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so i hooked up with this guy just once and we're both back for spring break and i wanna hook up again. he said i was really good after the first time. we both don't want a relationship so don't say "don't cause you'll fall in love" or any of that. i just want to hookup haha. do guys like being umm a bootycall i guess? lol so should i text him? (link)
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Based on your previous questions, you're likely to be fibbing a little here. You even say:
"I hooked up with this guy the first time we hung out...
I'll see him during spring break ...
I don't want to be remembered as easy because i hooked up with him ...
... want to get to know him better. Like a date.. ..."
You are asking to be hurt.
If you have any feelings, ANY AT ALL, that you might possibly kind of somewhat want to be in something even remotely like a relationship with this guy at any point in the future...
No.
No, no, no. You're just dragging yourself into a pit of darkness.
And, I'm sorry, but do girls actually LIKE being bootycalls? No self-respecting girl does. You end up degrading yourself and allowing yourself to be a tool. You look back on it years later and say, "Man, why did I do that? Ugh."
Just because you don't see any consequences right at this very second doesn't mean they don't exist and won't arise.
Be a young woman. Grow. Don't let yourself be used and tossed around. You are better than that.
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thanks, obviously not what i wanted to hear but thanks alot for being honest that's what i need. and also, how did you know what my previous questions were?
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