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So i have been dating this guy for about two weeks now...
And things have been soo amazing, i don't think i could ask for anything better then having him in my life right now. But before we started going out, this girl told him that she wanted to meet up with him and hook up. He told me she was being all flirty and then he asked me if i would be comfortable with it because we have been talking so much...
I told him ofcoarse i wouldn't be comfortable with it but we werent going out so he could do whatever he wants. He chose not to go because he said he cared about me too much to loose me. Then about 3 weeks later he asked me to be his girlfriend. Things are going fine until i see his facebook status 'Cant get this out of my mind, and i know it wont be worth it and ill screw things up but something tells me to go for it...'
So were in the mall together and he tells me this same girl has told him that if things dont work out with 'that girl' that she'll always be here. He told me he said 'alrite cool'.
The he told me she was a giant creeper and started making fun of her...
I dont know what that means but i am really worried he's gonna dump me for her.
Is there anything i could do? (link)
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remember if he dumps you for her it's his lose. but right now it seems like he was confused but i think he's gotten over it or at least is in the process of it. so there shouldn't really be anything to work out. if you're still worried you can't really do anything. because you can't force someone to like you or you can't force him to choose you. its what he feels. and you wouldn't even want to do something fake for him just so he stays with you, because it won't even be the real you.
hope i helped.
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the boy that I've been with for 6 months now really hurt me his been really good to me and i even started to believe that his not like the others well i was wrong.i met him at a summer job and at the time he liked my friend cause he met her first when they hang out the first time i was there like a third wheel cause she begged me to come at the end of the day she told him that things wouldn't work out make story short i made a move and got him. fast forward to six months now I've been trying to hook her up with one of his friends so me and my boyfriend went to her house and they were talking i was there then when she was leaving i noticed him staring at her ass i ignored it but when i got in the car his like how about that threesome thing.well it was my fault cause i always joke about me and him and her having a threesome but he knew they were jokes.when i got home i called him because i felt hurt he told me everything his like he did look at her ass and while she was there he thought about what would have happened if him and her did work out and he also thought about fucking her.so i broke up with him I'm just wondering if i made a good decision.please give me some advice. (link)
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definetly the right decision.
i mean i respect him for telling you the truth but its like thats stuff he shouldn't be thinking let alone telling you about.
and it really hurt you and he knew that but he still went on.
he was obviously not worth it.
good job.
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So this whole school year I've liked this guy. I've been taking time to build a realllly strong relationship with him( that's why I haven't told him yet) and I thoughtbhe liked me, friends told me he liked me too.
But Wednesday he asked another girl out. Their personalities don't click, try have maybe 1 class togther, and they rarely talk. I've been really depressed the last two days ( crying all night) because I was about to tell him.
I was thinking he wouldn't ask her because they're complete opposites! (were in 8th grade btw) They shouldn't last log (especially until prom, 2 months away) I think this because they have barely any relationship at all and long lasting couples have had long and good relationships right?
How do I cope with this? And what are some signs if someone likes you?
(if I got it wrong I just put me in a bad spot; I definately thought he was leading me on.)
Thanks for any help!!! (link)
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he might not have known that you had feelings for him. he might have just htought you guys were really good friends. guys never know these kinds of things. i bet he wasn't trying to intentionally hurt you.
and you can't know how long they're going to last. they might end up liking eachother more than you would expect. that might hurt you but just know he probably didn't mean to do that to you. so he probably still really cares about you. so just know he is a part of your life. but that might also hurt you so if you really can't deal with them being together just back off talking to him and avoid seeing htem together. this way you won't have to cope with it as much.
hope i helped.
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Me and my girlfriend have been talking for about 6 months. But started being gf bf about 2 months ago. Everything was going great we would talk all day. But a couple of days ago i could tell something was wrong. At first she didnt tell me when i asked but when she did she said that it was about her ex boyfriend but didn't want to tell me what exactly happened. Because she said she didnt want to worry me and that i had nothing at all to worry about. She said dont worry ill get over it in a little bit. I went to bed right after that because i didnt want to think about it anymore. The next day i apologized for letting it bother me and i told her that i trust her. But since then we havent been talking like we use to. Sometimes we do but i still get this weird feeling that somethings not right. Im trying really hard to get back to the way i thought it use to be by surprising her and letting her know how much i love her.
My question is am i over thinking? I know she loves me. Another thing recently someone she knew passed away. (link)
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this is in regards to the comment you sent me:
i think thats its his sweet talking thats gotten to her. every girl loves to hear that, especially when more than one guy says it to her. but theres no way she could have serious feelings for him if shes never met him. so don't worry too much. i hope that answers your question.
if you need help with anything else, feel free to send me a private question.
she probably finds herself confused in her own thoughts. she might just need some time away because she doesn't want to say anything that she might regret because she will later find out its not true. also the death might be bothering her and she just wants to be alone.
but,
if it goes on too long that might be unfair to you.
so you should definetly confront her and ask her that you really need to know whats going on because you're her boyfriend and its your job to be worried.
good luck.
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I unfortunately fell for someone who doesn't like me... in a relationship way.He told me were just friends... and I REALLY love him. I can't get him out of my mind!! I really need to get over him. I told him how I felt...he said he just likes me as a friend nothing more. So... I'm heart broken. I can't find anyone else... I really want someone special in my life. I can't find anyone who likes me . I don't understand why... can someone give me some tips on how to get over him? How can I find someone that likes me back?? Please... anyone give me some advice. Uh...I am 13...if that matters.
