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Hi, I'm Emily. Call me Emily or Em, I prefer either. I have been a featured columnist 2 times now. After disabling my account I had about 3 years ago, a lot has happened which made me want to come back. I feel as though helping people with their problems, helps me solve mine, even if that doesn't make a lot of sense to any of you. Don't hesitate to ask me anything, I will answer fairly quickly depending on the question. If you want a hard-thought out answer, which is what I usually give, it may take a little longer- it benefits everyone in the long run.
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Okay I was dating this guy for 7 months. We dated 3, almost 4 years ago and we broke up because his mom said our maturity levels were completely different. I was 14 and he was 17.
Now Im 17 & hes 20.
The day after we broke up, he made me a pinky promise that he would propose to me on my graduation day in 2011.
A couple of months ago, he came by to see my family because while we dated, my family got really attached to him. When he came over, I got butterflies, and I felt as if my knees could colopase. Its been 3 years, and yet he still gets to me. The way he says my name made my heart skip beats like crazy, and the way he smells just gives me chills. Butt we was sitting in his truck and he was bringin back old memories that I barely remembered, and that made me happy because he didnt forget. He told me once again that the pinky promise he made me was still going to happen, and that he was going to ask me back out when I was 18 because of the age thing. He cried, and he said he was still in love with me, and it scares him because he has got over all the girls he has dated, but not me.
Why do I still have feelings for him? Are my feelings real, or was I just excited and nervous to see him? And how do I know if he's being serious? He broke my heart once, I dont want it to happen again.
Your story really moved me. From what the start of it sounded like, he really loves you, and is a really sweet guy and you should go for it. But reading the parts you added, it makes me question if he really meant what he said.
But, I think you 2 are meant to be together. I also feel as though the feelings you are feeling towards him are real. He was your first love, which is always something special. I'll always have some sort of feeling for my first love...as does everyone. Don't let this one slip between your fingers. He seems really sweet. And if what he said bothered you, talk to him about it. Do the "Shutup and Kiss Me" move!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for your time. I truely thought he loved me too, but I guess he knows he will always have me right where he wants me, and he takes full on advantage of it. Our relationship is like a rollar coaster. Some days we are up, and mostly we are down. He has a girlfriend now, and I wonder how long he has been with her; it makes me question if he was with her the day he was fishing, therefore he said all those mean, nasty things? Im not too sure. I would love to do the "Shut up and Kiss me" move, but I haven't seen him since the day he came to my house. Many times before than I have tried to hang out with him, or even talk to him over the phone, but he just doesn't seem interested. Everytime I text him, he's very short, and simple. I just don't get it. I tried talking to him about what he said, becaues it did bother me, but he said he didn't care, and he didn't have time to read it. Im just so ughhh. lol.