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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
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hi ..um i probably sound really imature about it, but i am starting birth control for the first time and i was waiting for sunday to take the first one, and i thought it was today but its actually saturday ...what do i do now?.. do i keep taking them and pretend that today it sunday for the rest of the time...or do i restart a new package tomorrow.
No big deal, just keep taking them like you are. And on they next package you take, take the first one on Sunday. Problem solved.
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Why has my parents got baby oil next to their bed...my friends keep saying all this stuff and its just floating around in my brain. I need straight answer its not like i can ask my parents
There could be plenty of reasons why the have baby oil next to their bed, and yes it could be used as lubrication for sex. But that doesn't mean it is. They could use if for dry skin on their bodies, or for massages. But just don't ponder on it to much.
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My boyfriend and I started to have "dry sex" a few days ago. We only had underwear on and he started to get really rough and then actually cummed. I think a little might have gotten on my underwear and then when I went to the bathroom, I bled a little. What is going on and what are my chances of being pregnant?
He most likely popped your cherry [ripped your hymen] and that was what the blood came from. The chances of you becoming pregnant from dry sex are very low, so I wouldn't worry to much.
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i took a ept pregnancy test and it came out positve could the test be wrong
The test is very accurate if done properly, but if you think you may not be pregnant, try taking another one. If you don't trust these EXPENSIVE tests, go to a clinic. They will tell you for sure if you are pregnant or not.
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im so upset all my boyfriends friends think they can do what ever they want to me my boyfriend always hits me and i cant tell my parents or the cops my boyfriend said he will hit me till i cant walk anymore please someone give me advice
Tell your parents. I don't give a fuck about what your boyfriend says. Are you aware that if you don't do something about this, you can end up being raped, or even killed for that matter? You need support and you need to tell your parents. Your parents can tell the police and they will make sure that no one will ever hurt you again. If you want to stay safe, then tell someone trustworthy. That's about the only way to keep yourself out of harms way.
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Ok please help me im young and i've had sex seven times and all of them i've been forsed into i just dont know how to say NO! because the one guy i first did it with always hit me and i dont want to be hit again by a guy and im not a slut please help
Do you mean you were forced down against your will [meaning you were raped seven times] or you were pressured into it even though you didn't want to have sex? Either way around, that's really wrong and i'm sorry. The guy that hit you CAN be charged for rape and if you feel that's what you need to do then tell your parents. If not, try not putting yourself into these situations. Stay away from these so called 'friends' you have and stop putting yourself into the situations that you are.
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I was goin to bed downstairs with my parents room being upstairs, when i finally was in bed i heard a scream, so i got up wondering what was wrong then i heard all these sex noises moans and such, i was freaked out, wouldn't you be? so i called my 19 year old sister and she came home to comfort me. I couldn't sleep even after they had stopped, it was stuck in my head.
The next morning i was discusted, but still decided to talk about them about it, all they said was "we are in love you should be happy that we are still together in so in love" i go "i'm not...it's discusting to me!" they just said "you should get over it" now i can't get the noises out of my mind and i keep picturing them doing it i know they are in love but i still think it is really discusting i mean blowjobs, kissing, naked! that is what is stuck...please help me to be relived of that!
I don't mean to take your parent's side, so if it sounds like I am please forgive me. Don't get me wrong, it was very uncool for the to be that loud about it while you were there. They should have been more discreet about it. But you should be glad that your parents are still intimate. Not many parents are, and that's a good thing. It just means that their relationship is going well. [apparently really well] Next time the subject comes up, try telling them you would prefer if they would wait until you weren't home or be more quite about it because you were freaked out. They should understand, i'm sure they were pretty embarrassed also and were just trying to hide it.
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ok so last night i have this guy come over to my house and we were makin out and shit and he then started to finger me. It got harder and harder. He fingered me so hard tht i was hurting after wards and i didnt tell him to stop goin so hard because i didnt want to look stupid. it even hurt when i had to go to the bathroom. well i thought it was just the one night thing. but now im hurtin again and still when i go to the bathroom.. if anyone has any advice on what this good be or if its normal. everything is appreciated.
Most likely he ripped your hymen i.e popped your cherry. It's very normal and it doesn't just happen during sex. It can happen during any regular activities that involve straining on your vagina. Like running for example. If they feeling doesn't go away in a few days, go to the doctor.
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I just recently had a baby and i have alot of stitches in my vagina area i'm just wondering i've been feeling horny is it safe to materbate?
If you still have stiches, I would most likely wait. Most women get horny after having babies because they have raging hormones. If you absolutely can't go without masturbating, try just rubbing your clit- someone has already mentioned this so I figured I would suggest it also.
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Hiya, I was supposed to come on my period on Monday(24th) and i still havent. I did a pregnancy test and it came out negative. So why havent i come on my period? Im still really worried. I have heard you can be a few days late but can you miss a period comepletely? Any advice would be great.
