while they do it, so it's kind of like they are together watching it.
♥ I think if you guys really like eachother then distance shouldn't matter.
♥ my friend and her boyfriend also fly up to see eachother all the time. but they are seniors in high school, and i'm assuming you are younger, so that probably wouldn't work for you.
Ok, i really like this guy and he is really really sweet.I have known him scince the beggining of the school year and he knew that i liked him but then someone told him that i didnt so now he thinks that i only like him as a friend. Well, we usually walk to class with my friend and on Friday he waited outside for me and we walked back to class alone and he seemed alot like he likes me so what are a few signs that he likes me?
♥ awe, well that sounds like a pretty good sign.
♥ just see if he like flirts with you a lot.
♥ and if he smiles a lot
♥ maybe you should go for him. it sounds cute!!
♥ good luck!! x3
16/f
Ok, so I caught my boyfriend (of 3 months) in a lie. But I haven't confronted him yet. See, on New Years, he came over, and told me he had to leave by 11:45 because his parents said he had to be home by 12 because it is illegal to drive past 12 if you are under 18. So I was sad because I couldnt be with him at midnight. A few days later, I found out that he actually went and spent the night at a friends house. Should I confront him about this lie? If so, how should I confront him? Should I act upset, or not? thanks.
♥ awee man. that's sad. and i'm sorry
♥ and yes, i think you should confront him. if you are upset about it then let him no.
♥ maybe you should just be like _______ (his name) i know you weren't supposed to be home by then. and i know you went to ________'s(friend) house.
♥ let him no that it bothers you. tell him that you probably wouldn't have minded too much if he would have just actually told you the truth.
♥ just be honest and let him know how you feel.
♥ good luck, i'm so sorry, thats sad.
Ok, so there's this guy, well more than just a guy, he's one of my best friends. That is cool n all but like whenever we are alone its kind of akward. its like we both are thinking we should be doing something sexualy but niether of us really talk about. i kind of like him and think it would be fun to hook up, but i don't really know how he feels even though I'm pretty sure he would go for it. i dont want it to ruin our friendship or make us more awkward. i just want it to be more comfortable when we are alone together... and more fun. what should i do? what would you do in this case? and how would i aproach him without being weird? thank you for at least trying to help.
♥ well you can either, just go for it, when you are alone sometime.
♥ or you can talk to him about it. and see what he feels about dating.
♥ i'm kinda shy about talking about those types of things, so i would just go for it. buttt you might be different. but those would be my two choices.
♥ good luck!!
If I'm on my period, and I have a tampon in, what should I do if, while making out, my boyfriend starts to put his hand down my pants? Should I assume he is going to finger me, and immediately warn him that I have a tampon in? If so, what/how should I say it? OR should I let him do whatever he is going to do, and then IF he DOES begin to finger me, should I THEN tell him to stop? Thanks for your help.
♥ oh yes, mine has tried this before too. I get so nervous. But now I usually let him no when I am on my period, and he doesn't really go down there to finger me, unless he is gonna do something else. Maybe you should just let him know when you are on your period. Also, another thing is you could just pull his hand out when he starts to go down there. I've done that before too. but he my get offended, so be careful with that one! Good Luck x3!
ohk. my friend has been goin out w/ my other friend for quite some time. i dont wanna use names b/c well .. you know. lol. so lets call the girl uhh .. jill and the boy jack. lol. anyways .. jack LOVES jill, but wants to break up with her b/c they live so far apart [they met b/c of me] so he has to call her and stuff and it cost wayyy too much. so he doesn't know if he should break up with her. plus he never gets to see her at all .. should i encourage him to break up with her, or tell him he shouldn't?
♥ well, i think you should just let him decide. Don't tell him exactly what to do. But if its really bothering him that much maybe he should. Honestly, it's one of those questions you just have to ask yourself. But Good luck!