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17/f.

to make this very short, my best friend is really jealous of me & gets jealous of anything i say & do, she makes up lies and always tries to one up me. its getting on my nerves so much. its getting worse & worse. i tried to confront her about it, and she gets better for a few weeks, and then its back to her old ways. i just don't know what to do.

i dont blame you for getting annoyed. it seems like when you confront her, she wants to change, but once you've taken her back, she just does the same thing to you over and over again, which isnt what a real 'best friend' does. i would try doing the same thing she does to you, to her, just maybe less extreme, and see how she likes it. sit down and have a serious conference with her. a quick talk and "makeup" session wont work. you need to tell her exactly whats bothering you and what you want her to do to change.

hope i helped! xoxo

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(Rating: 5) my mom told me to do that to, so yeah, i think i will. thanks
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