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theres this guy who ive known for almost a year now, id say ive liked him for about 8 months now. he always knew i liked him and he always said he liked me. he wasnt ready for a relationship. we had a fall out not long ago and after that he apoligised and said he missed me and things...and now we are dating. obviously im really happy that we are now together, but it doesnt seem right to me, i dont know why. has anyone else felt like this? he is my first serious boyfriend. ive dated other guys before but they havent really meant this much to me. (link)
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It seems to me that you're afraid he is going to hurt you. It must have been hard for you when you knew he liked you back before and didn't want to go further. Deep down you're probably wondering: why didn't he want me than? What made him ready now?
You could also be worrying that there will soon be another fallout, and you don't want that because you guys are finally official like you always wanted.
To fix this, you need some reassurance from your boyfriend. Be honest with him about how you feel. Let him know how much you care about him and be open with him about your worries. Ask him if he feels the same way and if he wants things to work.
I'm sure you'll get the answers you're looking for.
Remember when he was "ready to date", he didnt choose some other girl- he picked you.
Hope I helped! If you ever need anything else, I'm here. xoxo
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