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GUY Trouble
I really want a bf but im not so confident around guys how should i talk to guys and how should i get a guy to like me enough to ask me out please help.
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well to do that, you have to make sure he is right for you. and you guys need to have something in comment (spelled that badly). you need to approche slowly like start as friend and see how it goes.
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To get a guy who is worth getting you need to work on yourself. If you want someone who is worth while, not just any guy, you need to work on the things you just mentioned.
You need to be confident. Tell yourself on a regular basis all of the good qualities you possess. If you enjoy doing sports, crafts, singing, etc., practice them until you are fantastic at them.
You can try practicing gaining confidence by leaving your "comfort zone". For example, if it is difficult for you to go somewhere by yourself, do it. Go to the mall on a saturday afternoon and just walk around for an hour or so. Sit in the food area and eat something, alone. And be proud of it. You are doing it because you WANT to. Then try silly little things like asking a cute guy if he has the time or if he knows where something is; a store or a building or a street. Even if you dont care or already know!!
The most important thing is YOU. You need to know yourself and be confident in who YOU are before you get into a relationship. Once you have accomplished this (it could take a LONG time, or just a month or two) then you could start talking to guys where you spend your time; school, work, church, social clubs, etc. Once you become friends with guys, then you can start the flirtation and other fun things that go along with dating.
It is all about you. Work on YOU, then work on the guys. Otherwise, you can end up with the wacky guys that won't make you happy.
Oh. Don't forget. It is okay for you to ask them out too. Guys have a lot of pressure to always have to be the askers. You can be casual at first. Tell him you are thirsty and ask if he wants to hang out for a while and have a pop. If he says yes, talk to him about things you have in common, things he likes, keep it casual and just go with the flow.
Best of luck.
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DOn't rush in to anything. be a guy freind frist. being friends first. let them get know you and ask like hang out with group of friends, sit at lunch with you. be nice and friendly, ask him what he like stuff like that. sometimes guys like it when girl ask them out. but frist maybe ask to go movies or help with eacher with home work or something like that. you can't really just make a guy like you. just be your self and show you like him and want to be friends
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