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Hi, I'm Emily. Call me Emily or Em, I prefer either. I have been a featured columnist 2 times now. After disabling my account I had about 3 years ago, a lot has happened which made me want to come back. I feel as though helping people with their problems, helps me solve mine, even if that doesn't make a lot of sense to any of you. Don't hesitate to ask me anything, I will answer fairly quickly depending on the question. If you want a hard-thought out answer, which is what I usually give, it may take a little longer- it benefits everyone in the long run.
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why didn't ever work out in my love life I always screw up. Last year I liked this guy and to get to the point he didn't like me back and that broke my heart. :( This year I liked this guy and he liked me. He then told me he liked my friend. I wasn't going to tell him I liked him so I was stupid enough to tell him to go for it. :( Now him and my friend are going out and I feel sooooo bad. I feel like a faluire. I mean come on I like my friends boyfriend I don't know what to do.please don't tell me to stay away from him because I am doing that right now but I feel terrible. I always fall for the wrong guys. Help me is it me? I mean barely any guys ask me out and there are guys I know like me but with out knowing It I somehow manage to push them away :( help what can I do to get I a good relationship.
i dont know you, but, dont call yourself a failure or stupid. thats lowering your self-esteem and that makes it even harder to get into a good relationship. lets see if i can break this down.
its okay if guys dont like you back, your still young, from what im assuming, and you have your whole life ahead of you. the right guy will come along someday. and the guys in your life now, you wont marry, i can guarantee you.
you should be happy for your friend, dont bring her down. but, maybe you need to talk to her about your feelings, cause it seems like its really hurting you. you dont need to stay away from him, be friends with him, be friends with both of them, theres no harm in that.
its not that you fall for the wrong guys, you just dont know how to handle the situation when a guy comes into play. play it cool. act girly, guys love girls who act girly. dress to impress and guys will notice you. but, the main thing is, you need to have confidence, dont let what your feeling about boys show. be yourself and dont try to be anyone your not comfortable being. everything will work out fine, i promise.
hope i helped! xoxo
(Rating: 5) thanks your advice really helped. I just don't know if talking to friend is right to do and I don't bring her down I encourage her. I think your right I don't know how to manage things. I guess I just have to wait for the right guy. Thanks for your help.