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I'm just looking for some opinions here. Do you think giving head is a bad idea? I've always thought that blowjobs were gross and should be left to the sluts, but some of my friends are trying to convince me differently. I just don't want to be labeled as a whore amongst the guys.
Any opinions would be helpful. Thanks. (link)
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i dont believe that just by giving head to one guy makes you a slut. and i dont think that you have to be a slut to do it. as long as the guy you are doing it to is the only guy your doing it to other wise,yes, you are a slut. but just keep to to one guy and you should be good. hope i helped.
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okay well i'm 13 & the guy i like is 16. is that bad?? like he gives me signs that he likes me too but all my friends are going "laura, he's 16." & i go "so?". i just want to know if that is too much of an age difference. (link)
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3 years is NOTHINGGGGGGG there are people that are together that are like 20 years apart. but really age doesnt matter. if you guys like eachother whats stopping you from being with eachother. dont let your friends put thoughts like that in your head just do what you feel is best! GOODLUCK!
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Ok, here it goes. My ex boyfriend was my best friend. He didnt really act like my boyfriend when we were going out and i didnt really have a problem with it, or i just didnt say anything about it... well, he saw he was being a huge jerk, and heard it from a lot of people... and i guess he didnt want to deal with all the drama because he is not use to it. Well, when we were going out, he would skateboard and sometimes ignore me and stuff... We ended it. But we were best friends, and its definately not the same. I barely ever see him now and i hate to say it, but i still really like him, alot. I dont know what to do... I've been playing it cool, making it appear like nothing is wrong... but i can tell that i still like him. Im still not use to not having him as a bf, like i still search for him in the halls and i hate it. What should i do? And.. i really want to.. atleast, be friends with him, atleast. (link)
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it sounds like you really do still have feelings for him if your searching for him in the halls. i say you should just talk to him and tell him that you still have feelings for him but if he just wants to be friends then thats ok but you need to be around him someway because you really care about him. i dont think this really helped but good luck with him!
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ok so my girlfriend and i have been going out for a couple months and i don't know what to get her for valentine's day. i don't have much cash so it can't be too expensive.
also, don't suggest burning a cd. i did that for her for christmas, and i don't want to look repetitive.
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i know how it is when you dont have the money to buy your bf/gf something. its hard.. theres xmas,bdays,valentines.. just too many to keep up with try just writing her a nice letter saying how much she means to you and what not with maybe pictures of you guys maybe even a few flowers (picked or bought) haha hope it goes well!!!!!
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okay, my boyfriend is in JROTC, and he invited me to the military ball, but i'm not really comfy wearing like the dressydresses you have to wear to go to those, im VERY modest, and also, hes shorter than me, so i wouldnt be able to wear heels, what should i wear? any ideas? i cant tell him i dont want to go because i dont want to dress up because he's really excited that i'm going and i couldnt do that to him. i need HELPPPPPPPP!
greattlyyy appriciatedddd (link)
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if you dont feel comfortable wearing dressydresses then just find a cute skirt with a nice shirt or nice pants like black pants or really nice jeans(no holes or grundgy looking) with a nice shirt and jewerly. and forget the heels just wear nice sandals or shoes. trust me he will just be glad your going with him. and if he really cares about you and likes you for who you are he wont care what you wear.
GOODLUCK!!!!
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So I love my boyfriend very much but sometimes he's just always there. Latched on to me like a leech. Don't get me wrong.. I do love it that he pays attention to me soo much, but I do want to have some space sometime. But he seems to always be there all the time trying to pull me so close that our skin could be melted together. Please help me. I don't know how to tell him that I want space, without hurting his feelings.Btw we've been going out for almost 11 months. (link)
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i know just what you mean. my bf drives here everyday to see me weve been going out for almost 10 months. sometimes i kinda dont want to make it obv that i want time for myself so i ask him "if you dont want to come over its alright ill understand if you just want time to yourself" haha but most of the time hes just like no no its alright haha so if that happens just talk to him.. be like hey im a girl and sometimes i just need some time for myself. im sure he will understand.
goodluck!
