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Skateboarding Vs. Me
Ok, here it goes. My ex boyfriend was my best friend. He didnt really act like my boyfriend when we were going out and i didnt really have a problem with it, or i just didnt say anything about it... well, he saw he was being a huge jerk, and heard it from a lot of people... and i guess he didnt want to deal with all the drama because he is not use to it. Well, when we were going out, he would skateboard and sometimes ignore me and stuff... We ended it. But we were best friends, and its definately not the same. I barely ever see him now and i hate to say it, but i still really like him, alot. I dont know what to do... I've been playing it cool, making it appear like nothing is wrong... but i can tell that i still like him. Im still not use to not having him as a bf, like i still search for him in the halls and i hate it. What should i do? And.. i really want to.. atleast, be friends with him, atleast.
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Talk to him about it. Tell him you still wanna be friends, but also tell him that he's not making an effort. And think about it, if he isn't making an effort, why should you? If you're playing it off now, he probably thinks you don't wanna be friends so if you act like you don't care, he might actually think you don't. So he started not to care either. Let him know you still care & see where things go from there.
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the best thing you can do is talk to him. explain the you still value his friendship and that you miss it. you may need to back off from him for a bit to give him space but let him know that you would still like to be friends with him.
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it sounds like you really do still have feelings for him if your searching for him in the halls. i say you should just talk to him and tell him that you still have feelings for him but if he just wants to be friends then thats ok but you need to be around him someway because you really care about him. i dont think this really helped but good luck with him!
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