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Does he want more?
For starters, I am fifteen and female. I'm one of those girls that has a guy best friend. I trust him with my life, he's always there for me, he helps me with homework, he plays songs on his guitar when I'm down because he knows I like that, and he never ceases to put a smile on my face. Well, he has an.. let's call her an obsessor. She's all over him all the time, she asks for hugs and he's to nice to tell her no so he does. With that said, he's to nice to tell her he doesn't feel the same, so being his friend, he asked me to do it. My friend (a girl) and I were together when he texted me and asked if I could do this for him, so we texted his obsessor from my friend's phone because they don't talk so they don't have each others numbers. We told her to lay off that he doesn't feel the same and she said she'll cut off all contact with him if we are that upset about it, so that's what she did. Now, you know how most storied turn out, the best friends get together, get married, have children and live happily ever after? Yep, my friends think that will be my guy friend and I. They say he looks at me like he likes me, that he looks at me like he adores me. That they wish they could find a guy that looks at them the way he looks at me. He supposedly looks at me when I'm not looking. We don't hang out outside of school but we talk just about everyday on the phone, talking about homework or just our days. He knows everything about me and he tells me things he doesn't even tell his guy best friend. But, his dick friend started a rumor that we liked each other and now everybody calls him my "future husband" and I would text him and tell him some of the things that people were saying about us to maybe get a good laugh (rumors never used to bother him) but he doesn't laugh, he kinda gets snappy, saying he doesn't want to hear what people said. I was just wondering if you think he likes me.
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Okay I already see one thing wrong with this situation! Getting involved in a situation with him and someone else should be between not you. Your friend should not have put you in that kind of position. Sorry! Just had to say it!
As for liking you not really sure...it could go both ways...if people are saying things he might being getting aggravated and a little shy about telling. It could however swing the other way in which he could just see you as a best friend. If you two are friends just ask him...or just ask if it bothers him about the rumors that people are saying. That way you can get an idea of what he's thinking.
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Well first of all, him liking you or not has nothing to do with the obsesser story, so i'm not gonna talk about this part.
Second of all, yes its possible that he likes you, and that's probably why he gets all defensive when he sees you not taking the things that are said seriously,and that your upset about what people say as if you hate that if what they say could be true, so its as if your telling him that there is no way on earth that you could like him this way, while he possibly secretly likes you. And if he does look at you in a way and everyone agrees that there is something and you yourself think that there might be something, then there probably is something, but maybe he's not sure of it yet or is not sure how to tell you or maybe he's afraid that if he tells you, you'd reject him, and then he'd have lost you as both a friend and a lover.
I don't advice you to talk to him about it, cause that obviously might make things worse. And about people talking, let them talk, just ignore it, don't even put it in your mind, and don't even tell him what people say, just act like you don't know whats going on, and just act normally with him and with people, and for now, he's your best friend and everything is the same, till he actually says something or majorly hints around about it.
Hope i helped :D If you need anything else, or if there are any updates, please be free to contact me. Best of luck!
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he definately likes you but is too afraid to tell you! talk to him and work things out! you cant igonre for any longer i mean he is your best guy friend right?? give him a chance :) best of luck!
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Does he like you? Its entirely possible. I'd even say that it is likely. However, don't take that to mean he can't handle being just friends. If you feel the same way, talk to him about it. If not, its probably best to just ignore it.
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