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Okay, so I like two guys. I dont know if they like me back. And I've never had a boyfriend. I know it's irrelevant, but maybe it'll help.
So I'll call them 1 and 2.
So one is blonde and kinda unattractive. Like he's alright. Hes funny and we talk heaps and make jokes. But sometimes he can be mean and rejecting. But in like a joke way.. Its confusing I know....
2 is really cute. But hes the new guy. And no one else seems to be going for him. I've never really talked to him. But I kinda watch him in the class were in together. Hes very outgoing and very funny, and hes someone I think I would get along with well.
I feel that 1 is actually starting to like me though. I can kinda feel it, he changes. But number 2 definetly doesnt like me, like hes never talked to him so why would he? But (I know I might just be seeing things) but when I sit behind his bestfriend he would turn around to talk to him but I caught him taking glimpses at me...
And 2 I kinda like more for some reason? Plus 1's big brother is like my brothers friend so it's kinda awkward. But I talk to 1 more... SO im in a bit of a pickle... They both probably dont like me, but I feel it's wrong to like 2 guys...
Please help me decide.... (link)
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I think that it is best to rely on your heart.
I can only give you advice and tell yo what I think, but you need to make a decision.
So my advice is as follows.
I know exactly when you talk about the guy 1.
I had a friend like him when I was in high school.
I didn't really know him until I got to know him and he was really sweet.
Then we became friends, etc.
The point is that you already know this guy and you can trust him.
And from what you tell me, it seems like he likes you already.
Whereas guy 2 it only seems like you like him for his looks not himself.
Some guys that are good looking could use you and hurt your feelings.
My point here is that you don't really know this guy.
Remember don't judge a book by its cover.
He may look hot and all but 1 you really know and is kind to you.
From what you have said I think that you should really be going for guy 1.
BUT that is only my professional opinion, I could be completely wrong.
It is really up to you to decide from here and see where your heart leads you.
-Ask Alice
If you have any further questions or details please email me at AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com
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Every time I have to present something in class I get nervous standing in front of everyone. My knees shake and my voice starts trembling and changing. I had to present yesterday and my knees were shaking in front of everyone and my voice was shaking. It was embarrassing. I know most of my classmates, I don't know why I get nervous. I can't just pretend Im presenting to one person either. Sometimes I get so nervous people Laugh at me. I have to present something again on next tuesday, so how can I stop my knees and my voice from shaking? (link)
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This is common is young people, even older people.
I suggest you talk drama classes to boost you confidence.
What I do when i present something is try to make it as funny as
posible, so if I get scared and people laugh at me they think
it is part of my presentation.
Try to image when you get up there that you are in a box, or
in front of the mirror and no one can see you except yourself.
Say what you practiced, and don't look at people in the audience
look in-between them.
When I was young I wanted to be an actress, so I took drama
classes, I wanted to be a comedian, so I made every presentation
that I had funny.
If you are not the funny type you could try drama classes and see
how it suits you. Believe it or not, you are going to have to be
able o act no matter what career you choose. If people laugh at
you, just egnor them. It takes a while to get used to performing
in front of people.
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OKay so I wont take long I am senior and in the 12th grade and there is this new admission in my school he is in the 11th grade
he is cute and i kinda want to get to know him
but the problem is i am a senior.. and it would be really weird just walking upto him and saying HIIII and conversing
that sort of stuff cant happen
i mean you know i am fairly popular in school and my friends notice. and i know the 11th grade people quite well
and i dont want stupid stuff going around school
but
this guy is really cute and i really think he might just turn out to be my type
but i dont know how i get to know him!!!!!!! (link)
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It is all right for a girl to have a younger crush. Don't beat
yourself up about it. There is nothing wrong with it. You say
that you get along with year 11 really well, so why don't you
just start to talk to him like you would to any year eleven. And if
he likes you back he will ask you out. Being popular should not
stop you form going out with some one you truly love. Take a risk.
When I was at high school, I had a crush on a guy who always used
to push me around, and every one felt sorry for me. So one day I
just went up to him and said "Do you like me" and the next day he
asked me out. Every one thought i was crazy, but I felt happy.
Making yourself happy is what counts right? Good luck dearest.
