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i feel like i bother everyone
15/f
well, i'm not a very shy person i'm actual rather popular who gets along with basically everyone. i don't mean that to sound cocky.
I am ALWAYS under the assumption that I'm intruding or imposing or just plain irritating the people that I am around or talking to. I'm always apologizing. This applies mostly to upperclassmen it seems. I think I just overthink things way to much..
what can I do about this?
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Girls are raised to be accommodating and non-confrontational, so your yen for apology is actually understandable and probably makes you seem nice (whereas it would make a guy seem weak) and considerate.
And all women overthink. Try to keep things simple. If people aren't avoiding you you aren't irritating them. You're just shy and insecure, which is very common at your age. Until someone tells you directly to piss off, just be yourself and let the chips fall where they may. That is all you can do. You can't be someone else. As long as you are basically a good person there is nothing to be ashamed of.
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Well sometimes i feel the same way.
All you have to do is be natural. If you want to say something SAY it without feeling that you are iritating them:)
Maybe by you apologizing, it gets them annoyed, so just try not to worry about it:)
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