I'm a fourteen year old girl looking to help you people out. Leave me questions and i can try my best to answer them.
I love the Redsox. they make me so happy. lol
Ok, i'm not into that whole bf/gf thing, so unless you really like me or something weird like that, don't ask me those stupid does he like me questions. i can almost garentee you're not going to like your answer.
i'm a little crazy, but for the most part, i'm not going to screw with you guys like with jokes when it comes to advice.
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OKAY I REALLY NEED SOME ADVICE QUICK!! tomorrow i found out that my ex who graduated last year is coming to our school tomorrow just to visit..we went out for a REALLY REALLY long time but broke up along time ago too..we got in a huge fight and dont talk nemore. should i say hi to him tomorrow?? i mean i kinda want to but i dont it to seem like i still have feelings for him but i really wanna say like atleast hi or something.? thanks! (link)
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say hi. no one likes a sour girlfriend.
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I HAVE THIS WRITING ASSIGNMENT DUE ON TUESDAY & IT'S REALLY IMPORTANT I GET A GOOD GRADE I HAVE TO WRITE A 400 WORD PAPER ABOUT ANYTHING I WUNT PREFERABLY AN ESSAY BUT BASICLLY I NEED A TOPIC CAN ANY1 HELP ME?
~AnThOnY~ M/13 (link)
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write an editorial about a contriversial issue, like gay marriage or abortion. write about who the better canadate is for president. write about Iraq. Vent your oppinuions about how gross school lunch is (mine is anyway). Write about how awesome the redsox are! ha ha.
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hey i know this is kind of a weird question, but, my friend lost 54 lbs by only eating graham crackers and hard boiled eggs for 4 months.i cant do that, so i was wondering, are graham crackers good for you? i hate eggs so i wont eat them... (link)
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umm was she throwing up after she ate that stuff, because its not like they're particularly good for you. they're not bad for you, but like eating an apple would be better.
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Ok, This may be long but it is really important and i need some other opinions and ideas ::::
Ok, at school this past thursday, i lost my phone during 4th period. I found out this boy had taken it and after school he had put it on top of the lockers. Do you have ANY ideas for finding a stolen phone, because I checked where he said he had put it and it wasn't there so obviously someone has it. Here are a few of my ideas ::;
1) Put the description with a reward on the announcements
2) Turn my service back on (i turned it off when i lost it) and wait for a day or two, and then see where the calls were made.
I would appreciate any ideas or opinions on what i should do. thanks bunches! (link)
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turn ur service back on and call it yourself. if some one answers, ask them who they are, and to give back your phone. if not, wait for after school and try listening for your ring.
try looking ontop of ALL of the lockers. i know that its gonna take for ever and all, but its the only way you can really know that nobody has it. he could just be stupid and forgot which locker he put it on.
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does n e one know good ways to relive stress...i've been through a lot latley and i would like to know if there was n e thing i could do to help myself get over it!
MUCH THXZ (link)
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meditation, sports, exercise, chocolate :-), writing, drawing, singing, and in my case musical instruments, jazz, screaming into a pillow. theres this weird way of tightening your mussles, holding it for ten secounds and then slowly releasing it that illedgedly gives you some kind of mentle relief, but its never worked for me.
drugs are not an ansewer.
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im a big christian. very religious--but the guy that i like, and likes me, is jewish. i know that sounds dumb, but seriously, i dont know how my parents would feel. what should i do if he asks me out? (link)
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date him. love knows no religon age sex ect.