-Ask Alice
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so i like this guy. he was in my school and passed out this year. i am a year junior to him so i'll pass out next year!
i have been talking to him for quite a while now.. and i really like him. he likes me too. he asked me out recently.(though we both are confused on what to do because.. the problem is he is going to another country :/ for his college! and yeah well he would come back to where i live cause his family is here, but still i mean i dont know what i should do?) (link)
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Dearest,
You should think this throughout. Is this guy really worth it.
If you think it is just another guy who likes you and will break
your heart, think about it. But if you are absolutely sure you and
him might get together and that you will always love him, then
it was meant to be. If he really loves you he will wait for you to
finish college too and then start seeing you. You could start seeing
him now and them keep in contact for the years in college.
Remember it is better to have loved and lost than to never have
loved at all.
-Ask Alice
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okay so our school will be celebrating teachers day on the 17th because of the ongoing exams
as it is going to be my last teachers day in school
i want to give something to each of the teachers who have taught me for atleast two years now
i have a maths sir who teaches me and the rest five subjects are taught by women
any sugestions???? i need help.
i don't have a very huge budget. but i can splurge a lil'. (link)
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What a wonderful deed yo want to do.
I think you should think throughout all the things that happened
in maths class. Think about something funny or weird and base
your gift on that. For the female teachers you should buy them
something they won't throw away and will come in useful, you
could buy things as simple as a gift basket that you put together
yourself, such a fruit, because they will apreciate that you did it
yourself. You could get them a mug saying best teacher of the
year, or a picture frame, teachers love that.
I hope I helped out. Good luck.
-Ask Alice
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Well what do you wanna know about him?
see when we were dating he was the perfect boyfriend i could ever have!~
he was everything i wanted :)he would come and meet me when i wanted him to.. he met my parents for me..:) so that i had the permission to go out. he would wait for two two hours just to meet me for five minutes.
and we didn't even fight that much.. it was always happy happy!:D
but then i came to know about the girl thing and then things became real bad. I do know that he is very good at lying and he can make up stuff real fast! so i dont know when to trust him and when not to.
okay i will tell you one thing though. he did admit he cheated on me before i found out but he didnt tell me the whole thing truly and completely..he told me he didnt know how it happened and the girl wanted to kiss him..and they just kissed and he would never do it again and he feels terrible..he came to my place to apologise
then i talked to the girl ..she told me it was totally mutual and that she never knew he was dating me and he never told her that just told her i was his bff! :/
then things just went bad cause i dumped him and refused to talk to him like forever
he tried to contact me but i never answered his calls or texts
and whenever i did i was more than rude.
i really want him back. but i dont know if he deserves that second chance. and i dont know if he even wants to to back! what should i do?
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Sorry, I thought I answered before, but I guess I didn't. If you still need my help, please email me at AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com because I might answer but you might not need my help now. Please do email for advice. Thanks! I am always happy to give advice just tell me.
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Okay so there is this real close friend of mine.We are classmates. And we had this sleepover, a couple of us, guys and girls. I just broke up two months back with my bf who cheated..so i am still getting over it...And my friend broke up a few days ago. We ended up chatting throughout the night, and i dont know what happened but we ended up kissing each other too..it was not our intention of doing ANYTHING like that. we pretty much have feelings for our ex's and not each other. i dont know why and how it happened.
we have promised not to tell this to anyone. and that this incident will stay a secret between the two of us forever. but i feel weird about it, i feel disgusted for doing such a stupid thing now. do you think things will change because of this? i am scared he would tell someone which i really dont want.HELP. how should i handle this? (link)
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Hey, sorry for the late answer. I think that it all depends on what the kiss felt like. Did you enjoy it at the moment, or did you find it weird and odd. I think that if you enjoyed it, you might love each other. If that is the case, you should talk to him about it and tell him how you feel, the chances are that he probably like you back. If you found it weird and disgusting Have i can imagine that you must feel really weird around him. a really long discussion with him and tell him how you feel. You should talk it out and let go of the tension between you two. If he is truly your friend, you will go back to like before.
-Ask Alice
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I don't know how to treat the boys in middle school.How should I really treat them? (link)
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Boys in middle school can all be really different. It depend on what kind of school you go to really.
