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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
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when my boyfriend feels me up sometimes i get cold and you know what happens. well do guys like that? or do they find it unattractive.thanks
Different guys like different things. But usually when your nipples get hard (If that's what you are talking about), guys like it. It means they are doing something right, and getting a good reaction for it.
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heyy! i was just wondering if anyone has ever used nair and if it works? because i shave my legs but it usually leaves red bumps...and i definitely dont want to wax!!! too painful!! but anyways if anyone could fill me in taht would be great!! thanks!!
Nair only works if you have really long leg hairs that have been growing out for a while. So you wouldn't be to well off using if for the occational stubble, which is usually when I want to shave most.
If shaving gives you bumps, try changing razors or shaving cream. I absolutely love intuition razors, but you have to keep the refills changed out on a regular basis. Don't shave in the morning, because that will give you razor burn, and try not putting on too much scented lotions right after getting out of the shower. A little bit of baby oil should do it.
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Ok, so about a month ago, my boyfriend was fingering me, and it was good, he didn't do it too hard or anything, but, since then, it sometimes hurts to go to the bathroom, and it smells really weird. I wash alot and stuff, but, I don't know what it is, or if it is even from that. I can't just tell my mom. I'd be screwed. But, a little before that, I went to the doctors, and I have an ovarian cyst, and I was wondering if that might have something to do with it. Thanks :]
It very well could have to do with your cyst, so you deffinitely don't want to keep this from your mom. Tell her you think it might have something to do with it.
Having it hurt when you go to the bathroom and having an odor has nothing to do with your boyfriend fingering you, so you shouldn't be "screwed" about anything. I think it sounds like a yeast infection, but you never know. Talk to your mom, and tell her your symptoms. She could buy you an at home test to see if you have a bacterial infection, or something more serious. And she should take you to the doctor.
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are there any kinds that are FDA approved? do they actually work? how do they feel? i dont want them to make my teeth feel gritty.
Crest Premium White Strips.
I use them, they are the best. =] I start seeing results in the first 2 times I use them, so they motivate you to keep using them. They are really great.
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There is this guy I like, we flirt all the time, sleeps on my jacket, and he even got jealous when he saw a picture of another guy on my binder,and asked me if he could rip it up. Only one problem, he has a girlfriend. Everyone says they are g/f and b/f but he's says they're friends. So is he just flirting with me or he likes me? Should I go for it or forget him?
How could you go for it if he has a girlfriend? He's a total flirt, but that sounds like that's about all he is. If you try something with him, the only thing that's going to come from it is a shit load of drama. If I were you, I would just stay away.
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helloo (:
so i don't really wear alot of makeup and mainly because i dont have the right makeup and or i don't know how to apply it haha lame i know, and well i really want to get into wearing makeup
okay but for christmas i get to get all new MAC makeup and everythingg so im physced but im scared that i won't know how to apply it and look like a complete mess and will buy the wrong things. so basically what's the very first step on putting everything on and stuff. my friend says i only need powders because i have good skin, but i dont know. Should i only use bronzer and the compact? But i want my skin to look smooth and not all powdery.
heres a picture of mee
tell me if the link doesnt work
oh and if you could what eye shadows would look best on me?
&& don't please don't say i dont need any makeup!
thankyou so much!
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Neither link worked. =\
So bascially, I can't tell you if you need foundation or just powder. And I can't tell you what eyeshadow would look best.
What I can tell you is to not go overboard. Buy like shades of eyeshadow, and light colored blush, etc. Because if one day you didn't wear any makeup, and the next you wore a shit load, you would look strange.
Try this for starters:
Ask someone working in the makeup department what color foundation you need or if you need any at all. Same for powder. Then buy a somewhat pinky colored shade of blush. Buy eyeshadow with different hues, and MAC should explain on the back how to use it. What color goes where (crease, lid, etc). After that just buy a black eyeliner pencil, and mascara. That's all you need. Maybe ask your mom for help on how to wear it.
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my boyfriend and i really want to have sex. but i haven't even let him go to 3rd base because id on't now what to do about down there. like do i shave it or trim it or what? what do guys like? please help!
I know the last two people told you to shave, and if that's what you want to do, then by all means, do it. But if you aren't comfortable shaving completely, I suggest just shaving a little. I admit it, if I was a guy, I would be very turned off my a big bush, so deffinitley trim. But if you aren't ready to shave it all off, just shave most of it. Then slowly you can work your way up to shaving it all off.
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I was wondering if anybody knew what kind of effects that birth control has on home pregnancy tests. Thank you.
My gyno. told me that birth control can cause false positives. But that's about all I know of.
