ok so i have my ex best friends and ex boyfriend saying crap about me and spreading it around. im 15 and i feel like people are starting to talk about me behind my back? i dont think my current friends are but i definitely know that my ex best friends are because they keep giving me really bad looks. i dont care what people think about me i never did and never will because i always know the truth but still i dont want this getting out of control because it's starting to a bit. what can i do about it?
like you said don't care about what people think about you...confront them them if it is getting a bit too much....don't hide it until you can't take it anymore..tell them what you think and then walk away...if they still don't change, then truly you have done your part...take it to the authorities if you have to....
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i need to know how to get on face book at school. but the system has it blocked so i can not. so can you tel me how to get on. i need to know something that will help me get passed the block at school.
that isn't a good thing, because now they have placed people to watch every site that you go on, and also this kind in my school got his id taken away b/c he figured out how to get on facebook even though it was blocked.
I wouldn't recommend it..
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I work at a fast food place called Captain D's. The females work up front, and the males work in the back. Im 17/F. Ive been working there for about a month now, and I've known my head manager since I was 14, which is how I kind of got the job.
I was talking to my manager tonight, and I told her I felt as if some of the employees didn't like me, and she said that, "If anyone, and Im sure I know who specifically, acts funny to you, its probably because she feels threatened by you."
WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?
it means that that you intimidate that person and basically that they are jealous of you. you probably do outstanding work and they fill like they are in the shadow.
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Is there anything that the principle can actually DO if I report racism? I don't want to waste my time tlaking to the principle (who I don't even like) and tell him about one of my biggest issues if there's no way he can do anything ot help.
definitely should talk to him..it is his job to make sure the students are protected when in school..that includes physically or emotionally
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My BFF is dating this boy for the past 2 or like 3 weeks. We're both 14 but she's ALMOST 15. She told me today that the boy that is her boyfriend is in 7th grade. I'm think she's robbing the cradle, as they say, but who knows. She said he's so mature for a seventh grader. IDK. How old are 7th graders usually? I can't remember how old I was then for sure LOL
7th grader's are usually 12-14..some are even 11 if they are really smart...
If it bothers you...talk to her..talking always helps instead of avoiding the situation
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K so I'm 13, in 7th grade, (girl) and all my friends (girls) are like all prude, but I would like to grind and make out with people that I'm not dating but all my friends would judge me. We have parties all the time so there's a lot of grinding going on. I didn't grind at the last party because my parents were invited but in school today my friend and I were joking around and I ended up in front of him against the wall and he started grinding me without holding my waist and now everyone is making a huge deal out of it and calling me a slut and I feel horrible but I really want to do stuff like grind! Am I being a slut and should I feel bad???
7th grade girls shouldn't be grinding. and no you are not a slut....yet. but stay clear of that way so you wouldn't become one. if you want to make out, find a boyfriend. but grinding is for attention and just because everyone else does it, you shouldn't be doing it too. people are always going to judge you because they can't judge themselves. if you want to do something bold, go ahead and do it, but also make sure it's appropriate. Plus don't feel bad!
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We both went off to differnt schools. We still talk to each other over the phone. We arrange to go round each other's houses. My friend said that he wants to kiss me. He told her because he was too shy to tell me. Which is fair enough!
I really wanna kiss him hold hands or something like that he's really shy and so am i.
Should i take charge or should i wait until he's said to ME he's ready...?
Take charge don't wait a great opportunity pass you by like that. if he is shy then he is waiting for you to help him since he is still deciding whether to kiss you or not, so kiss him and let him know its okay to do so.
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how far should you go with a guy at age 13...and don't say "however far you wanna go"--thanks
How far you wanna go....Just kidding
but seriously you shouldn't go anyway...kissing is the only thing that at the least for your age is safe. other than that, nothing else should happen......
hope i helped
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I really like this guy and he really likes me. The problem is, he lives about 3 hours away. So if we did go out I wouldn't be able to see him very often. I talk to him on the phone and online everyday. I'm thinking about just asking him out. Do you think our relationship could last?
although you guys may leave apart, i think it may last. you seem confident in him and it seems like you really like him so yeah if he feels the same way, it will work out great!
GOOD LUCK!
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My friend was in rehab for a few months and I was not allowed to have any contact with her. So, in that tine frame, I kind of have a new best friend. I got really close to this one girl, and she's probably a better bestie then theo ther ever was. My old bff was secretive, a liar, and ha horrible mood swings. She had a lot of great qualities too, but I'm just worried if anything will be remotely the same. She was my best friend, but I've kind of moved on. I still will befriends with her but not really bffs.. I'm also one of her only friends. She has like two others besides me. How do I handle this? Should I stick with her even though I don't really want to?
hey!
