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Im in sophmore at this high school and I really wanted to get into the arts this year...aka filming. I met this guy, we will call him Steve, and he is a photogpraher. We started texting and instastanly became good friends.
I wasn't sure if I like liked Steve, or just liked him as a friend. Idk, he was the first REAL guy friend I had in a while. we hung out everyday after school, during lunch, and sometimes even before school. I couldn't tell if he like liked me, but Im pretty sure it was just a friends thing.
Anyway, than he met my sister. My TWIN sister.
SO to fill you in, me and my twin look NOTHING alike. she is a bit skinnier than I am, and we r also COMPLETLY different. I have never had a boyfriend and she also is with a guy.
So Steve and my twin meet. and they start flirting. a lot. It made me really upset because I had told my twin that i may have feelings for him, but she literally keep flirting.
than they started texting.
and texting
and than everything got fucked up.
I can't tell if I'm jealous of this because I like him, or WHAT. but its fucking up me and STeves relationship because every time I talk to him, I feel like I'm being played because he likes my sister.
no, they haven't actually been like romantically doing anything. but they text a lot. and me and steve and becoming not even friends at this point.
Well. ok
so what do i do?
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First off, it's entirely possible that you're jealousy has nothing to do with feelings for him. Like all humans, you probably need some reassurance on occasion and the fact that your sister is getting more positive treatment than you is grounds for bad feelings alone. So forget about the attention your sister is getting and just think about the guy. Think and try to decide if you have feelings for him. If you still aren't sure, my guess would be that you don't.
Either way, I don't know your sister, but it might be a good idea to bring this up to her. I would guess that she doesn't know how you feel and would act differently if she did.
Also, if you do have feelings for him, I would bring it up sooner than later. If your sister and he start a relationship, I wouldn't bring it up at that point because it might damage their relationship, which is why I would do all of this soon. If you don't have feelings for him, I would try to put it all behind you.
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This was great advice. so thanks.
I really had feelings for him I realized when they started flirting.
I talked to my twin and told her how i felt, and she kidna told me that it wasn't her problem. so i put my feelings behind because , well honestly, I was scared of them getting together. and me getting hurt.
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