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Ex-boyfriend troubles
i broke up with my ex cause he had cheated on me
i had no plans of going back to him
and i stopped talking to him completely
but then he keeps on calling me everyday and saying sorry
i dont know what he wants cause
he does say sorry and says he feels terrible for everything
but not once has he mentioned he wants me back
i miss him a alot and obv i want him to come back so u see its very hard for me to be rude to him and not talk at all
what do you think he wants?
he just wants to be friends?
or is he just lying cause he doesnt want me to hate him forever cause we have a lot of mutual friends?
or..
he does love me but is scared to tell me he wants me back?!
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I am not going to say that he wants you back, or that he just wants to be friends. But I am going to say that to answer your question you need to give some more details about the kind of person your ex is. Then I can give you a proper answer. If you want some professional advice, please email me on AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com. If you want to know more about me and why I am asking what your ex is like look on my website www.askalicemadisson.webstarts.com.
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Cheating is a difficult situation, and you have to proceed cautiously or you could be in the same position again.
Did he admit to you that he cheated before you found out? My rule of thumb is, if a guy feels guilty enough to tell you what happened, then he really is sorry and may deserve a second chance. If he never had plans on telling you, then he didn't feel all that terrible about it, and would probably do it again.
Maybe he is calling you because he wants closure, and he doesn't want it to be awkward when you are all around your friends.
Or maybe he does want you back.
But can you trust him? Honestly, deep down, is he worth it?
Ask an unbiased friend what she thinks. Sometimes its easier for someone outside the situation to help you decide the logical choice.
I would get together and talk to him, maturely. Make sure he fully apologizes and is sincere before considering making up. And if thats what he wants, don't let him have it easily. Make him prove it to you that he appreciates you and will respect you from now on.
Use your judgement and go more with your head on this one and less with your heart.
Good luck,
-Abby
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Boys will do that but if you TRULLY belive him go for it but if your hearts telling you to stay away do that..and if your having mixed feelings wait and see what it comes out to be,also make him promise he will never talk to that other girl agian!and if he loves you he will and if not...its going to be hard for you to get over him... just make sure that what you think is good for you and your heart <3
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hould maybe you so call him and plan with him to meet somehwere, and talk to him. Ask him why he cheated on you, why he keeps calling you. Ask him to explain everthing to you. And if you do it face to face you could see if he is telling the truth or not. If you don't want to meet with him you could e-mail him and ask him. I think your best bet is just to ask. Every mind is different so it is hard to guess what he is meaning.
-good luck :)
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If he loved you, he wouldn't have cheated on you to begin with.
He just feels bad that he got caught, and wont stop annoying you until you accept the fact that he cheated on you, and you say it's okay, which to him means it's okay that he cheated.
He hasn't mentioned he wants you back because he doesn't. He's just looking for you to forgive his stupidity.
Sorry -- I'm a bit harsh, but once a cheater, always a cheater.
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