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first remember everyone has different ways of getting over people. it might take you a while but you just have to deal with it because you can't force because you can't stop what you feel, right?
the fact is you're 13 and you probably do have strong feelings for this guy but its not the end. usually true love and real dating starts at least when you're 16 or 17. so you can't hold on. if it helps completely take him out of your life. that way you don't have to deal with seeing him.
and don't worry if right now you if you can't find a guy. use that energy in something else productive. like rebuilding an old freindship or making a new one. or picking up an activity you've always wanted to this way you won't even have time to think about it.
henaaa :]
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Okay, so at the beginning of this school year I said something pretty nasty. It was referring to a boy who died of a drug overdose, and how his friend was gonna end up the same way if he didn't stop. I know, it was totally uncalled for and I really, really, really regret it. The thing is, I don't know how to apologize to the friend of the deceased boy. Its a couple of friends, actually. They happen to be the most popular guys at my high school, so I'm kinda intimidated. Now I feel like they all hate me along with the rest of the drama club.
When they found out what I said, it was obvious they were upset. One of the boys called me, and wanted to talk to me about the comment I made and try to clear the air about it all. I agreed to see him the next day in school and thought that was mature of him, but he never approached me in school the next day like he said he would.
I'm not really sure if they are starting to harass me or not. They've done a few things, such as logging onto my school account and leaving a false love letter from one of them. And on a field trip, they tapped my cell phone number to the back of the bus and made a sign that said to "call for a good time" and obviously we know what that means. I got a few inappropriate phone calls....
I was actually writing an apology letter to them all the other day, because I wanna be on good terms. I'd like to try to be friends, because they are actually nice, outgoing people. But when you get on their bad side, it isn't always pretty.
What should I do? Should I still apologize, or just ignore it all? If so, how should I approach them? Thanks in advance. [16/f] (link)
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you should probably talk to one guy at a time to make it more personal. i think the first one would be the one who was making somewhat of an effort before. i would apologize for what i said and that it was totally disrespectful to the deceased. but hte only reason you said it was because you cared. and you don't like drug use, and she was hoping that was an awakening to them. if you can get him to forgive you then hopefully he'll put in a good word for you but you should still talk to the rest of the guys.
hope everything works out.
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Okay... I love my friend... Matt and I told him and he said he likes me ONLY as a friend. So...the other day I told him that i was going to start to get over him. He told me " It sounded good". So... the day after (That was yesterday..Friday) We had a dance he was there and so was I . He was with a group of friends...but he only hanged with his best friend Drew. I was with my friends there was a big group of us. We were having SUCH a great time!! I was like drunk on mountain Dew...lol and my friend and I were running down the hallway (Matt was behind us). I slipped (because we were only in socks .. we can't wear shoes) I fell on my ass..lol once I got up and went into the dance with my friends laughing. My friend told me that when I fell Matt stopped... and whatched ...and than when I got up and left he left. So, that made me feel happy...does that mean he cared? He didn't laugh!! Okay... when I was dancing and having fun with my friends...it was so weird ... he looked so sad...and mad. Like, he looked at me when I was dancing ..and looked away with a pissed look on his face. Like, there was this one moment...when my friends left me in the middle of the dance floor... I saw matt...and he started walking towards me ...than my friends came back...and he sat back down. Do, u think he wanted to dance with me?? Also...he looked so sad...his friend I saw put his arm around him...to comfort him. Why , would he be upset?? Would he be upset because I am not upset? Well...I wasn't upset at the dance ...but I am still upset about him not likeing me back. I still love him. Can anyone tell me why he was acting this way? Like...maybe a a guy should answer this question. No, offense girls... you can answer 2 it's just maybe guys can help more with this because there dudes and they can help with Matt's wierd body language.
Thanks so much for anyone who answers! (link)
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i feel like there's a definite possibility he's jealous. or also it could be that he liked the fact that you liked him and now he saw you were doing just fine without him (even though he doesn't like you) and that bothered him. i know i've felt that way because there was a guy that liked me for a full year and i like him and after i turned him down so much he told me that he was over me. and i was with another guy but that really bothered me. thats just another possibility to the many that could be it. i guess the best way would be is to ask the source, or one of his friends. a way of going about it if you want to ask him is saying at the dance you seemed kind of upset. were you ok? and if he tries to blow you off say come on i thought we were close i just want to help. maybe he'll give in....
henaaa :]
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I am a 16 female. Just went through my first break up as of a few hours ago. We were going out for 7 months. He and I both decided to end it and stay friends. Although right now he is pretty pissed off. I am feeling 60% sad, 10% mad, 20% confused and the other 10% is lost somewhere in my brain. I've never experienced a break up before, so all I am asking is for some helpful advice or stories to help me feel better and move on.
Please and thank you!!! (link)
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dealing with break ups is different for everyone. but one thing i wanna say is that i completely believe its good to stay friends but wait awhile. because it might make it harder and it will probably make the feelings still linger. so step off for a little. also, this way you can figure out exactly what you want before doing stupid things. and then eventually you might decide you want him back. and i respect that so you can go about it the right way. or maybe you just want to be friends or want nothing to do with him. it just depends on what you end up feeling. and also don't regret. because thats what leaves you behind, and then you just sit there thinking why? so know that all things happen for a reason.
hope i helped.
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