When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.
What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)
Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)
Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)
We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)
You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)
We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)
Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
One person can make a difference and every person should try.
The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.
Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)
The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)
When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.
Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.
Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)
The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)
Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)
DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'
Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)
The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)
Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)
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Me and my boyfriend have known each other for awhile. Dating for almost 4 months now. We used to see each other a lot, but now he started college and has a part time job. That was fine.. it was a little difficult to set up when we'll see each other. Now his sister is moving in and she has two kids who she will have my boyfriend watch. It's bad enough of that.. but she doesn't have a car, and she might take the car which will make it even harder for us to get together. If she has a job, she might have him watch them when she's away. Plus her room is right next to his, which will make things weird if I stay over. We wont be able to stay up too late or watch tv, talk too loud. Honestly.. it's just a pain. I feel as if I wont see him anymore. I can't stand it. Advice please? (link)
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I know how that feels, it sounds awful, but your just scared and your hating the situation. But it sounds like you love each other and you always try to work things out together, so I'm sure that's just another problem that you're going to work out. There is no way that you're going to lose him because his sister moved in or that you might see him a little less than before. I know it sucks, but usually people who love each other, bare sucky situations lol to be with each other. Maybe things will just have to be a little different, you can still stay over, but try to keep things a bit quiet, maybe eventually his sister will move out again, maybe its just temporary, or maybe she'll get her own place. All in all, the situation will be temporary, maybe you can suggest getting a babysitter or something to watch the kids. Or maybe you could get to know the kids and you can hang out together while watching the kids, its still kind of fun I promise. But I don't want you to worry, I know how it feels freaking out that you'll see each other less, which means things will be less fun, which means a probability of losing each other, but eventually things get worked out, and you just find that you worried over nothing. I'm sure he's not liking the situation either, so you should bare this together, for each other, for his sake.
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Thank you so much, you're totally right!
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