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Has anybody ever watched the movie "Thirteen"?
It's the most amazing movie I have ever seen in my entire life. The only thing is, I've seen it a couple of times, but I don't understand the ending. After her mom finds out she cuts, they do and like sleep for what seems like days. Then, Tracy wakes up, and the next thing you know it's in like a dream - like state, and she's on the spinny thing that she was on in the beginning of the movie. Did she commit suicide? Did she end up going back to the person she was before she met her brunette friend? (I forget her name lol). This was the most amazing movie I've ever watched in my entire life, I just don't understand the ending. Can anyone help me?
P.S. The 'spinny thing' I'm referring to is one of those circular toys at most playgrounds that spin around and around. I don't know what it's called, sorry.
It is a very good movie.
I'm not sure, but I think the end of the movie is supposed to be up for interpretation.
When I watch it, I think the merry go round (or the spinny thingy;]) is supposed to represent her life. As in, it was crazy, and she felt like her head was spinning, etc. But in the end, everything turned out alright, and everything will be alright for her.
I don't think it had anything to do with suicide though. But hey, it is pretty vague. It could mean just about anything.
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I really want to get my belly pieced but my parents won't let me because they say i'm too young.I've wanted to get it done for a while what are some things i can say to get them to let me piece my belly?
thanx
I was thirteen when I got mine pierced. Explain to them it's not such a bad thing. In fact, it's a tasteful piercing. Don't bug them. I bugged my parents forever before they finally caved in. Just accept their answer, and tell them you think it would be a nice birthday gift in about a year =]
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I just got a persian cat(cleopatra is her name:) )
She's preganat and due in 3 weeks time.I just want to know
How do i prepare a place for her to deliver the kittens? how do i let her know the place?
I noticed she's really playful. what kind of games could i play with her?
How do i train her to get close to me?
It doesn't matter how many places you may make for her to have her kittens. Most likely she's going to pick her own place. My cat gave birth under my bed, but it wasn't messy at all. No one was home when she was pregnant, and we came him and we had 5 cats =] She cleaned up after herself really well. There was no stains on the carpet or anything, and all the kittens were clean as well.
If she's do in three weeks, don't do any strenuous exercises with her. But when she acts like she wants to be petted, pet her. Love on her, and stay with her. That's about all you can do.
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I was wondering, can dogs feel your emotions? I know it's probably a stupid question but the other day, I yelled at my puppy for pooping in the house & gave him a little spanky. He ran off but couple minutes later, I got bad news about my friend and I started crying and even though he knew I was mad at him, he came by me and started licking me and snuggling by me. So, can dogs feel your emotions?
I'm not sure, but I think they can. I think cats and dogs both can. I've always had cats, and when I cried, they would always purr at my feet, or lay down with me until I fell asleep. I now have a dog. (A LOVELY chihuahua =]) And everytime I cry, she comes running into my room, and sits in my lap. She licks my cheeks, and snuggles up to me until I stop crying, or cheer up.
I think they just know their owners so well, and when they aren't happy, or don't act like they usually act, the know something's not right. So they stick around and try to figure out what that is.
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I've been on Yaz for about 4 months now and yesterday somehow it happened that i took two? i dont know how in the world i did so, but i wasnt obv. paying attention when i thought i didnt take one yet. So today i was missing the one, because i took today ( Sunday ) on saturday along with the one really for saturday. So what i did today was took half of mondays soo my body didnt think i missed one.. was that right to do?
Probably not. You would have been better off just not taking one for that day. If you read the info sheet that came with your pills, you can miss 1 pill, and take two the next day to make up for it. You're protected until you miss 2 consecutive pills. You would have been better off just not taking one Sunday. Tommorow just take the other half of Monday's, and Tuesdays. You may experience some spot bleeding, but it should go away on your next pack of pills.
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okay i started my period like yesterday..but like both yesterday and today i only got like one quater size amount. that was it. i normally start either the 24th day or the 25th, yesterday was the 24th day. i was just wondering what was goin on with it??!! cause i have never had this happen before in like the 2 years i have had it
You're probably just spot bleeding. If you aren't sexually active, you have nothing to worry about. Sometimes it just happens to girls. You may just have a really light period this month. No big deal.