Some periods are irregular. Meaning you can start or end your period at different parts of the month, and yes sometimes miss your period completely. You may just be starting late, which is very normal. Don't worry to much if you don't start your period, because you've already taken a pregnancy test. But if you miss your period next month, take another one and I would suggest going to the doctor about it. They could put you on the pill, which can regulate your period and get rid of these worries for you.
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I know this is kind of a weird question but it's bugging me. Why do guys readjust themselves? Is it normal to feel the urge to often? My boyfriend does it... kind of a lot & isn't very discreet about it. I don't mind it but sometimes it looks like he's itching or grabbing himself. can someone please enlighten me? thank you!
Sometimes guys get random boners at weird parts of the day, and the penis sticks straight up out of the pants. When a guy rearranges themselves, they are making the boner less obvious. Most guys don't really care about being discreet. It's probably the last thing on their minds. That's just how they are.
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Ive been told that you can still be preg. even if you get your period.. Im kinda scared because ive been feelin sick for a week now and i get dizzy and the only think i can think of is that i may be prego because on the 1st i had unprotected sex. but i got my period so is it possible to get your period n still be pregnant
It is possible, yes. But I highly doubt that you are. It's very unlikely and it only happens in certain people. I'm sure you are ok for now, but when it's time for your next period to come around and you happen to not start, try taking a pregnancy test - just to be sure.
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I have a flap on my vagina and its really big sometimes it itches sometimes it doesnt but when my boyfriend rubs his penis against me it gives me loads of plessure. I told my mom about it and she said its normal, not the boyfriend thing the flap lol. What is it and will it go away...
It's probably your hymen. It will go away when you or someone else [as in a guy] tears it.
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Heres the deal im 14 and i have bein with my boyfriend for three days whos 18 next month. When we have bein snogging he has bein rubbing his penis against my vagina and i think its a massive turn on and makes me breathe heavily. He understands i want to take things slow but when i get home i find this white sticky stuff in my pants sort of like discharge but its really thick. I have started my periods and everything and i have had sex in the past with my ex but what is this sticky stuff and whats the course...can it damage my vagina? Please help me im really depressed and worried!
It's nothing that can hurt you vagina, it's simply a cause of you becoming 'wet'. In other words, horny. Kind of like guy's pre-ejaculation. It's nothing to worry about, and it's completely natural. Just remember to change your underwear afterwards, or try panty liners for discharge.
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my best friend has bein with her boyfriend for 5 months rite they have had sex about 17 times...
He doesnt believe in using a condom,and they havent once. 4 times shes put me under pressure saying shes pregnet and i have bein with her through it no matter what. She lost the baby the last time and the last 3 times was jus a miss hab. But now you see its happeing again she she hasnt come on here periods 4 2 months and can feel movement in her womb what shall i do?? Shes only 14 and her mom will kill her but i think she wants to keep it Please help me!!
I do believe your friend is pulling your leg about the whole 'womb' thing. But you have to tell this girl to get on birth control or something, because this is a little out of control. I can understand her missing her period and thinking she's pregnant, but feeling movement in her womb? No way. If she's only 2 months pregnant, there is no way she could tell that kind of thing. Anyways, tell her to get a home pregnancy test, or better yet, you get her one. If she isn't pregnant, tell her she has three choice; 1 Start using condoms, 2 Get on birth control or 3 stop having sex. If she is pregnant, she needs to go to a clinic, tell her parents, and go to the doctor if she's keeping it.
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If you have sex while on your period can you still get pregnant? and if so what is the likely hood? Or if you use a condom?
Yes, you can get pregnant while you are on your period. The chances are very low, and even lower if you use a condom.
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so theres this boy and i got with him int he past and all and im ging to a friends house to swim with him tomorrow and we were flirting so bad tonight. like i really like him. and he was telling me about he fignered a girl and all ( we got in a weird convo) and like how he was gonna make out with me and something else. and i know hes gonna try to finger me and sutff.. and im kinda ok with it. but like .. i dont know what to excpet and what to do . and what its gonna be like
If you are curious about how it's going feel, finger yourself. That will give you a pretty good idea of the feeling and what to expect physically. Emotionally, it's better. Especially if you really like the boy. I was nervous the first time, because I am a very self consious girl, but it's really not bad at all. Just make sure you are really clean down there. ie, take a shower before you go & use feminine wipes right before you meet up with the guy. You don't have to do anything, he does all the work. You simply enjoy yourself. Have fun.
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Is there any possible way to get your period sooner?
No.
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i started taking birth control pills and i was wondering when its safe for my boyfriend to not use a condom?
It's never safe for him to stop using a condom, but the birth control starts working after the first month of being on the pill. That's when it starts becoming effective anyways.
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me and my husband are about ready to start trying for a child. we were just wondering, after he ejaculates...do i leave it in there or should i wash it out after an hour or so?
I'm pretty sure it doesn't make that much of a difference, but personally I would just leave it alone & let nature do the rest. I'm almost positive that's what you are supposed to do if you are trying to conceive.
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