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i need help !!
well i really need help ..well theres this boy nd lets call him "carl" so i started likin this guy nd i told him nd i found out he felt the same way but longer for him so we talked nd he was so great so we finaly wen out nd omg he was so great nd i realized i was fallin for him nd then a rmor went around that he had cheated nd he said it wasnt tru but all the signs are right there nd im pretty sure he did it but i think he relaized it was worng nd didnt want to hurt me nd then the day i found out i was cryin in skool for the rest of the day .. so i call ready to break up nd he gave me this crap bout bout he didnt do it nd i sorta beleived him nd it took a while to put it together but that same day i found out .. this girl had been tellin him i had been flirtin wit other guys .. but i didnt .. i got him to beleive me then his firned told him i broke up wit ihm nd he beleived it .. we atill talk nd he tells me how much he loves me nd he wants me bac nd then one of my friend kary was akin if he was goin to ask me out nd if he did i dont kno wat to say .. i really love him but theres one problem .. i moved nd he lives 15 minutes away which isnt that long away but we go to different skool nd i dont kno wat to do if he does cuase i really love him wit all my heart .. please help me ..
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it seems like "carl" does regret cheating on you, if he did do it. and it sounds like he does like you but was upset when he was told you'd been flirting with someone else. i think if you's were prepared to forget the past and try again it would work a lot better. but the distance thing, it doesnt sound like too much of a problem if you's are willing to make it work. but sometimes couples drift apart when they don't see each other that often. so to make sure that doesnt happen, make sure you see each other regularly :)
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hmm well people always say love conquers all, so 4get all teh rumors and everyhting you are hearing, a relationship is about the 2 of you and how you both feel. it def. sounds liek you 2 love each other and i think you should get bak 2gether because if you dont you may not get a second chance and you would nevr no what owuld've happedn. so def.. go 4 it, and good luck with your relationship! hope i helped =)
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If you two still really like each other..then give the relationship another chance.I mean, why not.You have the rest of your life to go.Take chances, make mistakes, and learn from 'em.Good Luck, 'n hope I helped!
-tori
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hMM mIss NeeDy,
i would say go out with him. cuz he might really like you. but he could just be using you for summer love n shit.
xx Manda xx
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hun, you are in a tough situation. you dont really know what to do and that is ok. i think it is great that you guyz still talk, and that you still love each other. but in order to have a working relationship, you guyz have to trust each other. from what i understand, that trust is very low if even existant, which can cause problems in the relationship.
if you truly truly love this guy and he really truely loves you, then you shoudl have no problem re-gaining the missing trust and building a happy and healthy relationship. if you love a guy with your whole heart, you really need to give you guyz another chance, i think. but whatever you do, amke sure it is what you want ok hun.
good luck and best of wishes
Juelz
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Well....going to different schools is usually pretty hard. But if you love him like you said you did & he loves you back, then it shouldn't really matter. Make sure you can trust him though. You said all the signs were there when that rumor was going around about him cheating on you....that doesn't sound to good?! But he could be telling the truth & might really mean sorry & really want you back. Lets hope haha well good luck! brianna.
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Hey!I had the same prob...What I did is I just broke up w/ him because I think that it would be hard to NOT flirt w/ other girls and vice versa. I did it for him and for me. I also don't think i REALLY loved him though. If you REALLY love him i do think it can work. So do what your heart tells you and not what your FRIENDS tell you. GOOD LUCK! i hope it all works out. tell me what the turn-out is k?
xOxO tasha
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