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ok so here's the deal me and muh ex have been dating for 5 years on and off and we really love each other but the problem is we are broken up right now and well 2 of muh best friends like him but i know he likes me and wants to be with me but right now he's into football and i don't want to be in the middle of that cuz football season really sucks with him. anyways i want to be with him so bad but i don't know how to tell him. i mean it's never been hard to tell him how i feel but with these other girls it seems really weird. well...ya i love him and i need him back bad but i'm not sure wat to say. and how do i handle muh friends? thanx!!! (link)
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WELL one. dont worry about the frineds that like him fiveee years.. hes yours haha. two.if he cant make time for you because of football maybe you should just let one of your friends have him if hes not willing to give up a few hours for you and 3. you should be telling him all this stuff about how you need him back! tell him how much you care about him and you love him from the bottom of your heart. tell him how you cant stand being without him. TELL HIM ALL THISSS!! hope i helped.. Go get him tiger!
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I love this boy John were going out but he lives in NY we went out last year for 9months. Now im falling for this other boy Mark... I went out with him before and dumped him cause we never got to see each other. He was great though. He told people he loved me and wanted to try it again. But then three days later he told me that he liked some other girl so i didnt even bother bringing the whole me and him up. Should i tell him i feel and dump John? Or stay with John and never tell Mark that i still care about him so much?
John cheated on me last time. Well we kinda both cheated (link)
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wow its weird because im in the same situation. me and my bf are in a long distance thing and we went on a break and we both messed around and all that jazz anyway i think you should tell mark you still care about him. do you really feel that you should dump john tho.like care you really live without him? well i know i didnt really give any good advice but if you ever need to ask about anything else my email address is sourpatchkids@emailservice.com GOOD LUCK!
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ok my bf and i hav been going out for out for 8 days and we went to the movies he didnt act like he was going to break up with me but he has not called me today and he calls me everyday so what do i do i have tried calling him and he didnt anwser on either his cell or home phone and i dont want to seem like an obesive gf so i dont want to call again what do i do and how do you think i should wait b4 calling again plz help i rate!!!! (link)
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its only 8 days give him time im sure hes not use to being there for someone all the time.
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I like this guy and i thought he liked he but yester day he called me and he said'' I need advice, i like this girl and i think she likes me ... but do you think i should ask her out?'' well i thought he was talking about me, but then i found out it was this other girl. i dont know if he acutually likes her or not because she is not his type at all. Should I just let it go or should i say something? (link)
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say something maybe then he will realize your right and like you instead.
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I've been going out with this guy for about 1 month and a half. He cusses me out every once in a while for stupid reasons. 3 of my friends say I should break up with him, but I love him a lot. Today, when school was out, he seen me and stayed like 50 feet from me and wouldn't even come over and talk to me. It's like he always trys to ignore me. What should I do? Should I listen to my friends? Or stay with him?? I really love this guy though!! 14/f/tn (link)
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ok i just read the first sentence and dont need to read any farther you need to dump him. im sure your an awesome person who should be treated awesome find someone that will actually respect you and not yell at you. good luck!
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ok so not to confuse, let's give names:
my friend: sara
her best friend: liz
liz's boyfriend: bob
bob is trying cheat on liz with sara. he's asked sara to have sex with him, take pictures of herself and give them to him, etc. sara refuses and has put up with this for a while, and then finally told liz. liz believed her at first and then i don't know what happened. sara tried calling liz and liz's mom answered saying that liz wasn't available. sara asked when she would be and she said, for you, never. sara is devastated and can't understand why liz would do this to her. (liz and bob are still together, btw). what can i say to comfort sara? is there any way i can help the situation? (link)
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just be a good friend to here im sure thats what she needs right now if liz cant see that saras a good friend for not doing that stuff with bob maybe liz just doesnt deserve a friend at all. just forget liz if she wants to be stuck with a cheater then thats her problem maybe someday she will catch him and wake up and understand that friends come before cheating boyfriends. hope i helped and good luck to you and sara.
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im 13-f i have a bf and i luv him its just we've been going out since summer and i know i shouldn't have done this but i've gone really far with him but my friend likes me soooooooooooo much and i sorta like him to. the thing is he has a gf but he said he'll break up with her for me! but i dont want him to because i dont want to break up with my bf. i cant decide who i like better but i've known my bf for 2 years now and i went out with him in 6th grade and in 7th but now since im in 8th grade i sort of want a knew bf because i've known him so long........im really confused about what to do....help please! thnx (link)
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ok well what i would do if i were you is to just stay with the guy you have now becauce yeah youve know him and you want something new but since youve know him so long you know alot about him and you have gone far with him dont let some other guy tear that apart because you never know the guy your with now may be the better guy for you just give it time im sure youll realize you made the right decision. hope i helped. and good luck!
