When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.
What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)
Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)
Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)
We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)
You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)
We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)
Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
One person can make a difference and every person should try.
The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.
Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)
The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)
When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.
Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.
Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)
The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)
Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)
DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'
Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)
The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)
Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)
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For starters, I am fifteen and female. I'm one of those girls that has a guy best friend. I trust him with my life, he's always there for me, he helps me with homework, he plays songs on his guitar when I'm down because he knows I like that, and he never ceases to put a smile on my face. Well, he has an.. let's call her an obsessor. She's all over him all the time, she asks for hugs and he's to nice to tell her no so he does. With that said, he's to nice to tell her he doesn't feel the same, so being his friend, he asked me to do it. My friend (a girl) and I were together when he texted me and asked if I could do this for him, so we texted his obsessor from my friend's phone because they don't talk so they don't have each others numbers. We told her to lay off that he doesn't feel the same and she said she'll cut off all contact with him if we are that upset about it, so that's what she did. Now, you know how most storied turn out, the best friends get together, get married, have children and live happily ever after? Yep, my friends think that will be my guy friend and I. They say he looks at me like he likes me, that he looks at me like he adores me. That they wish they could find a guy that looks at them the way he looks at me. He supposedly looks at me when I'm not looking. We don't hang out outside of school but we talk just about everyday on the phone, talking about homework or just our days. He knows everything about me and he tells me things he doesn't even tell his guy best friend. But, his dick friend started a rumor that we liked each other and now everybody calls him my "future husband" and I would text him and tell him some of the things that people were saying about us to maybe get a good laugh (rumors never used to bother him) but he doesn't laugh, he kinda gets snappy, saying he doesn't want to hear what people said. I was just wondering if you think he likes me. (link)
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Well first of all, him liking you or not has nothing to do with the obsesser story, so i'm not gonna talk about this part.
Second of all, yes its possible that he likes you, and that's probably why he gets all defensive when he sees you not taking the things that are said seriously,and that your upset about what people say as if you hate that if what they say could be true, so its as if your telling him that there is no way on earth that you could like him this way, while he possibly secretly likes you. And if he does look at you in a way and everyone agrees that there is something and you yourself think that there might be something, then there probably is something, but maybe he's not sure of it yet or is not sure how to tell you or maybe he's afraid that if he tells you, you'd reject him, and then he'd have lost you as both a friend and a lover.
I don't advice you to talk to him about it, cause that obviously might make things worse. And about people talking, let them talk, just ignore it, don't even put it in your mind, and don't even tell him what people say, just act like you don't know whats going on, and just act normally with him and with people, and for now, he's your best friend and everything is the same, till he actually says something or majorly hints around about it.
Hope i helped :D If you need anything else, or if there are any updates, please be free to contact me. Best of luck!
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