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Hi, I'm Brittney, I'm a junior in college. don't ever feel hesitant to ask me a question, I will never judge you. Be completely honest and I will give you the best answer I can give, 100% of the time. A fun fact about me- I'm a triplet!advice
My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. He was in Spain for the past month and we didn't really talk-we could only talk over Facebook chat, and only did so a couple times briefly because he never initiated it and I didn't want to bother him since it seemed like he didn't want to chat. Before he left, we hung out, and he seemed SO into me and he acted really sweet and made me feel important. But last week was my 16th birthday, and he didn't say anything. I had messaged him two weeks prior to see if he could come to my party, but he never even opened the messages. I could see that he went ONLINE for extended periods of time throughout that time, and he was ONLINE on my birthday, but he didn't even say happy birthday. He read my friend's messages so I know that he is getting messages. Anyway, I wrote him this whole thing about how it's rude to ignore my birthday and to not even read my messages(he knew it was my birthday, that's not even a question) and how it really hurt my feelings and to please reply when he can. He was online when I sent that but he still didnt read it. I don't know what's wrong with him!!! We were GREAT the day before he left, I don't know why he's ignoring me. It really put a damper on my birthday because he didn't say anything. Even my ex said happy birthday. Anyway, he is coming back today and will be able to text. He hasn't texted me. I want to know what his problem is but I don't want to keep asking. Should I break up with him? I feel that he deserves to be dumped but my problem is is that for some reason, I still really like him and want to be with him. Am I overreacting? What should I do? I just want him to talk to me again. He knows I'm angry. Thank you!
I can tell you right off the bat he doesn't deserve you. He's extremely rude to you for no reason and had no right to make you feel so special before he immaturely ignored you. I'm sorry you went through that, just know that not every guy will do that to you so don't let your hopes down. You sent him your message, you told him how you feel, that's all you can do. Honestly I know it's hard to handle but He doesn't even deserve a text from you at this point. Or a call. You should ignore him and move on with your life because you have so much more to look forward to, like someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated. Keep your head up and keep walking forward, stay strong!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much, this made me feel better and I will certainly move on :)