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ok i am 14, female, and single. i have been single for a while. and i realli want a boyfriend. whenever i try to get into a relationship he starts to like me then tells me he just wants to b friends. i am an attractive girl and i get checked out and hit on all the time. but when it comes to being wit someone the guys backs off. i dun get it... what can i do to help myself get a boyfriend? (link)
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ok its all going to be ok just keep doing what your doing to have guys check you out someday youll catch some guys eye that wants to start something with ya and once that happens dont let go of him. do things that will make him go crazy over you. you might be one of those girls that have lots of friends not just girls maybe guys see you as a friendly person and think thats what your all about is being friends once one guy likes you show him how not friendly you can be (if ya know what im saying) yah your only 14 but im 15 and i have had a bf for 11 months just wait the right guy will show up and once he does like i said dont let him go. seperate your boyfriend from your girlfriends ya know dont play jokes on him dont be stupid around him because then he wont think your taking the relation seriously once you guys go out for awhile and start getting serious and comfortable with eachother is when you can have fun and play jokes and just have fun in the relationship. i really hope i helped if you have any more questions just ask me! and i hope i helped.
GOOD LUCK*
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saturday after the game i went to my friends house and her house was forked at like 10:30pm right so me and her had to stay up and watch out for the kids who did it and so her cuz came with us in her room and we were under the cover on the floor and i was by her cuz and we were holdin hands and all a sudden my hand was on his penis and all this crazy stuff wa happenin and she dont even kno about it but see thats the 2nd times ive cheated on my boyfriend with the same guy and i just dont kno what to do...what do i do? who do i tell if i do tell someone?? ..i still kinda like the guy i cheated with hes my EX.. (link)
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ok well you cheated theres no question about that talk to you bf and tell him you did something wrong and you made a huge mistake and you have to break it off if you tell him you cheated on him dont expect him to just say oh it ok people make mistakes no he will never trust you again. you might as well just break up with you bf and just get with this other guy. plus this isnt the 1st time so yeah just break it off before it gets worse. dont just wait to tell him because then he wont just be mad because you cheated on him 2 times but that you waited to tell him thats not always the best decision.
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Well this is a record 2 problems from me in one night...
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 11 months. I'm 16, he's 18. We are having sex. Mom knows, but hates the fact and thinks he wouldn't stay with me if I told him I didn't want to have sex anymore, and I'm DYING to prove her wrong.
But the thing is, I don't really want to stop the sex because quite honestly, I like it. lol. Obviously he does, too, but I know he'd stay with me even if I did say I wanted to stop. Our relationship is based on pure love, not lust. (not to mention the fact that we're engaged. Mom doesn't know that, though. She won't know for about 3 or 4 years.) Mom doesn't believe he'd stay with me. I'm dying to prove her wrong, but that involves sacrifice on my part.
If I actually wanted to test him, I'd have to lie to him, and I don't want to lie to him...
What should I do? Should I test him and prove mom wrong, or just leave it alone? (link)
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HOLY CRAP!!! i know how it is with you because i am in the same situation well kinda me and my bf have been together for 11 months but havent had sex only because we are waiting until we get married which will be in about 1-2 years im 15 and hes 17. anyway i think maybe you should talk to your mom see how her sex life was ask her about the "first time" but hmm im just thinking maybe you should just leave it alone because proving your mom wrong could lead to ... her not letting you see him because she doesnt want you to be having sex or i dont know.. just leave it alone.
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ok look there is this girl that i like and she is well one of my best friends i dunno it is just when i am around her i feel so loved and i mean she is really really beautiful and stuff. but tonight i was at her house for a party no occasion just a party and she looked so hot and she cuddled with me well she was cold and stuff.
but the question is how can i show her that i can be a good boyfriend and that i like her more then a friend.
thnx
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ok i read one of the things someone submited to ya and i really thing that advice sucks but what i have to say is dont just get with her alone and ask her out because if she doesnt feel the same way about you , you could not only make a fool of yourself but you can lose her as a friend. just show her that you care by like you guys were doing (cuddling) after awhile ask her if there is any feeling that she has towards you. me and my bf useto do that as well we would hold hands and stuff and eventually went out so im sure it will all work out well for you. GOOD LUCK!
Ashley
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