*tasha*'s

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ok my bestfriends is always in trouble and i cant go see my boyfriend with out her like i can but shes like i dont want any1 meeting him cz their related..right but i was supposed to go see him friday but now she juss called and said she may be moving bcz she juss screwed up with her mom ONCE AGAIN!!..i rly need to see him tho...should i go without her or juss wait cz i kno shes totally grounded 4 halloween!

Hey!If hes YOUR boyfriend then I think that you should go...you dont ALwAYS need your friend their holdin your hand while you guys are together..I'd make sure it was ok with my friend and if it was I'd go see him. GOOD LUCK!

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Hi well I already have a boyfriend but I bumpped into this other guy and he is so hot but I don't want to break up with my boyfriend.
I don't want to break his heart!!
THe other boy likes me and we talk but if My boyfriend found out I'd break his heart!
what do I do???!!! plz don't erase this because I need total help!!

hun you need to choose. its not fair to either of them if you jsut go on like this. if you like the other guy then break up w/ ur bf. it'd break his heart more if you didnt and still liked the other guy. GOOD LUCK!!

xOXo tasha

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There is this guy that I REALLY like a lot, he's my friend and all and he said that he would hook up with me and he's hooked up with my other friend before and it meant nothing to him, I'm afraid of hooking up with him in case I get my hopes too high just to have them crash and burn. I really like this guy but I am afraid of getting hurt because it will mean nothing to him if I hook up with him and I really don't like that fact. PLEASE HELP!

Hey!If you mean "hook up" as in do stuff w/ him and then it won't mean anything then I definetely think that you should not do it!Cuz thats like giving up part of you!(thats if u had sex) but then hes just using you!!!So do whats right ;)

xOXo tasha |[tell me what happends!:)]|

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im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl....

Hey!At the beginning of this year I went out w/ a 7th grader!And I'm a 8th grader.He was hott and nice too!He was a awesome boyfriend but he went to a dif. school.So if you really like him then who gives a crap about what "they" think! If you have a good relationship w/ him they'll probaly be jealous.lol. SO good luck!!do what your heart tells ya too!

xOXo tasha

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-okay i am 14 years old and i have a b/f that 15 years old nut see i kno this guy that 21 years old he really nice fun to be around and we did stuff with each otha and i like him and all and he says he likes me too and stuff . . . i dont kno what i should do becuz i like both of them but it like the 21 year old it like betta plus he can drive and he very sweet and i get to go to colleges party while i am at it and he got hott firend and i hook up with the 21 year old all the time my parnts even kno i like hima dn he likes me they dont care what should id o who should i pikc \???????

Hey its your choice.Pick who YOU like more. If it was me..i'd pick the 15. Because the 21-year-old would probaly wanna have sex and stuff and me personally is not ready and I'm 14 too. I'll be 15 in oct. GOOD LUCK THO!Just pick who you want!Not who other people want for you...

xOXo tasha

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okay so i was at my cottage and this guy was like chillin with me and my sis and my cuzins and so we were chillin and my sis was beggin 4 his sn!! i wasn't even really interested but he gave it 2 me secretly!! doe sthis mean he likes me?? or does it mean he wants to be friends??

sounds like hes interested!but i dono...if you do like him then i'd check in on it...by talkin to him.Since ya have his sn then I think you should just be like "hey do you like me?" do it in person or just do it on aim!Its EASAY to ask guyz that on aim!Talk to ya lata..

xOXo tasha

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i was out with my ex boyfriend last night. we still hang out and all that crap. basically, we still act as if we are still girlfriend and boyfriend. well, while we were having dinner, i said to him, "im a good girlfriend, youre just to dumb to realize that you should be with me." i watched his reaction, which he didnt really have one, and a couple seconds later he replied "its better that were just friends.." he seemed sort of unhappy when he said that. well, after that being said, the rest of the night, he was holding me, laughing, all the good stuff.. and he tells me that he loves me. he bought me a painting to have it say [his name] loves [my name]. so right now, im feeling sort of confused. he always tells me that he loves and that were going to get back together when he gets his head together.. but then, he says that whole thing with us being "friends." how should i feel right now?
btw.. im very much in love with him, and so he says that he is with me. we are both 18

Girl..you need to talk to that boy and tell him to make up his mind.Does he wanna be w/ you or not? And if so ask him when.Because I don't think you wanna wait around for a couple YEARS of your life and then find out he is in love w/ some other girl. So communicate w/ him.Talk to him about it. GOOD LUCK! (tell me what happens k?)

xOXo tasha

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I have been talking to this kid Rob online for a while now and we like eachother.. and were both from the same state and... my cousins friend Jack who is also my sorta friend i have been around him alot is Robs best friend.. and thats how we started talking.. wehave never met but we want to sometime... should i meet him.. i mean i know were the same age.. and i know hes safe since hes Jacks best friend....

what do I do..


and do u think its bad that i sent him a pic of me?

