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How to commit suicide the fastest, and the least painful way. (link)
It saddens me to see this. Suicide is not the way out. You are important. You are worth more than you could ever imagine. You were put on this earth for something. I'm telling you, things will get better (:. Have faith. If you ever need anyone to talk to. i'm here


17/F
So I really like this girl, and I know she likes me as well. And I want to ask her out in a really adorable way. Problem is, I won't be seeing her until late November/early December, and I really don't want to wait THAT long to ask her out.
So does anyone know any cute ways to ask someone out? Anything that I Can send to her would be good.
I really just don't want to wait, lol. I really like her a lot.
Thanks! (link)
Make a cute video and send it to her or put it up on youtube with cute music in the background& stuff {:


14/F
Hello! So me and my friend were at lunch and she said "Text me! [Her number here]". I have no problem with that at all!

But there's one TEENSY problem....... I don't know what to text her. She doesn't know my number, so I have to text her first. What should I say?

-Ashley (link)
"Hey this is ashley." ? Then she'll be like oh heey & just keep the conversation going.


Hi internet advice givers.I have some problems,it seems,i dont know.And I need them to stop.Im a 13 year old girl and puberty has nothing to do with it.I have a problem with self harm/self mutilation(since age 11),anxiety and depression.I have a lot of suicidal thoughts too, and how tottaly normal and comfortable I am with all this scares me,I guess Im just used to it but its not a very good thing to get used to.Yes my parents do know, but I did not willingly tell them.Ive been going to some therapy,and its not helped.After my mom read my journal(she took it) she thinks that I need to go to some kind of cutters rehab and thats scary too.Ive attemted suicide twice now,once when i was 11 and cut verticly on my left arm with a sharp object but missed,and the second time a couple weeks ago when I slit both of my wrists(horizontaly but really deep)took some sleeping pills and got into a hot bath. I hate how good it feels to me to slip into a restroom or something after a bad day,lock myself in,and cut on my arms,belly,hips,and legs untill the blood is so overwhelming I have to stoop and mop it up.Im also feircly bullied for my religion,becouse I am an aitheist.I am Bisexual,but no one but my best friend who is too knows.I dont want to stop at all.I dont know why,but I just dont.Why do I want to die so much?I hate myself and really do just want to die but I know i shouldnt p-leasse help me before I cut too deep its an every day thing for the last year. (link)
Okay first you have to NOT hate yourself. Please! Look im 15 and iknow sometimes bad days make us feel HORRIBLE but im pretty sure you are a great person with a big heart who is important to this world, and the people who bully you have no right in doing that. They are going to get what they deserve but until now just remember all those good memories you have, fill your head with happiness whenever you feel the need to cut yourself. Listen to your mom and go to the cutters rehab. Iknow it does sound scary but sometimes we need help from others. Find something you like , for example: a sport,or art, writing to take out what you have inside. Try not to cut anymore. When i say try i mean to do your BEST to not do it. I wish you the best & just remember to love yourself and not let ANYONE bring you down. Here is a little joke that will hopefully make you smile. "How do you make a tissue dance"? YOU PUT A LITTL BOOGIE IN IT! ha!(:
With lots of love, Erika.


One day i was going to skool and i saw a guy that i liked and my friends were asking me who i liked and i said his name and most of them seem like they were serious so they went up to his table and ask him out for me and he said yes so i dated him for 2 days then his ex-girlfriend came in the relationship and i was angry forthe day he broke up with me just for a girl that was my bf and she knew that i was datin him so i got angry at her so when i hear his name around i get sad cause i miss him. So i want you answer should i still be mad at my bf? or not? :(
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No they probably broke up over a silly thing and if they dated for a long time ,obviously they still had feelings for each other. You should make up with your best friend. Boys come and go but good friends stay. Don't let a guy come in between your friendship.


15/f
well, i'm not a very shy person i'm actual rather popular who gets along with basically everyone. i don't mean that to sound cocky.