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Okay im a freshmen and I hate my new high school its Waterford Kettering in Michigan and I miss all my old friends including my best friend who I am so close to and I miss her so much and im goin through a lot because of it and this whole thing just sucks I started smoking, stealing and cutting again n I don’t wanna but im so depressed about other things too. I could go to Waterford Mott where she is but I don’t have a ride home…I live w/ my mom and my dad lives in Mott territory but they said the buses are “too full and its not guaranteed” or something stupid like that so now I can’t go. My question is does anyone in this advice thing go to Waterford Mott? And if so I really need a ride home…I’d be willing to pay or whatever I just need to go to Mott before I do something stupid. Everything’s just so fucked up n I can never stop crying. I need help. Or does anyone live in Rivers Edge Apartments? Cuz that’s where my dad lives. (link)
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i hate my highschool too. i'm a freshmen as well.
you don't NEED to go to mott, you need to go see a doctor. sorry i can't help with your ride thing, but really, you and your friend will stay close regardless.
and can't you strike up a deal with your dad, or your friend, until you get your car which isn't that far away???
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i wear jeans to school and my mom said i cant wear thongs soo u can see my underwear line what should i do? (link)
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either sneak a thong or pull your pants way up and wear a belt.
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Ok there's this one teacher at my school that i absoultly hate. She's my Spanish teacher and she's always talking about sex or naked people.. and sometimes it makes me really mad that she can't keep the conversation on Spanish so I get in huge arguments with her.. which is actually kind of funny =c). Anyway, I wanted to get back at her for all the times she's talked about non Spanish related stuff, and my friend and I were thinking about emailing her porn or other such stuff just for the heck of it. Does anybody have any good ideas to do to her or any comments? I'd appreciate all the help! **I rate specially for friendly people =c)**
Love, RacheL
((xoRachel)) (link)
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that might not be a great idea, but i love it.
ok, so first make a new email address with all fake registration on like a library computer so you don't get caught. then mail her the porn and stuff.
talk about sex all the time in her class, and spread a rumor (annoyminessly) that she highers male hookers or something. good luck!
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well, over the years i've sturrgled through school, not with friends, not with grades, not with teachers, but i get so nervous over everything. It's so stupid! I get so nervous over everything....like i'll be nervous to go to class tomorrow cuz i'll think i'll get in trouble or i think the teacher is gonna hate me!! I hate it, i've always had this thing ever since 1st grade only my mom knows about it. It's rele dump and i feel like an as*! I jus started 7th grade and i feel so stupid! i feel like a mental house, what should i do, :( (link)
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your not mentle. you might have an over active nervous system or something like that. you might even have a perfection problem. or you could just be really shy.
take everything simply ONE step at a time. tell yourself (but be nice) that you're being unreasonable and that everything is going to be fine.
also, write stories about your fears. i know it sounds wicked bogas, but its a great way to start a book, and who knows, you might become America's next great writer. :-D hope i helped.
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omg ok...im so pissed right now...i was supose to go to the movies with the guy i like today...he has to bring his little bro every where so i was just gonna go with my lil bro too bc ther the same age and all my friends have started skool already...so we planned this 3 days ago..i called n asked wat he wanted to see and he sed a.v.p and i HATE those kinda movies so i was like ok..i was gonna see it bc i wanted ot b with him! so i called n found out the time for it and we agreed to go today (wednesday) ...and we planned this on like monday...and we used to c eachother ALOT but now we just never get around to it and we hold hands n stuff when we do see eachother n hes just sweet and so i was really excited i did chores to get the money n everything...well so i called him yesterday just makin sure he can stil go n he sed he can..so today i called him n he didnt asnwer so i figured he l eft to go...and i got droppd off with my brother and we waited...i kept callin bc there was no answer...and then he called me on his brothers cell and was like..."oh ya i cant go now" i dont have a ride ..i wa slike um ok....and he was like r u mad i was like no and then he was like yaaa...and then he was like o well i can get a ride but its from a gurl ii was like do wat u want..and then he was like ok well ill call her n see if she can take me and ill call u back...AND HE NEVER CALLED ME BACK! he didnt come, call or nothing to let me no wat was going on...so i was stuck seeing avp with my lil brother...im soo mad he hasnt called or nothing..wat shuld i do?? (link)
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blow him off. don't be mean or anything, like stay friends, just know that making plans with him might not be the best idea.
eh boys are stupid. give them a chance.