Hey!Since you know hes your age FOR SURE and everything than ya i think its ok to meet him.Take some friends tho...maybe JACK!You can take JACK just in case. :-D well I also don't think its bad you sent him a pic...people alwayz send peeps tehy dont know pics! GOOD LUCK!

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I've decided that I want to give my EX another chance.. But whenever I talk about him.. everyone in my family starts sayin that I don't need him and that he's not worth it..I haven't changed my mind on giving kevin another chance.. I just wanted to know if anyone new how i could get my family to forget about the things that kevin has did to me and how i could get my family to like him...

*~Needing help~*

Okay..if the reason you broke up w/ him is a dangerous reason (like he beat u,raped you,etc) then your family is right...i dont think he SHOULD get a 2nd chance. But if its somethin else than WHO CARES what ur fam. says. Do what your heart tells ya! GOOD LUCK! MAKE A GOOD CHOICE!!!

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Alrite my gf told me today that she kinda like my bestfriend.I do love her though but being with her and knowing she likes someone else it just wouldnt be the same.I want her to be with me but I can't force her to.What should i do or say to get this thing clear up?

HeY! I think as long as shes not flirting w/ him and everything then you'll be okay. Just make sure you know about everything thats goin on cuz you don't want her cheatin on ya.But if she does...don't take her back cuz like i've seen so many guys that end up takin back girls that cheat on em and then they cheat on them AGAIN! So good luck w/ her. Hope everything works out okay..{drop one in my inbox to tell meh how it all works out k?}

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I'm 17 years old and I was friends with my boyfriends sister before I started going out with my boyfriend. I never really hung out with her that much or anything and I got to know her brother through parties. Blah blah blah. We have been together 9 months and now she is saying things infront of my friends that arent true. Such as last night infront of my friends she said "My Mom said your ditzy" I got so embarassed so I said something to my boyfriend like how I dont want to be at his house when his mom is there because I feel like an idiot because I haven't gotten to know her too well she works a lot. My boyfriend got mad and said his mom woudl never say that and calle dhis mom and she denys it and he called hsi sister flipping out and she is saying that it was said. I dont know what to do because I feel like I caused a whole big problem and I feel like I can;'t show my face at the hosue because one of them is lying and its embarassing and everything. Any suggestings??

I think you should definetely just stear clear of there house until this whole problem is resolved...Hope everythings okay...

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i love my boyfriend.. or ex boyfriend i should say, very much. so as of right now, i am waiting for him and i have been for about 3 months or so now. i know its unfair to me, but he has told me numerous times that he loves me and that eventually he would get back with me. we were together for a pretty long time and he decided to end things because he wanted to go out and have fun.. and also bc i moved, although, not a very long distance at all. we still spend time with each other now and then and we still keep in touch.. and he assures me that he isnt seeing any other females. but well, i was wondering, if he loves me like he says he does, then why is it that hes not with me now?

I think you should definetely stop waiting...why did he want to go out and "have fun" w/ out hooking up w/ other girlz...hmmm i dono but that just seems a little suspicious to me. I think you should go and try to find other people too! Cuz like if he ended it just so he could HAVE FUN then maybe he doesn't wanna like stay w/ one person. Thats how it sounds. So who cares just go and have fun yourself too!
GOOD LUCK!

:.tasha.:

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I have some trouble getting a boyfriend. I'm 13, and I've only had 3 boyfriends where my friends have had a bunch more! It's not like I'm trying to compete, it's just weird! I mean, people tell me I'm pretty, but I don't think I am. I also know I'm not fat but not thin... and I have a lot of friends! I don't really know what's wrong with me! Can anyone help?

Hey!I've had the same prob. I learned it was cuz I wasn't putting myself out there.Letting boys KNOW that I was single and looking. Be more flirtatious maybe. Who cares if girls call you a flirt. You gotta do what you gotta do. Just don't flirt w/ other girls bf's.lol. Well Good Luck! (still be yourself though!)

xOxO tasha

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Hey I'm going to be a sophmore this year and I met this guy Scott at summer skool before freshmen year. He's not that hott but hes cute, and hes nice I guess and he's been asking me out ever since I met him but I always said no because I had a boyfriend well my boyfriend broke up with me and ever since then i've felt soo lonely that now i wanna go out with Scott! But I dont know if I just want a boyfriend or if I really like him. I'm thinking maybe when I go out with scott I'll start liking him? Idk I need help!