I am ALWAYS under the assumption that I'm intruding or imposing or just plain irritating the people that I am around or talking to. I'm always apologizing. This applies mostly to upperclassmen it seems. I think I just overthink things way to much..

what can I do about this? (link)
Well sometimes i feel the same way.
All you have to do is be natural. If you want to say something SAY it without feeling that you are iritating them:)
Maybe by you apologizing, it gets them annoyed, so just try not to worry about it:)


I'm 15 & gay & a guy. I never done anything w/a girl but like 2 kisses. I been dating this guy for 2 months now & we kiss some times. He asked me last night if I thought about having sex with him. He told me before he's not a virgin. I am in all ways. So if we have sex (anal) then will that make me not a virgin? Cos obviously IM not gonna have sex w/a girl any time. (link)
yhea you would losse it :) aww thats cute
-good luck buddy


I need something to help me get my butt in shape,bigger,sexier and firmer. Heard about getabiggerbutt.com but all that is an ebook and I have heard it's a real bigtime scamtoo. I heard about Glutimax and LuvMyButt. Nothing bad about them. Anyone have any suggestions and experience with the above products? (link)
DUDE! i mean im sure your butt is fine hehe.
and im trying to loose some junk in the trunk!
(i dont like my but big):Phehe. but emm ive heard that the people with the best butts are volleyball players, soccer players. Just do high energy leg working sports- your body automatically puts energy where you need it. Fat goes to that area to feed the growing muscle therefore your butt will be larger.
goood luck :D




Are there any singing competitions like American Idol for kids? I'm 12...and I would love to do something like American Idol to be discovered, but I'm not old enough!!! (link)
Yhea just make youtube videos by famous songs many are probably listining to. :) if you really have lots of talent youl'll see how it pays of.


For starters, I am fifteen and female. I'm one of those girls that has a guy best friend. I trust him with my life, he's always there for me, he helps me with homework, he plays songs on his guitar when I'm down because he knows I like that, and he never ceases to put a smile on my face. Well, he has an.. let's call her an obsessor. She's all over him all the time, she asks for hugs and he's to nice to tell her no so he does. With that said, he's to nice to tell her he doesn't feel the same, so being his friend, he asked me to do it. My friend (a girl) and I were together when he texted me and asked if I could do this for him, so we texted his obsessor from my friend's phone because they don't talk so they don't have each others numbers. We told her to lay off that he doesn't feel the same and she said she'll cut off all contact with him if we are that upset about it, so that's what she did. Now, you know how most storied turn out, the best friends get together, get married, have children and live happily ever after? Yep, my friends think that will be my guy friend and I. They say he looks at me like he likes me, that he looks at me like he adores me. That they wish they could find a guy that looks at them the way he looks at me. He supposedly looks at me when I'm not looking. We don't hang out outside of school but we talk just about everyday on the phone, talking about homework or just our days. He knows everything about me and he tells me things he doesn't even tell his guy best friend. But, his dick friend started a rumor that we liked each other and now everybody calls him my "future husband" and I would text him and tell him some of the things that people were saying about us to maybe get a good laugh (rumors never used to bother him) but he doesn't laugh, he kinda gets snappy, saying he doesn't want to hear what people said. I was just wondering if you think he likes me. (link)
he definately likes you but is too afraid to tell you! talk to him and work things out! you cant igonre for any longer i mean he is your best guy friend right?? give him a chance :) best of luck!


14/f

first off, sorry for the stupid name of this. i didn't know what to call it.

second, i really don't want to come off as a bad friend at all. because i'm not i love my best friend it's just i don't know..

here it goes, it seems guys like my best friend better. well, to be honest i think i'm prettier than her. i know that sounds terrible but it's the truth. sure, she's pretty too but i just think i'm a little prettier. so please don't judge me or anything because i say that. anyways, she's really social. like i am too but she's more loud and talkative i guess. like she always has to have someone to talk to and i don't mind the quiet. well, she never stops talking so it does get a little annoying and my other friends agree too.

it's like every guy likes her better than me. and she's a little conceited because of it. and when i'm around her and guys it makes me feel bad about myself. i just don't see why..

thanks in advance, and please don't give me shit. i'm not a bad friend. i just really needed to get this off my chest and get advice.

and thanks if you read this all! (link)
well maybe you should be more talkative like your friend? i also have this same problem which i really dont understand why this happens? maybe one of these days you never know and that special somone may come! dont get this impatient just wait and be a little more friendlier and see what happens? hope i helped :)




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