Frankly, a guy like that is bad news. Who is he to have any kind of a say in who you hang out with, or who you call?
No matter how long you've been together, if he's not giving you any freedom, take it. He has absolutely zero right to control you like that. None. Zip. Zilch. Nada.

Catch my drift?

Not to mention, if you're so ambivalent about your relationship with this guy that you're asking a bunch of strangers on the internet if you should stay or go, you already know the answer. You KNOW he's not treating you right.

I don't know how old you two are, but you should be aware that controlling, jealous, possessive guys can easily become physically abusive when they don't get what they want.

Just remember that you deserve to be treated like a person and an equal, not a pet or a possession.

He's an asshole. Get out now.

Siren

You are right! I only cheated on him twice so he has no right bossing me around cuz it was less than three times. I guess if i cheated three times he should be checkin on me but its only TWICE! and we been together THREE montsh so that ain't even once a month. You are right so I dumped him THANK YOU!

I'm a laid-back 26 year old with a Psychology BA, starting my MA program, and working my way into the field as quickly as I can. It took me an extra Bachelor's degree (in vocal performance and creative writing) to figure it out, but I was put on this Earth to help, to heal, and to love.

I have made the decision to dedicate my life and career to helping others. I am here to do just that.

I've been a member since 2004, and since I signed up, I've gone through quite a lot and learned quite a lot from it. I'm here to give guidance where I had none; no one should have to go through the difficulties I went through alone.

Feel free to visit my website/blog, if you want to read my experience with domestic violence and my thoughts on it.

***While I do tend to answer mental health and other health-related or medicine-related questions, I am by NO MEANS a licensed physician or practitioner of any sort. Any and all advice I give for these questions is from my own experience or studies.***

If you need to get a hold of me quickly, my screen name on AIM is SirenCytherea. Just let me know you found me here.

I'm a strong believer in the idea that there are no stupid questions except the ones left unasked, so, please, keep an open mind, heart, and mouth.

Siren

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