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I'm kinda at the end of my rope with my boyfriend. We live together, and he started a new job about 6 months ago that has him stressed out rather often.
I love him, and I want to enjoy our time together, but I just can't. He picks his nose and snorts, wipes his nose on his hands, scratches his crotch, burps, chews his nails, forget to brush his teeth... ectra...
It used to be that if I wanted to have a meal with him without this behavoir, I could at least drag him out of the house, but now that doesn't work either. He's nearly as bad in public as he is at home.
I'm sure he is feeling ignored and neglected, but I just can't take someone seriously when they are acting this way. I feel so disrespected by all this and find him so unattractive. I wish he'd just reach for a damn Kleenex or go to the bathroom and do some of this shit in private. I just want to feel like I'm living with an adult who values and respects my presence. He says lovely things all the time, but when he says while behaving this way it just adds insult to injury.
I'm not sure how to bring this up tho without it turning into a "Hey you do gross things too!" 'cause I'm sure I do things that piss him off, but I need him to understand this is reaching deal-breaking proportions for me. (link)
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You need to talk to him. He won't change his ways unless you let him know you have a problem with them.
Good Luck!
~Andrew~
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Rating: 3
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I understand I need to speak to him about this. My question was about how to go about doing that and help make it a productive conversation rather than a fight.
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