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hey i'm the 12 year old girl with the 16 year old bf. alot my friends have really older boy friends.and they've had sex before. i'm really not sure what i should do? my friends are always talking abuot how they had sex. sometimes they would ask me if i've had sex with my bf and they know i'll say no. should i have sex with my bf?
You shouldn't feel like you should have sex with your boyfriend, just because your friends are doing it with theirs. You shouldn't have to feel pressured into something, especially having sex. That is a big decision and it should be for someone you love and care about. When you're ready for it, you'll know. But I don't think now is that time...
Your friends don't sound like they are being very nice friends, either. If they ask you every time (even though they know you haven't had sex), just to hear you say no, that's not being very friend like. A friend doesn't do that to someone. You should be very proud of yourself and the decisions you made, never let anyone tell you different. Follow what you think is right.
(Rating: 5) YOU SAVED ME! no really i forgot about coming here and telling you wut happned but you made me think again b4 i went and did it wit him he was alreayd cheating on me with three other girls he had sex with liek fbuddies! he got HERPES i found out later from one girl he gave it to when we were supposed to still dating and he dumped me cuz i wudnt have no sex at all wit him! THANK YOU!