In my opinion, coming out of rehab, she will expect you to be there for her and for someone to help her get her life back on track. i know she might have put you through a lot of pain, but i think you should help her. Yes! if you don't want to be her best friend, just tell her. tell her that at this point you can't trust her enough for her to be your best friend and that you should take things one at a time. But at the same time, tell her you guys can still be friends and that you will help her if she needs it. will she be hurt? probably. will she hate you? No! if she is good person, which i know she is, she will understand and she will appreciate all the help you can give considering her situation. who knows maybe in the long run, you might learn to trust her again. just maybe!
GOOD LUCK
BYE! HOPE I HELPED
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Hi, I was wondering: I work at a pizza place, exactly how you tell your boss that you want to quit, that you've found another job, or just simply don't want to work. Should I make up an exceuse?
Just tell him you want to resign don't play around the bushes. just tell him you want to quit and make sure you are making the right decision thats all there is to it.
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I was a new kid at school last year and I made a few friends, but only hung out with this one girl. She was kind of too stuck up for me, but we only knew eachother so we remained as friends. We were never really close, she wasnt the type that wanted to go and hang out, and I was. Now that she has graduated, I don't have any friends at school. For some reason, its just really hard for me. I just want a couple of friends i can hang out with all the time and who i can tell everything to, but im not very social. Help?
I can definitely relate to you. Being the new kid is not fun is something that i can understand. I wanted the same things to, friends, that friend that i can tell everything to and the problem was i wasn't social still Am not. The thing is if you want friends, don't hide in your comfort zone. it might be hard to leave but eventually you have to and i had to if i wanted to make friends and make things easier for myself. it might feel weird at first, but just do something simple like if someone asks for a pencil, if you have one give and then you guys might already be on the road to friendship. thats just an example though but i am pretty sure you know what i mean.
I HOPE I HELPED GOOD LUCK!
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i have a crush on this guy. lets call him CG. now i am a very shy person so one day i had my friend find out things about him in a mock interview. CG found out about this and said he only liked me as a friend. some friend he just ignores me now. so one day CG was extremely upset at school. he wasnt his normal self. he didnt joke around with people he was really quiet. when one of the funniest guys at school tried to make him laugh he wouldnt even crack a smile. he just walked around with this sad little puppy face and it was pretty heartbreaking. so later on i asked him on facebook if he was ok, hoping that he would come talk to me about his problem and that i could make him feel better and maybe he would want to talk to me more. but he never answered he just signed off and the next day never said a word to me. as i wrote this it almost didnt seem like a big deal to other people but idk i feel kind of hurt by this. everytime i try to talk to him, its like he doesnt want to talk to me and that he wishes i would just go away. i apologized for the whole mock interview thing and he said it was ok but he still didnt talk to me. i was going to ask him to a dance next year but im starting to see no point of it if hes just going to ignore me forever :( is there any hope for me with this guy? do i just forget about him or keep trying
NO I don't think he is embarrassed by you. I do believe he likes you as a friend and maybe doesn't know how to act as a friend since he knows you like him more than a friend. Maybe he just need some time. give time and if you want to ask him to the dance, then go ahead, the worst he could do is say know to you. That wouldn't end the world, it will just show where you and him stand. Anyway maybe you do have someone else or maybe he is just afraid of starting something
hope i help... if any more questions, don't be afraid to ask me lolz
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I am thinking about killing someone. I know I shouldn't but I can't stop thinking about it
don't think about it. just clear your mind. you know you are not that kind of person. If its something that you feel won't stop until you kill it, then get help from a trusted person or adult. Guilt is not something you will like and wishing to redo things won't work.
Think before acting....... Don't think about killing though.
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the teacher suposly asled me to spit my gum out and i did but she wrote me up and she said that she had asked me more than twice and that i still refused to spit my gum out
well did you spit it out the first time she asked you or did you fuss and make a big deal about it. Like someone said, it's kind of her rules so just follow it and avoid trouble. but if she is as fault, and you did what she asked you, then just consult her about it..
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like for girls people say gorgous, pretty, beautiful, but what would i say to my boyrfriend. i say he is cute and sweet all the time but what else??
hey sarline here.
how about your handsome, the best boyfriend ever, everything a girl hopes for, awesome and the best
write back
and bye
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I really want a bf but im not so confident around guys how should i talk to guys and how should i get a guy to like me enough to ask me out please help.
well to do that, you have to make sure he is right for you. and you guys need to have something in comment (spelled that badly). you need to approche slowly like start as friend and see how it goes.
bye
write back
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