If you go to a strict school: Treat them as friends, ask if they want to go to the movies with you, be kind to them. You could do study dates with some guy friends. But don't over flirt. The reason I am saying this is because you are in a strict school so the guys are probably not used to having girls flirting with them. And believe it or not, they might find it a little weird.
If you go to a open school: Guys in these schools fool around more so flirt with them when you want. But don't worry, if you flirt with a guy you don't really like because they are used to it. If you don't flirt they might consider you alien. Go to parties with them, go on dates. And at these kind of schools it is normal to go over to guys' houses, so you could invite them to yours.
If you want more specific advice, please email me the type of school you go to and what the guys are like, the way they behave. This way I could give you a better answer, free of charge. If you ask I could send you my amazing top ten list of ways to flirt. Just tell me.
Please ask me more advice at AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com. I give professional advice. If you would like to know more about me please visit my website www.askalicemadisson.webstarts.com.
Advice of the week: Yesterday was the past, tomorrow is the future and today is a gift, that's why it's called the present.
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Im 13 and all of my friends have boyfriends, EXCEPT ME. Some guys come up to me and they say "i like you" and i dont know what to say. Then weeks go by and i dont hear from them again.
I think im pretty but not like the populars pretty. So is something wrong with me? why cant i get a boyfriend? (link)
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You seem like you don't really know how to handle your self around guys. You should practice answering things that boys say to you in the mirror. If boys say to you " I like you" you should say "Really? Thanks" In a flirty way, this should attract guys. You should practice this in the mirror because if you don't you might do something you think is flirty and pretty, but it makes you look weird. That might make guys not want to go out with you. I don't think there is any thing wrong with you, if you know how to handle your self around guys, you should be able to get a boyfriend soon. If you want a list of ways to handle and talk around guys please email me and I can send it to you. If you want any more advice, please email me on AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com. IF you don't trust that I give professional advice, please go to my temporary website to see to examples of advice I gave to people, which helped them. My website is www.askalicemadisson.webstarts.com
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i need a nickname for my new boyfriend (a cool one though) (link)
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Please email me his name and what his favorite things are, then I can get your boyfriend a relevant nick name, that he will like you calling him. For any more advice please email me on AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com, if you want to know more about me please go to my temporary website www.AskAliceMadisson.webstarts.com. I give professional advice
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Hi, i jusst wanted to know if me and my 2 week old boyfriend should break up? This all started today when i sat on his knee (its ok im 16) and he said that i farted..... and i didnt!!! The second thing is thaat he touched my friends boob. The third thing is that when i was going up the stairs at school he said that i should get my "big butt" out of his face!! i was like WTF! shut the hell up! and when we were going to leave, he just said bye. not love you. just bye. we usually say i love you before we leave to go home. but he didnt today. He is always embarrising me infrount of my friends and im not liking it :( he is a sweet guy though and very romantic. but is this just a bump in the road in our relationship or should i make it a standstill thing?? so do you think i should dump him or not?? (sorry this is soo long i just had to get all the details so that i can get a honest answer) so thanx :D
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I think that you should give it a few more days. If he continues to act like this, especially not saying ''I love you" you should break up with him. I think that in the beginning he was in love with you, but then he met your friends and now he might be trying to impress one of them. I do not mean to upset you, but it is better to not let your heart get broken by him later than sooner. I would like to know how he acts in three days, please email me on AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com. I give professional advice. If you don't trust me please go to my temporary website www.askalicemadisson.webstarts.com.
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i broke up with my ex cause he had cheated on me
i had no plans of going back to him
and i stopped talking to him completely
but then he keeps on calling me everyday and saying sorry
i dont know what he wants cause
he does say sorry and says he feels terrible for everything
but not once has he mentioned he wants me back
i miss him a alot and obv i want him to come back so u see its very hard for me to be rude to him and not talk at all
what do you think he wants?
he just wants to be friends?
or is he just lying cause he doesnt want me to hate him forever cause we have a lot of mutual friends?
or..
he does love me but is scared to tell me he wants me back?! (link)
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I am not going to say that he wants you back, or that he just wants to be friends. But I am going to say that to answer your question you need to give some more details about the kind of person your ex is. Then I can give you a proper answer. If you want some professional advice, please email me on AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com. If you want to know more about me and why I am asking what your ex is like look on my website www.askalicemadisson.webstarts.com.
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