Maybe you should just go out w/ him to see how it is...cuz right now you know him on friendship standards...and if you go out w/ him you'll start to know him romantically. GOOD LUCK!

xO-tasha

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ok well there is this girl, but she has a boyfriend named who knows what. and yet i am totlly in love with her and i don^t know the right words that will influence her to wanna have second thoughts about this guy. i know it is wierd but i am basiclly in love with her. but i am nbot scared to tell her i have told her and it seems that she just kinda well moves subjects when i talk to her.

so i need a way to sit her down and tell her how strong my feelings are for her. cause when i tr all i get is somthin like. " what do u wanna do know" so it is startin to annoy me in a way but the more i see her or talk to her the more love i have for her.

if anyone can help it would be great.

ciao

and thnx

Hey!It seems like you REALLY are in love w/ her. If you've tried talking to her and that didn't work than I don't really know what to say. If its really meant to be maybe you should just be patient and see what happens. She'll come to you. And its not like they will be together forever!So just be patient. True love can wait! GOOD LUCK! tell me how things work out..

xOxO tasha

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well i really need help ..well theres this boy nd lets call him "carl" so i started likin this guy nd i told him nd i found out he felt the same way but longer for him so we talked nd he was so great so we finaly wen out nd omg he was so great nd i realized i was fallin for him nd then a rmor went around that he had cheated nd he said it wasnt tru but all the signs are right there nd im pretty sure he did it but i think he relaized it was worng nd didnt want to hurt me nd then the day i found out i was cryin in skool for the rest of the day .. so i call ready to break up nd he gave me this crap bout bout he didnt do it nd i sorta beleived him nd it took a while to put it together but that same day i found out .. this girl had been tellin him i had been flirtin wit other guys .. but i didnt .. i got him to beleive me then his firned told him i broke up wit ihm nd he beleived it .. we atill talk nd he tells me how much he loves me nd he wants me bac nd then one of my friend kary was akin if he was goin to ask me out nd if he did i dont kno wat to say .. i really love him but theres one problem .. i moved nd he lives 15 minutes away which isnt that long away but we go to different skool nd i dont kno wat to do if he does cuase i really love him wit all my heart .. please help me ..

i rate goood!!

Hey!I had the same prob...What I did is I just broke up w/ him because I think that it would be hard to NOT flirt w/ other girls and vice versa. I did it for him and for me. I also don't think i REALLY loved him though. If you REALLY love him i do think it can work. So do what your heart tells you and not what your FRIENDS tell you. GOOD LUCK! i hope it all works out. tell me what the turn-out is k?

xOxO tasha

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whats a good way to ask a someone to hang out? especially when they are extremely unpredictable, and you dont know what they would say. also im very shy. oh, and you have asked them before to hang out, but just could never a good time. lol thanks

Just be like "hey wanna hang out sometime?" and they'll say yes unless they're total jerks.lol. So just be brave and ask.But don't act all nervous either. Just be cool about it. GOOD LUCK! tell me how it works out.

xOxO tasha

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You all have helped me with answerin my questions.. but this one is kinda difficult.. All your advice has helped alot.. but I can't picture myself with out my EX kevin.. But when I think about it i'd be better off with someone else.. Kevin is a great guy and I still love him so much.. he tells me all the time that he still loves me but I don't no if i can believe it! I don't know what to do.. I don't know if I should just forget about Kevin and move on or If I should give kevin anonther chance..

HELP ME PLEASE!

*~SO LOST AND CONFUSED~*

Hey!I don't really know the whole story on kevin but if he cheated on you or hurt you in any way then i would forget about him. But if it was somethin small maybe you SHOULD give him another chance. Also if you REALLY love him then yea, stay w/him. Good luck!tell me how things work out..

xOxO tasha

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I have this boyfriend who is really tight with my best friend. My boyfriend also has a best friend who used to go out with my best friend. I know it's confusing, but all 4 of us used to be so tight and everything. Now it's only me and my boyfriend because my best friend & my boyfriends best friend broke up and everythings so messed up. I know they still have feelings for eachother. What can I do to get all 4 of us back together like old times?

invite both of them to hang out and just keep it cool. Like all of you go to see a movie or somethin or go play a sport like football or soemthin w/ them all.That would help.GOOD LUCK! Tell me how things work out..

xOxO-tasha

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I have a "boyfriend" we met on the internet. At first all we did was talk on the internet. Then we moved to the phone. he sent me a pic and i sent him one... we saw each onther on cams(web cam) so hes not an icky old man or anything. we've been "together for a about 7 months and im just really confused.we talk about meeting each other but we never really can, we live about an hour from each other which kinda sucks. i mean i saw i love him.. but now im not really sure i do anymore. its just really confusing. i wanna be with him and meet him and do "couple" things and theres this side of me that wants to just be done with this. PLZ HELP!!

Well don't waste your time w/ him if you KNOW that you will never meet cuz that would be stupid.And if you really LOVE him adn think you will meet up soon then just make it happen!GOOD LUCK!

xOxO tasha

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