Regardless of whether you had sex vaginally or not, you are not a virgin. You still had sex--anal sex is still sex. So even if your hymen is still in tact, you aren't a virgin. I don't know what your personal viewpoints or values are, and I'm sorry if this changes things for you. The most important thing is to only have sex when you feel it is right and you are comfortable (you sound young, so please hold off until you are older).. If you do go ahead with things, make sure to use a condom EVERY TIME. You can still contract STD's through anal or oral sex, not just vaginal.

Thank you. I believe that I am no virgin now. Somebody said that if being a virgin is having a hymen still then boys can never be virgins. This is making much senses to me. I have now got the doctor say my rash is herpes since I did the anal sexing. :(

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