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Hi, I'm 14/f
I've had a huge, and I mean HUGE crush on this older guy for years now. We're talking I forget my own name around him! Now he has a girlfriend and he really likes her. They're long distance, so he calls her every night & he always has this huge cheesy smile every time he's on the phone with her. I am, surprisingly, not jealous of her at all. It's normal to be at least a little jealous when I think about something like that, right? But all I can think of when I think about him with her is happiness for him & I'm glad that he's happy with her. That's all I seem to care about. I don't like being so calm about all of it. I don't want to cause problems either, but it drives me insane that I'm not at least a little jealous!
So my question is: Is it possible to make yourself jealous? If so, please share! I don't want to give up on any chance I might have to be with him & by being so calm it seems like i AM giving up! Someone, anyone, please help me. Anything will be appreciated.
Thanks for reading & answering in advance! (link)
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WHAT'S WRONG WITH BEING CALM? More girls should be like that instead of fighting over guys all the time. The thing is you like this guy so much that you just want him to be happy. There's also nothing wrong with you telling him that you like him even though he has a girlfriend. Trust me when I say jealousy never wins. All I can say is just be a great friend to him.
Hopefully this helps.
~Andrew~
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Rating: 5
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Thank you for the compliment! :) And I will tell him, it's really easy to talk to him.
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