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He likes 5 girls, i love him.
Ok, so theres this guy, let's call him Cameron. I've been literally in love with him for over 2 and a half years. He's liked me that long too, but the problem is, one of his best girl friends (who is also my best friend) says that he likes five girls. Two of which are halfway across the country. Then there's me, and two other girls that must go to my school. On a scale of 1-10 he rated me a 9, and a girl in another state a 10. I'm getting really jealous and I'm not sure how to react to all this. He says he really likes me, and he even gave me flowers on Valentine's Day, but I'm just not sure what to do. Should I still keep my hopes up for him, or try to give him up since he likes 5 different girls? Any help is appreciated. Thanks.
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He sounds like a player; If he is making you feel this way hes not really worth it. I know you don't like the sound of this but maybe hes trying to make you jealous so you'll do more to get him.
Just talk to him about how you feel. Communication is the best way to work this situation out =D
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You should not be jelous he may rate a girl in another state a ten and you a nine, but he sees you almost every day and problably never sees her so his rating of you can change any time for the better and for the worse, but how long do you think he will like a girl he never sees?
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Dont give him up if you REALLY like him. if he learns to like you and only you, then go for it. i guess just be yourself and if hes meant for you then it'll definelyy happen :) give it time and you'll know.
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♥ I'd say, since some of them are across the country, you don't have to worry about them.
♥ if you have liked him for this long, there is obviously something about him, that is going to be hard to find in a lot of other guys.
♥ I think you should stick with him. Who cares about that other girl, step up your game and go for him.
♥ It sounds like he also likes you a lot, so I think you should be fine!!! Good luck, hope you get him. xoxo
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I think that you should give him up since he likes 5 different girls.
You deserve a guy that likes only one girl and that girl should be you.
If you were to go out with him you might would have to worry about him cheating on you since his mind isn't focused on just you.
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well hun, i think that you should just forget about him because if he can like 5 girls at the same time then oviously he is a player or he just cant make up his mind about who he likes. anyway this is just like cheating. if he says he likes 4 other girls what makes you think that when he goes out with you that he wont cheat on you either. also he is going to say that the other girls that dont live in that state dont mean anything to him but that is just a lie boys say.
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I'm in a similar situation. I've loved this guy for over 2 years, and hes had feelings for me that long but unfortunatley has also had girlfriends hes loved more. He always tells me how beautiful I am which keeps me attached. And its probably hard for you to decide what to do because half of you just wants to quit but the other half knows that maybe it could work. It sounds to me like he has all of these girls on strings and hes not sure what to do either. He obviously has strong feelings for you if he gave you flowers and thinks your really pretty. Heres what you should do. Talk to him and just let him know how youre feeling. Let him know that you like him, but if he cant make up his mind about the other girls then he can forget about you. Hopefully this will make him realize that his string towards you can be cut any second and hopefully he'll come to a decision.
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Well giving up would also put his hopes away because when there is another girl in another state i am sure that they really cant do ny harm unless they talk all the time but if would like you better than you two would probably go out makin him stop talking to all these other girls all the time. Being in another state is really hard to have a relationship and a lot of the time if they havent been aroound each other a lot like in person then their feelings for each other will be different because they are different in person so lets just hope that happens!
Kate♥♥
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