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How do you know when you are in love with someone? And how do you know if it is true love?
you can't answer this. you usually only fall in love very few times, but you'll know whether it's love or not. i am in love with someone, and i knew it immediately that i was in love with her. you'll just know
How can I get my confidence level higher ?
Any tips?????????????????????????
idk...it's really tough... just don't worry about what other people think, and just make sure you know that you're a unique person who is fun to be with, and a great person in general. if you think this then you'll be fine
well ok theres a guy in my vocal class and we have become somewhat of a couple just not going out and what not, because i am moving in 3 months but i asked him out anyway i just figured i would just ask just to see...and he's thinking about it...was it a smart idea or should i have not of bothered at all?
you might regret it eventually, but i think it was a fine idea
My boyfriend is older then me Im 15 he's 17. he tells me he loves me and I believe him. We've been together for 9 days. Im not a virgin and neither is he. I've decided to give up on having sex and so he says he'll never pressure me into doing it. But when were on the phone together he makes certain sexual comments to me about things he wants to do to me or how his penis miss's me. Is he just messin around and bein flirty or is this his way of pressure into sex?
He's probably joking to you, but serious on the inside lol. but he probably isn't pressuring you into doing anything, because i'm sure he respects the fact that you don't want to do anything like that yet. hope this helps
Alan
how do i get my crush to stop crossing my mind every other second, litterally. its distracting me from my social, and school life. i know things wouldnt work out and bla blah but i just need to know HOW TO GET HIM OFF MY MIND??! its taking over my life. thanks.
It's really hard, because it has happened to me before, many times. just try as hard as you can to listen to the teacher, which actually was something new to me...haha jk..anyway, just hang out with your friends, and try not to be alone. make sure that you're always paying attention in class, and always be self-concious about zoning out. hope this helps
Alan
Today in Life Skills, my school counselor told us girls "all 13-year-old boys care about is looks." (it's not a co-ed class) She also went on to say that 13-year-old boys only like girls with big boobs and a big ass. She said that they are very shallow, but the best thing for us to do is wait for them to grow up.
Is this really true? Do boys only notice boobs and butts on a girl and nothing else? It doesn't make me feel too good knowing that, because I certainly don't have a big butt and big boobs, and I'd like to have a boyfriend.
to many boys that is an important thing, but ne ver the only thing. i cant speak for every guy obviously, but i dont care about looks at all. of course i notice the physical stuff, but it doesn't affect how much i like a person. and you don't want a person that likes you for what you look like anyway, so if you're a nice person with a really nice personality, then i'm sure you'll get a boyfriend eventually, but don't freak about it. hope this helps
Alan
I've benn trying to find a girlfreind for ever and when I'm almost sure that the girl I'm trying to get involved in a relationship backs out. most girls i know and treid to get a relationship with only see me as a realy good friend. why? what am i doing wrong?
Help me please...
I'm 17 and never had a girlfreind before!
ok dude listen to this....im 16 and have never had a girlfriend either. and yes it does piss me off sometimes that all girls see me as "just a friend". but you can't let it bug you, because you have to realize that having a girlfriend is not the number one thing in life. just be happy with the good friends you have now, and when the right person comes along, you'll know it, and they will too. just don't rush into a relationship. hope this helps
Alan
I'm 18/F and I have literally done nothing sexually. The furthest I've ever gone is one closed-mouth kiss 4 years ago that lasted a few seconds. How pathetic is this? Why aren't guys attracted to me at all?
There's a guy I kinda like now and I really want to hook up with him but I have no clue how to go about that considering I've had zero experience. Help!
i feel the same way...im 16/m and have never even gotten out of the batter's box...there's nothing you can do really, but i just try not to worry about it, and when there's a girl i like, i just try to get to know her better. there isn't much you can do, but don't let it bother you, cuz then you really will hate your life. hope this helps a little bit
Alan
It's almost my boyfriend and I's 2 month anniversary... do I get him something or just ignore it? If I should get him something what should it be?
you obviously shouldn't completely ignore it, but don't get him a huge present, b/c it's only 2 months, and compared to others' relationships, that isn't very long. just make sure that you're with him on the anniversary, and wish him a happy 2 monther. just be with him, and that's all that will matter to him. hope this helps
Alan
i like this guy. hes cute and REALLY nice. we talk online like everyday. i told him i thought he was cute and everything and my best friend told him that i liked him. he said he thought i was cute. i invited him to a party that my friend was having and he showed up. but we didnt talk too much even though we hung out by each other the whole time and let me use his cell to make calls. he didnt say much just smiled when something was funny. i was kind of shy around him too. a few days ago he said that he chickens out when he goes to talk to a girl so im wondering if he likes me too. how can i hint him into telling me?
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you just have to flirt around with him. speaking as a guy who loves girls (haha), you just need to talk to him, and when you see that he's becoming shy or chickening out, just move in close to him and smile nicely and talk to him. just talk about whatever subject comes up. and you'll be able to tell by his response whether or not he likes you. and if nothing happens after that, then make physical contact. you know, hold his hand, put your arm around him, give him friendly hugs, or even just put your hand on his shoulder when you talk to him. it'll comfort him and let him know that you're there. hope this helps
Alan
Ok... I'm in desprate need of some advice. I was involved in an abusive relationship ( i ended it last year in January) I have since then graduated from high school. When i was in high school I had a little crush on my spanish teacher (i was 18 he was 24), never thought much of it, but i was up at my old school the other day and i saw him again and feelings resurfaced. We talked for a while and he asked me out. This is the first relationship i have even considered entering since ending my abusive one...and i'm not sure if i'm doing the right thing ... please don't say that " i'll know when I'm ready" because thats all i've heard latley ... and it doesn't help...because i'm so confused about the entire thing that i don't know anything anymore.
Thanks so much
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it will probably be fine. if you know him, then you know whether or not he is a good person. also, you shouldn't be scared, because if you're always scared to go into another relationship, you're never going to get over your fear of relationships. it's simply basic psychology. if you have a fear, you have to face that fear to get over it. i think it's a great opportunity and i'm sure that you'll be fine with this relationship.
Alan