i havnt been on this website in an extremely long time, but one day i decided to return. hello its me, although most of you probably either dont remember me or have never heard of me before.
hello, im bullwinkel, some people call me sparrow on certain occations. i guess im an all round ok person...but i dont know. if you want to know more about me, visit my myspace at www.myspace.com/amandabullwinkel or my picture trail at www.picturetrail.com/bullwinkel138
all my information is there. my screename is bullwinkel138
feel free to IM me whenever. im easy going, i dont care...
my favorite band- the doors
my favorite food- sushi,
Website: myspace
E-mail: abull124@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Age: 14
AIM: bullwinkel138
Member Since: July 11, 2004
Answers: 117
Last Update: October 3, 2006
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alright, this is really confusing but ill rate really high. alright, i told my friend bobby that i liked my bf garrett ALOT! so bobby asked me on a scale 1-10 how much i liked him, and i said 8. so then he was talking to garrett and he told him i only liked him a little bit. and that i gave him a 4! how dumb is that. y would he say that? so last night garrett told me that bobby said that and i was really mad. i mean i told garrett that that wasnt wat i said but i didnt tell him the REAL number. so now i think he is mad. i want to tell him wat my number really was but i dont know how to bring it up or how to say it....im so confused....HELP ME HELP ME HELP ME PLEASE! (link)
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maybe bobby secretly has a crush on you, or maybe he thinks that you shoudnt go out with garret because, well forever reason. i think the best way to get over this probbem is to talk to bobby and ask him personaly what happend, and why it happend. hope i could help
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So I like this guy and everyone knows except him, and I am friends with him and all and I really have no idea what to do!! help!! (link)
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Chances are that is everyone knows, he probably knows too...but, i think that it would be a really good idea to still confront him yourself so he knows that it isnt a rumor, if he knows it at all. if you are shy, you could write him a note. its sometimes not the best thing to do but since you are aquaintenses with one another,it mignt be a little more comfortable for you and maybe even him. just be honest. even if he doesnt like you back, he will realize how confident you are and then maybe change his mind, or realize what a cool girl you are. if he doesnt, then hes probably not mature enough or not worth the fuss. hope i could help!!
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I like this guy right, but he is in 7th grade and im in 6th. i really do like him and hes very cute, and hes sooo nice and funny. sometimes i think i may love him.i joke around and call him babe and hun and hottie and all those things but i really dont know if i should ask him out or wait till we meet in person. but im not that pretty amand so im afraid to wait.please help! (link)
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UMMK...this is not negative but your in 6th grade and you claim you love him?? HUNNY, dont rush it, you still an adolecent, just have fun with your tween years. When you become a teenager,things will be CRAZY!!! TRUST ME!!
but, if you must jump the gun, well heck, i guess its good to have a little fun here and there. Just be confident and make conversation. BE YOURSELF AND BE TRUE TO YOURSELF!! hope i could help!
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Ok well I like this guy, whose name is Frankie. Frankie is a total skater dude, and I’m well... kinda preppy. The only reason I’ve really talked to him is cause he sat by me in a couple of my classes. When I talked to him he was really nice.. and sweet. I finally realized I liked him. I really don’t know if he likes me because he's so different from guys I normally like.. And so different from me. Anyway we had this little inside joke thing where we always like wave to each other outside of this one class we have 2gether... and yea.. He always smiles and waves when he sees me and he is so nice. I mean from what I can tell I barely know him though... it really stinks. Yesterday he switched some classes and now I have no classes with him... I’m really upset. It ruint my whole day yesterday anyway.. I really want to talk to him and just get to know him better. But there are some problems... I’m pretty outgoing but I can be really shy around guys and stuff.... Frankie is totally different from me, and a skater dude... most of his friends totally hate me.... And most of my friends don’t really know him (and I wont tell them who he is)... and I have no classes with him. He still waves to me though. I need advice on how to like talk to Frankie and like really have a conversation with him or just play around. I’m pretty creative, but with all the problems I dunno what 2 do.... And I’m just not very bold when it comes to guys... please help me find a way to talk to Frankie! (PS. in case it helps, I'm 13) (link)
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It sound like a difficult problem, but first let me tell you this...most girls, at one time or another, will be attrackted and "crush" a bad boy. there is just something about a bad boy that is REALLY hot!! and plus, "skater" boys are also some of the most polite and nice. and he sounds like he is really nice to you, and possibly like you. the thing about the whole freind situation-that can be a toughy. freinds are very important when it comes to a situation like this, but they dont have to be the MOST important. try to find ways to hang out with him without your freinds. but,you dont have to change for your freinds. just be yourself. he will have to like you for who u are...thats the most important thing!! hope i could help!