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I'm 'sort of' a shy person. Especially when it comes to the guy I like. : p
I don't even know if you can call it shy..I just get nervous around him and just mummble. Whaaaaaaaat can I do? I never have the confidence to tell him anything, and I never know what to talk about. Help? : ] (link)
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alright. shyness is genetics really so you can't just get over it. you can contain it and work through it. take baby steps. start by just waving and saying hi as you pass in the hall. then make small talk and say stuff like, "gee that math test was hard" or like "God its cold out!" and stuff like that. later, ask him to study with you. talk about social events, world events, sports, SPORTS, and stuff like that. with the olympics on, he's gotta be watching that.
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My boyfriend has been private schooled all of his life but now this year 4 HS his parents have decided 2 let him go 2 a public school. I am in a public school and I know the temptations that public school has. Well, my boyfriend's going 2 a different HS than me and I'm just worried about him. He's going 2 a school known 4 gangs and stuff, and first off, I don't want him getting involved in anything stupid... and then I'm also concerned about him meeting other girls and then losing interest in me. Wut can I say 2 him, or wut can I do so I stop worrying about all of this? (link)
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give the boy a break. if its ment to be, he wouldn't be looking at other girls. trust him before you make all sorts or assumtions.
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At my school, I'm like the only one who doesn't know anyone in my class. I don't want to be left out. I want people to notice me. How can I get some people to look at me and say she looks like a nice girl or something. I want to get to know some people. I'm trying to take advantage of this! Thanks! -Charlee (link)
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be out going. flirt and act cute. it doesn't matter what you look like, just act like your the queen of the world. be confident, and talk to random people.
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hey im a child star, which means that i do tv shows and commercials and stuff, and my agent called me and wants me to be in this movie...and this movie will take up 2 months of the school year..i cant miss school, but i cant miss this movie oppritunity. wht do i do? help!!! (link)
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take the movie opertunety and get a tutor for those two months. if you work hard with your tutor, i'm sure you can do it.
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well im startin my h.s on sept 8...im really nervous EVERYONE @ my middle skool is goin to this one h.s and im goin to another one far away bc i didnt like the ppl @ my old skool i just had a lot of probs n stuff....but yea this skool is a whole diff crowd of ppl my last skool was s0o0o ghetto!! this is like really not....im just so nervous i dont no ne 1 and we hav to wear uniforms that r navy blue and khaki...im afraid im gonna look like a dork and hav no friends..hellllppp...im gonna b so lost =( (link)
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hey, everyones gonna look dorky wearing the same thing. the point of uniforms is so that kids don't have to worry about what they're wearing. just be friendly. smile a lot. you make friends eventually.
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Hey..
Everyone says I would make a great model and they say I have all of the perfect features for it..where can I get some info. on this? Thanks! Oh, and by the way..I am a 14 year-old gurl..if this helps at all=) (link)
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Look in those little ads in the back of magazines where it says modling agencies.
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My best friend likes this one guy, but secretly I like him, and I think he likes me! I read in her diary, which she let me read, trhat she was mad for him! What can i do! (link)
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Nothing. You should call a truse with her and both of you look for other guyz. Do you think she likes him more than you do? If so, you should let them be and try and get over him.
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Okay im 17 i will be 18 n feb n there is this boy that i talk to on the net n like i met him a couple times n talked to him n he is 15 wont be 16 intill march n like i can tell him anything n i think im sorta getting feelings for him but i dont know if i should date him since he is 15 n younger them me .. n my friends what will they think> (link)
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If he makes you happy, and if he wants to go out with you, go for it. Everyone says age is just a number, but you know that's not true, however, your not that much older than he is. when your 27, he'll be 25. Who cares what your friends think. Just go for it. if things don't work out, then they don't, but you won't be able to say you didn't try.
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