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When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.

What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)

Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)

Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)

We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)

You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)

We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)

Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.

Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.

One person can make a difference and every person should try.

The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.

Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)

The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)

Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)

When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.

Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.

Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)

The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)

Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)

DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'

Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)

The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.

Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)

Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)

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hi, im fourteen and i need to go to illinios to see the girl of my dreams and i need to no the easiest way to do it....i take all suggestions and i have tried to get family to take me but they wont so help me plz (link)
You want to run away? That's wrong. Did your family allow you to go see her on your own? I doubt that.
Running away to see her is not the right way to be with her. You can contact her in many other ways. You can talk online via video chat or talk on the phone, or even visit each other but on holidays and occasions. But you can't run away and leave your life and family behind to be with her. Besides, why isn't SHE running away to be with you? Why isn't she thinking the same? You think it's because you are the guy, so you are the one who should run away to be with her? That's not necessarily, if she was inlove with you as much as you were in love with her, you would be running away together, and not only you running to her.
You are still fourteen, you are not IN love, you are only overwhelmed by a sensation of admiration and excitement, a new feeling that you feel, but it's not love, you don't know love yet, and you may not believe me, but whether you continue to be with her or not, one day you WILL be in love, and you'll know that what you felt now was nothing in comparison.
So for now, don't rush things, be with her, but in a long distance relationship, till after a couple of years, when you join college, maybe you could move to illinois and go to college there, and then you could be with her, and if she's the same age as you, maybe you could even join the same university. This is how things work, but it's not by you running away and leaving your family and education and life and going all the way there, just so you'd realize that you have no money or place there, and it's not like she'll take you into her home and her family would agree. What are you going to do then? How would you support yourself? Are you going to get a job at 14 years, you won't find a job at your age.
So always in life, when you want to do something, you have to put out a plan, and see if it'll work, you have to plan ahead and work out all the different possibilities for your plan, but right now, for your plan, there is 0 success that it will work.


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im not running away i plan on coming back in like a week




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