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Ok..Me and this guy lets just say his name is Bob.Well,me and Bob talked for a month and we eventually went out.I have really strong feelings for Bob.Well,we broke up 2 months later because he thought I cheated on him because one of his friends said I did.Well,we still were best friends after we broke up and we can talk about ANYTHING!Well,after me and Bob broke up I started talking to his brother(i know thats SO wrong)Well,me and his brother talked for about 3 months and we eventually went out but we only lasted for 2 weeks.After me and his brother broke up,Bob called me out of nowhere.I didnt realize it was his # and so he got on AIM and I asked him why he called me?He said because I missed talkin to u and I want to be in a relationship with u and I want it to last this time.I've been with a lot of girls but ur the only girl who has been there for me through everything and I want our relationship to last.I asked him if he really meant that and he said he did.We're not exactly goin out again yet but were about too.Anywayz...to my question.I've always had feelings for him as the b/f type and I can actually picture myself marrying him if thats crazy!But...ever since he said that to me,hes ALL I ever think about!!!He calls me his "boo"all the time and tells me he loves me.Could this be love?does it sound like love to u?I've known him over a year.I have been there for him through everything.I know everything about him.Please help me because I'am not sure if I'am in love or not!I RATE!Thanx!
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Ummmk..this sounds difficult, so sorry, if i go rambling on(teehee)...anyway, back on topic. love is a very complicated thing. and it will be our whole life. you say that you can your imagine yourself having a real life with him, well i dont really know, but it sound like u DO have VERY strong feelings for Bob. Think of this what you will but, this is one of my "theories" MEN and WOMEN are attracted to eachother through sience. the urge for him and/or you to get back together could be sexual..even if you dont recognize it yet.but then again, i dont personaly know the situation. you could be madley in love. and this is not mean...this is advice...but another reason could be jealosy. bob you could be enviouse because you went out with his brother. so i know i was probably No HELP AT ALL, but this is one of those things that we have to learn from on our own, and obviously i havnt expirienced anything like this yet. so im REALLY SORRY that i couldnt really help, but i hope some of my ramblings kind of helped. REMEMBER: WE ARE STILL REALLY YOUNG!!! WE HAVE OUR WHOLE LIVES AHEAD OF US!!! i really hope i could help!!! good luck!!
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ok so i am a guy and at the end of my last year of 8th grade i told this other guy on AIM that i liked him but i wouldnt tell him my name...i was scared to because he was like the 2nd koolest person at my skool and i didnt want word getting out for feelings that i had about him...now i was very confused because i had never had these type of feelings before and i had many gurlfriends be4. But neways i eventually told him who i was after hes many guesses. (one reason i told him was because i asked him who he hoped it was and he said me) so neways he kept askin me alll these questions like would i do stuff with him..you know THAT kinda stuff so i said yea because i was very attracted to him.. i sont wana sound like some man hoe or nuthin but its the truth ..so everytime i would c him i would feel like i was gonna throw up and he kept sayin all this stuff about how we were gonna do stuff but we never did. So eigth grade ended and i still talked to him online and about twice he invited me over and told me that we could make out or hang out or w/e. I never went and i dont know why and i regret it soooo much now. So now i am to scared to IM him online and just say hey because i dont know if he would wanna talk to me. i kinda feel hurt but i cant help what his feelings are. My main question is should i just completley forget about this person or should i continue to hope that one day he will talk to me i mean i still have feelins for him and im just really confused..and o yea i think its been like 5 or 6 months since i told him
thnx for the help,
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OK...im gonna start here- this is a very difficult stage for every person, especially involving sexuality. there is nothing wrong with being a homosexual, but you never know when you could just change you mind in the wink of an eye-this is a confusing akward time. we learn SO much in this stage. another think i want to say is that you are in 9th grade which is (on a more personal level) to young to do...well...you know...with anyone. just do what your heart desires. if you ever feel uncomfortable though, just stop before anything happends. and remember stay safe with EVERYONE!! you life is more improtant!! i hope that all made sence and i hope i could help!!
