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ok so i am a guy and at the end of my last year of 8th grade i told this other guy on AIM that i liked him but i wouldnt tell him my name...i was scared to because he was like the 2nd koolest person at my skool and i didnt want word getting out for feelings that i had about him...now i was very confused because i had never had these type of feelings before and i had many gurlfriends be4. But neways i eventually told him who i was after hes many guesses. (one reason i told him was because i asked him who he hoped it was and he said me) so neways he kept askin me alll these questions like would i do stuff with him..you know THAT kinda stuff so i said yea because i was very attracted to him.. i sont wana sound like some man hoe or nuthin but its the truth ..so everytime i would c him i would feel like i was gonna throw up and he kept sayin all this stuff about how we were gonna do stuff but we never did. So eigth grade ended and i still talked to him online and about twice he invited me over and told me that we could make out or hang out or w/e. I never went and i dont know why and i regret it soooo much now. So now i am to scared to IM him online and just say hey because i dont know if he would wanna talk to me. i kinda feel hurt but i cant help what his feelings are. My main question is should i just completley forget about this person or should i continue to hope that one day he will talk to me i mean i still have feelins for him and im just really confused..and o yea i think its been like 5 or 6 months since i told him
thnx for the help,
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Sounds to me like you have homosexual feelings, but aren't sure how to express them. You want to, and yet, since you've never done that before, you're not quite sure if you WANT to, or HOW to.
Remind the guy how you feel. A lot can change in a few months so there's no telling if he even is still interested. Don't be afraid to show how you really feel.
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OK...im gonna start here- this is a very difficult stage for every person, especially involving sexuality. there is nothing wrong with being a homosexual, but you never know when you could just change you mind in the wink of an eye-this is a confusing akward time. we learn SO much in this stage. another think i want to say is that you are in 9th grade which is (on a more personal level) to young to do...well...you know...with anyone. just do what your heart desires. if you ever feel uncomfortable though, just stop before anything happends. and remember stay safe with EVERYONE!! you life is more improtant!! i hope that all made sence and i hope i could help!!
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