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i'm 14, freshman, i'm going to be 15 in february.
i need a job. my parents have given me so much money lately and i've been trying to get a job since april. i neeeed money for christmas and so i can go out and do things. any ideas? i live in ohio so i can legally work, i know all the laws. i've tried mcdonalds. i also live in a small town where the nearest mall is an hour away so don't say mall please :] so any ideas would be great! :D
It's hard to get a job as teenager, especially when you are fourteen. No place would hire me when I was fourteen, and the only place that would hire me when I was fifteen was fast food restaurants. You probably won't find a job, let alone a decent one. It's best to wait until you are 16. I am, and a lot of places I want to work still won't hire me. It's frustrating, trust me I know. I finally got a job at Subway though. The best thing to do is just wait. Working isn't all it's cracked up to be. You say you want a job so you can go out and do things? Well, when you have a job you work. Since teenagers go to school through the week, they usually work on the weekends. So yeah, you may have a job, and you may have money, but you probably won't have time to spend it. You're still a kid and i'm sure no one expects you to buy the Christmas presents. It's a lot less stressful, and cheaper to either make presents, or Christmas cards. That way you get your good meaning across, without spending a shitload.
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I just got my dog treated for allergies and the vet put her on chlorpheniramine (twice a day 2 tablets). Now she is throwing up blood mixed in her salava. Is this a side affect? She also was tested positive for heart worms and they put her on Tri-Heart 51 to treat new worms forming.
You have got to tell your vet ASAP!
Throwing up blood is never good, human or animal, and it's never a good sign. It sounds like something is severely wrong, and you need to take her to the doctor. Then they can change her medicine if that's the cause, or figure out the reason why he/she is doing this.
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((the story)) Im pregnant oh and im also 19 years old.. i recently found out and i called the father of the baby.. he is not my boyfriend.. but he is the boy i love with all my heart. he is the love of my life. when i told him he just right away said i dont want it, that i needed to take care of it.. i got mad and just hung up the phone and sent him a text saying i would talk to him later, that i wasnt in the mood to talk... later that night we talked some more, he made it 100% clear he doesnt want it.. he told me to take a pill or get an abortion.. i said ok... but the truth is.. i dont know if i want to... i know im young, i know i have my life to live... but i want a child... i feel like i need it.. to fill the emptiness i feel inside me.. that i have felt for such a long time... but at the same time.. i know if i keep it i will loose him, which makes me not want it... i love him with all my heart, with everything i have..but i know and feel in my heart that he and i will never be what i want to be... we have been "together" ((friends with benifets/bestfriends/'inlove'/all of the above)) for 2 1/2 years now.. and he knows i love him, and he claims he loves me aswell.. but he never wants something "real"... if i keep the baby, i am like 90% sure he will have nothing to do with me because i will be going against his wishes.. that or i just dont tell him and i leave to live in the US ((i live in mexico bythe way)) to stay with my family who lives there...
((the question)) should i get an abortion and continue being in this f*ed up relationsip that goes no where with theman i love.. or should i keep the baby and risk losing him forever, yet gaining a new never ending love of a child??
I haven't read anything you've wrote yet, except the title. And this is my advice: If you can take care of the baby, and love the baby, then choose THE BABY.
After reading it, your boyfried or whatever the hell you want to call him is an asshole. Your baby is innocent. That's it. That's the end of it.
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okay please dont judge me im begginnggg you..
but im 14 gonna be 15 in like 8 days.
but me n my boyfriend of 3 years have had sex b4.
and this last time we had it he didnt wear a condom.
i took a test and it showed up positive.
i took one about 3 weeks ago.
i took another one just last week and that one also said positive.
i have no i dea what to do.
my byfriend and i both want to keep it.
but have no idea how to tell our parents.
pleasee tell me something to doo.
Tests aren't always right, but 2 positive ones in a row is a pretty big kick in the butt. This baby is just as much your boyfriend's as it is yours, so the choices you make should be made together. Don't leave him out of the decision making process.
Having a kid at 15 is a large deal. Hell, you're practically still a kid yourself. But if you think you have the resources to take care of YOUR baby, then do it. If you think you can give your child a loving home, and the care he/she needs, then keep it. Don't give it away because someone on advicenators told you too, and vice-versa. Don't just keep it because i'm telling you to. But think long and hard. If you can take care of the baby, then just do it. Please..
You've gotten plenty of good advice on telling your parents, so I shouldn't have to say anything about that.
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whats that old song taht goesmlike " Im crazy " to know you wouldnt leave me or something?
Are you serious?
google it. it's not difficult you know..
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I'm determined to become one. Is height a big issue? I'm only 16 and in a few months, I'll get some photoshoots done.. yet, I am only 5'1-5'2. I'm not going for high fashion, runaway.. sort of modelling.
But would people want someone like me [height]? Especially if I have a unique look? Or do i just get canceled out?
Height is a huge factor in modeling. It's not like they won't give you the chance or anything, but if you aren't tall, you better be damn good at everything they throw at you.
Maybe look into America's Next Top Model auditions.
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