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Hey Amanda!! Just wondering... would yu consider having a fetish for fingernails weird? (not that, ahem, I have one or anything...) (link)
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Fingernails are sooo sexy!!! hey, go wild!!
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Hey I just found out that my new boyfriend was cheating on me with another gurl, Im crushed!
But last night after I broke up with him He called me alomst 6 times before I answered it.
well he said he wanted to met me on the cornor of my road well I went but he didn't show until 12:12am, Then he wanted to make out I didn't and I left Did I do the right thing? (link)
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YES HUNNY!! you go girl! that is just wrong that he wanted to make out with you after what he put you through. YOU ARE NOT AN OBJECT! you have feelings! if he doesnt know that, then he will learn the hard way, and you helped that process, GOOD FOR YOU!!
hope i could help.
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all my life i had never had a boyfriend and i thought it was me but 3 days ago my brother finally confessed. he told me that he told all the boys i like not to go out with me, its a rule not to go out with my sister. hes 17 and i'm 13. y does my brother want to........... y did my brother ruin my life? (link)
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i also have older brothers, and they sometimes kid around that when i have a boy freind they will beat him up and all that crazy stuff, but all it is is over protection. and also, we are 13...eventually you brother will be perfectly fine with you haveing boyfreinds, who knows, it could be tomarrow, just talk to him about it. hope i could help.
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I really like this guy. Ive known him for a while and ive liked him for a while also. i dont have the guts to ask him if he likes me. how can i find out if i like him?
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if you dont feel like finding out for yourself, then you could ask a freind to find out for you. ask them to find out DECRETELY just dont come right out and say,"do you like so and so?" because then you can protect your feelings. and since you have known him awhile, maybr one day you will get the guts to just go up and tell em yourself! hope i could help!
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Hey Pat. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people out so here i go:
I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer. (link)
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Well, its sounds like you are in kind of a sticky situation. Even though you really like this guy doesnt mean that he will be true to you and you have to go out with him. and most of the time when people say they will change, they are lying...i know it sounds harsh but it is true. but, i think that you can still talk to him, and be freinds. who knows, maybe by the time you get older he will grow up and you will see him as a different person. hope i could help.
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amanda, im into feet. im a girl, and not only am i horny, i want my the first thing that enters my vagana to be a toe. is this normal. what if he has athletes foot or some other kind of foot funk. would i need to use a condom? or lube? please respond! cough, cough, tori, cough (link)
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some people have many different fetishes. apparently this is not a new one though.and yes, use a condom an lube, you never know where that foot has been. you could get and ftd(foot trans. desies) any way. i hope you find the right peson. HAVE FUN!!
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do u know a way u could practice slow dancing WITHOUT a guy or friend or anything like just up n ur room>? (link)
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you could use apillow or something that resebles a person. even a body pillow or something like that. and you could ask your best freinds, cuz since you guys are best freinds, no one should feel uncomfortable. i hope thqt doesnt sound weird. hope i could help.
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Moose ! i have nvr had a boyfriend before and sometimes i think im ugly or uncool ino thats not true and shouldnt care about that cause of my selfesteem ahhhh im confused but uno it happens and it so boring everytime i talk to my friend it always the same thing i whant a boyfriend i whaNT ONE BUT IDK KNOW WHAT TO DO INO U DONT HAVE ANYEXPERIENCE BUT AS A FRIEND WHAT SHOULD I DO
P.S I HAVE A CRUSH ON EVERYBOY EXEPT JOE HEHEY (link)
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what a smashing good question. i also have the same insecerities. but , when ever i feel that way, i just remember, that evryone has something beautiful about them. and alos, beauty is not only on the out side, but inside as well. i know you have probably heard that millions of times but it is the truth and i cant say it enough. and also, almost every girl your age(and even some of the boys) feel the same way. so dont feel discouraged. and your not uncool. trust me. and just because every one else has a 5 "boyfreinds" doesnt mean you need one and it doesnt mean that it is right either. this is an akward age. and no matter what you say, you are beautiful and you have a great personality.
hope i could help.
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Ok i have been away for about 3 weeks and my boyfriend has been hanging out with all these different girls.. I am kinda jelous and worried because I am moving in about 5 months but we wanted to keep it strong until i go. I feel that with him being with these different girls is going ot make him loose interest in me.. should I feel this way? (link)
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i think that is it perfectly natural to feel this way about your boyfreind hanging out with other girls. it is just human nature, so dont worry about that. But, if you really do feel that he is doing something wrong, then talk to him about it. he mignt get mad at first. but you never know. then again he could just be making new freinds. i hope all that made sence! hope i could help!
