ok i am 14, female, and single. i have been single for a while. and i realli want a boyfriend. whenever i try to get into a relationship he starts to like me then tells me he just wants to b friends. i am an attractive girl and i get checked out and hit on all the time. but when it comes to being wit someone the guys backs off. i dun get it... what can i do to help myself get a boyfriend?
Additional info, added Monday October 11 2004, 4:09 pm: its not like i dont try to make a relationship and i am not desperate... just lonely. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? frenchy answered Monday October 11 2004, 4:38 pm: hey! guys arent always what they seem. they sometimes do back off because you are too attractive, and sometimes even guys who seem like pimps or whatever actually think that tehy're not good enough for you. i'm single and 14 and a female right now too. i know that it sucks when you dont have a boyfriend. but believe me, a new year has just started and i'm sure that there are guys out there dying for you. you're probably sick of this, but maybe you just need to wait and try to concentrate on one guy and flirt with only him to show him that you like him. i suppose you're a freshman, if you are, then high school has just started, and you may find yuor high school sweatheart soon... if you wanna talk, hit me up on aim, good luck finding your guy... peace and love! [ frenchy's advice column | Ask frenchy A Question ]
Shaye1223 answered Monday October 11 2004, 3:04 pm: well maybe you should find a boi that checks you out often and and seems to be to shy to admit to it and maybe ask him does he want to go out wityh you sometimes and see what he says and hopefully that will get you started on your journey...hop i could help [ Shaye1223's advice column | Ask Shaye1223 A Question ]
112903 answered Monday October 11 2004, 3:03 pm: ok its all going to be ok just keep doing what your doing to have guys check you out someday youll catch some guys eye that wants to start something with ya and once that happens dont let go of him. do things that will make him go crazy over you. you might be one of those girls that have lots of friends not just girls maybe guys see you as a friendly person and think thats what your all about is being friends once one guy likes you show him how not friendly you can be (if ya know what im saying) yah your only 14 but im 15 and i have had a bf for 11 months just wait the right guy will show up and once he does like i said dont let him go. seperate your boyfriend from your girlfriends ya know dont play jokes on him dont be stupid around him because then he wont think your taking the relation seriously once you guys go out for awhile and start getting serious and comfortable with eachother is when you can have fun and play jokes and just have fun in the relationship. i really hope i helped if you have any more questions just ask me! and i hope i helped.
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