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Hi, I'm Brittney, I'm a junior in college. don't ever feel hesitant to ask me a question, I will never judge you. Be completely honest and I will give you the best answer I can give, 100% of the time. A fun fact about me- I'm a triplet!

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I got hired to work on my college housing staff. I am 18 and female and the guy I will be talking about is 19. So, I thought he was cute for a while. We talk, we joke, he laughs at my jokes, my eyes always search for him first in a crowded room. Tonight, we had staff bonding, we watched a movie in the basement. My roommate and one of my other best friends on staff sat together, so the cute guy came over to me and asked if he could sit next to me to which I said of course. It started out really awkward, we were both on our own sides minding our own business. However, as the movie progressed, I realized we were mimicking each other's actions. We were both eating food, I finished eating, so he stopped eating. I then cracked my knuckles, I stopped and then he cracked his knuckles. So, I moved my position so that my legs were a little closer to his, he didn't move for a little but then he moved his arm to the back of the couch we were on and set it behind me.

It's just little things and it isn't a lot but do you think there is something possibly there? (: He's so cute and I don't want to just blatantly tell him that I like him right away, before the school year even starts because I don't want to ruin a work/personal friendship with him. But, do you think we may have chemistry? Thanks!

I definitely think you both have chemistry, you have a great attitude for not wanting to rush anything. That's exactly what you should do, just go along for the ride! I'm betting things will progress between you two, eventually you will add each other on Facebook or other social media and get each others number. It's fun to have a little fling, so definitely enjoy it. If it's meant to be it will happen for you both, so enjoying work and him as a friend will be a major benefit to you. This is similar to exactly what happened to me, now I'm with my current boyfriend for over a year. Obviously there are no guarantees, but what's the worst that happens? You guys stay friends? I say it's a win win for you. Enjoy college, enjoy your job, and enjoy your fling. Hope this helps!

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(Rating: 5) It helped, thanks so much! (:
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