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I'm goiing into 8th grade and have never had a b/f and i think i no y. In school and in my neighborhood i'm constantly playing sports. I've always loved to be involved with the diff. kinds of sports and wen i'm playing(which is A LOT of the time) i'm mostly playing wit guys. So i've been known as "one of the guys" wen i'm playing basebal nd stuff. Since i like never do any of that gurlie stuff no guys have crushes on me(or even like me as a girl). Are there any ways I can SHOW them that Sports aren't my life and get them to take me seriously? (link)
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I know this question has been answerd so many times but i would really like to help. just because you play sports does not mean that guys will not go out with you. and actually i think that it is GREAT that you are consdered one of the guys. i would love to be considered one of the guys. that way you are under their skin. and also, 8th grade; just becasue all the other girls have boy freinds doesnt mean that its right. your only in eight grade. and also, relationships are sometimes better when you start out as freinds!! i hope i could help!
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This question is gonna be long so moderators, please don't delete this question. I need to explain myself a little bit before I can explain my question. I'm a 14 year old girl, I'm 5'6, and I weigh 113 pounds. For all my life, I thought I was ugly or below average looking. I have never had a boyfriend but now I think guys are gonna start liking me and then I might get a boyfriend. Well lately, I've been getting great comments like I'm hot or really pretty. Today, I went to the beach with my mom and my sister because we had "to bond more" lol yeah right. When I was walking to the car to go home, a few African Americans and white guys hit on me lol. They said "Damn girl you're fine and you gots a nice ass and legs". After what happened today, I'm feeling more confident about what I look like. I'm going into the 8th grade soon and I think I might get a few boyfriends during the school year. I am done growing in height wise and I think my beauty phase is coming in lol because now people think I'm hot and stuff. Ok for my question, do you think I might get my first boyfriend this year because of what has and is happening to me? If this question isn't too difficult for you, I would really appreciate it if you can answer it. Thanks (link)
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it htink that it is very likely that you will get a boyfreind. and it seems that since you thought you were an ugly duckling before, you stilll probably have a great personality. so i say go for it!! just have fun, but dont start hanging with the wrong crowd just cuz they tell you you are hot. just make the right choices. you sound smart. have fun!! hope i could help.
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what should i do a homecomeing dance is coming up n i dont have a date. how do i get one? (link)
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just be nice to everyone. eventually you will find someone but if you dont, just go with a group of people and find someone to dance with or, go with a guy or girl freind. hope i could help
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I like this kid from summer camp (im only 13) and hes really far away. im going back to camp in a few weeks and i dont know what will happen. we hung out on the bus and talked and stuff. im just not sure if he likes me..i mean i wanna go out with him if he likes me but i dont know if it will work. Please HELP ME!!
tY--and i'll rate you if its good advice. (link)
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i think that a good way to work this whole thing out is to try to get to know him better and see if hes worth it. and if he is, then you can always talk on the phone or email or AIM or whatever. remember, being freinds with a guy first normally leads to a better relationship if you didnt know him at all. i think that to really get a guy respects and notice you is to get under his skin(in a good way). then he will feel more comfortable around you. i hope that made sence. Good luck...
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Amanda. ive heard that if u take a banana and smash it, it works as a good lubrication for your genitalia. please let me know if this is true.please answer asap bc im about to freak a moose and his.. ahem.. is extra large. any lube owuld work but i dont want to get an infection. and also i was wondering if Mr. freshees really smiles up at ur genitalia? let me know about that one as well bc my flow is chunky and creamy and frothy, but i dont want to be disapointed if it is not loyal and smiling. luv- the soon to be sexually active and flowing sczhochandria (by the way, if my cuzin winston married a girl at his school whos last name is butt, her last names together would be butt cheek- just thought ud like to know)
ps.if ud like to make a threeway with mr. moose and i, give me a call at 1-800-hornylilrabbitwithscabies :) (link)
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ah, smashing good! first of all, many fruits will work. bananas, coconut...all the exotic fruits basicly. and Mr. freshies REALLY does smile up at your genitailia, i know from experience. and i think that winston will be very happy with my cousin. shila butt. there little offspring will be happy to frollick in the feilds of grampas farm. ahhh...anyway. i hope i could help and B.Y.O.T!!!
have fun!!!
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