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I love my boyfriend, well ex now. We broke up like a month ago. The break up was my idea. I felt ignored, unwanted, but I knew he loved me. I was always at the bottom of his priorities and I couldn't deal with that anymore. Ne ways we still say we're together when people ask though. We haven't really talked. But I can't get him out of my mind. I see him everyday at school and it hurts to just walk past him and pretend I don't care. When people tell me they seen him flirting with other girls and holding their hands I pretend I don't care. When I hear he even told some other girl that he likes her, I have to pretend I don't care. Well I'm tired of pretending. I finally had a real face to face conversation with him a few days ago. He said he missed me, but he never expressed any desire that he wanted to be with me anymore or that he still felt the same way about me. Even when I told him I still felt the same way about him. He called me yesterday but I was sleep and left a message, he even said "I love you" at the end. It made me happy to hear him say those words again. I really don't know what to do at this point. I love this guy, he means so much to me, I want to be with him. Its not like I haven't tried to talk to other guys because I have. They just don't give me the same feeling that my ex does. I really need advice on what to do. I don't want to bed to be with him but I don't want to truly lose him either DX. (link)


Did you try to talk to him about how you feel? Is it too late?..It very well could be. In a months time someones feeling can gradually fade away, They do things to take there mind off the hurt and start to focus on other things. If he is flirting with other girls then clearly he is trying to move on. If you didn't want to loose the connection you two had than you should of tried to talk to him about it. Communication is what keeps a relationship going and it is also what keeps it strong, You could try to talk to him but I certainly wouldn't get your hopes up on getting back together with him..afterall you were the one that broke up with him. Yes, You could talk it out and he could say no you two could become friends but there isn't any guareentee that friendship would last as he "could" very well develope trust issues. Try to talk to him but again don't hold your breath


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